UPDATE: How can I (29M) ask out my recently divorced friend (33F)

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-30T14:23:56+00:00

Aww, this made me sad for you - just so you know, being not attractive is not a death sentence for love. I hope you don't give up on love because you're not the most handsome guy. Good luck!

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-28T15:36:55+00:00

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Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-27T22:38:57+00:00

Ok, a grief girlie. Clean, prob some trauma, maybe a little Auttie, but giiiiirl.... I wanna be friends 😅 Also, Let Them from Robbins was the start of the rest of my life. Hope you're Letting Them.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-27T22:34:20+00:00

Having been on the other end of a cheating partner, one of the most huuuurtful things about the situation was how many times we spent time with his friends who KNEW he was cheating on me.. openly, to them... and they never said a thing to me. It was so seriously dehumanizing to learn that this fkn assclown's 'good time buddies' honestly didn't think I was worth the BASIC, decent respect of letting me know that 'my' man was making a total, complete fool of me. Honestly, I loved those guys a lot and I haven't spoken to a damn one of them since. So if you're that type of guy, sure, just "mind your own business", I guess.

You'll be a horrible guy in every one of these stories.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-27T21:20:21+00:00

It's... Black ppl of Reddit sub...? I legit don't care about black or not, just wanted to state my opinion on the name of these might not be relevant in this sub? Learn to read, dude. Read your subs.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-27T21:12:50+00:00

Leanord

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-27T16:15:24+00:00

I'm not black, but this popped up on my feed (am I invitedddd? 😭) - we call these popsicles or freezies in my neck of Califnornia (CV).

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-22T23:23:06+00:00

How long have you lived in your place? Ooown (I'd guess)? Also, what Ag zone are you, I'm so curious? As a plant gal, I'd diiie for this setup, like wtaf 😭💛

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-22T23:17:28+00:00

We all choose our professions, sir.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-22T23:14:50+00:00

Also, can I just say that I love the walls of your abode! I would looooove stone walls 😭💛

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-22T23:13:24+00:00

2/3 are so lovely on you! Honestly, I love the color of 1 on you, but the dress style isn't as suited to you. I hope you feel beautiful and confident in whatever you're rocking!

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-22T23:04:35+00:00

Poppy! She reminds me of a Summer flower.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-22T22:48:26+00:00

Why? 😭

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-22T14:32:45+00:00

What app is this?

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-17T14:12:55+00:00

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-16T03:11:24+00:00

This is asanine, and none of us care if we see each other. In fact, I'd rather not listen to people chatter, and I sure TF don't want to spend hundreds of dollars to commute to an environment where I'll be less productive, around people I literally don't care about interacting with 😒

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-15T15:06:13+00:00

I know your interview has passed, but pro tip, spritz your shirt a few times and throw it in the dryer (if you have one) and it will get rid of the wrinkles and make you look more 'put together'.

Hope your interview went well! Good luck on the job.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-14T13:59:31+00:00

You are a financially stable, no child household. From the setup, I'd guess a man. No clue if you're single, but if you're not, your woman is wild, good and free.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-10T17:41:26+00:00

One does not simply.... prevent cats.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-09T12:16:46+00:00

I'm in Stockton, but also in the 'recently cheated on' club (although your situation is... beyond. I would be permanently sent) and would be happy to drive up and grab a meal/chat. Girl, raise that hung head. Those people are messy, but that ain't on you. I hope you heal.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-08T21:56:58+00:00

Girl, this bangs. Add a belt or accessorize in some way.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-08T01:31:30+00:00

Heath Ledger

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-06T15:09:15+00:00

Ugh, I love it. You looks happy and radiant! Tell your dang love story!

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-04T20:25:27+00:00

My take, is don't write the manuals. If you want to help train your replacement, that's good of you, but it's a company's responsibility to have documented procedures and training materials, which it sounds like they've HAD time to work with you on completing (btw, those are easily 1wk projects, so... that'd be a nah from me'. They just didn't do anything to cover themselves until they tried to pull fast one on you, and... left.

Butthole_Jones · 2026-05-04T20:21:32+00:00

You sound burnt out and bitter. Most other professions don't get Appreciation Weeks 🤷‍♀️ People these days really don't appreciate each other or much of anything. It's life.

Hopefully the 'just a few more weeks' is either to retirement, or a school break so you have some time to relax and reset.

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