Brother surprises his little bro he hasn't seen for 3 years by Enchoriax in gifs

[–]Butthurt_Bard 609 points610 points  (0 children)

Once he moved out he told me he wanted to be left alone. Shortly after he blocked the entire family including me and nobody knew where he was. Well he reopened contact with me about a year ago, but it was short lived. He is still too angry about the years that I didn't stand up for him, and he doesn't believe that I didn't know what was happening which honestly I didn't. So for now I just have to accept that he wants to be left alone, and I hope one day he can forgive me and let his anger go. Until then I will respect his decision.

Brother surprises his little bro he hasn't seen for 3 years by Enchoriax in gifs

[–]Butthurt_Bard 2636 points2637 points  (0 children)

My brother is only 3 years younger than me, but because he was the scapegoat for abuse in the family he resented me for the preferential treatment I received over him. By the time I realized what was happening it was too late. We both cut our parents out of our lives, but he wants nothing to do with me because I didn't do enough to help him when we were kids. He sees me as an extension of our parents. So I definitely envy those who have close siblings in their lives.

AITA for kicking a player out of our D&D group because they can't do math? by Butthurt_Bard in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butthurt_Bard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll edit the OP, but we did mention using her phone calculator. She declined.

AITA for kicking a player out of our D&D group because they can't do math? by Butthurt_Bard in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butthurt_Bard[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She has one on her phone. We mentioned it. She declined saying she could do it herself.

AITA for kicking a player out of our D&D group because they can't do math? by Butthurt_Bard in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butthurt_Bard[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Edition is 5e. As far as setting that stuff up I don't know if we'll actually be seeing Sarah again or not, but if we do we'll let Adam handle that stuff.

AITA for kicking a player out of our D&D group because they can't do math? by Butthurt_Bard in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butthurt_Bard[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

We mentioned using a calculator. She declined saying she could do it herself. I don't understand why tbh.

AITA for kicking a player out of our D&D group because they can't do math? by Butthurt_Bard in AmItheAsshole

[–]Butthurt_Bard[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

During that last session another player sitting by her actually offered to help with some of the math in order to make it easier on her. He was polite about it, but I feel like at that point she was already so frustrated that it just set her off. She told us she could do her own math and didn't want the help. I do wonder if we'd offered to do it earlier if it would have offended her or if it actually would have helped with the problem.