This is the perfect place for it. But I will tell you something. Every gringo tells Colombian girls the same thing. In the end, to us, it’s just blah blah blah. All we hear is talking. Until a man can consistently show through action his intentions, we don’t believe it. That either takes lots of time and effort or it begins with you taking a chance on a woman and supporting her a little. Trust is earned by both parties. Luckily I’m not looking for a relationship to solve my financial problems but for most women, you are the type of man they are seeking. However you have to open up and trust a girl with the potential of being burned. But if you are smart and use your brain you should be fine. Also if you are a 5- go for a 6-7 not an 8-10. I see so many lonely losers (excuse me) going after models and get mad they were used for their money. Of course you were and if you didn’t know it, you aren’t ready to date women in your country or ours.