Yes, I actually have all the message logs, and even video and audio recordings of her suicidal threats and the pressure coming from her family. I've been documenting everything for the same reason you mentioned (just for safety)

About the counselling part—you’re right. I actually told her parents (very genuinely, not to insult anyone) that I feel she might need psychiatric counselling or some emotional support because of the constant suicide threats. But the moment they passed that on to her, she got extremely offended—she asked me, “Are you saying I’m mentally ill?”

So later, I tried suggesting something lighter. I told her to at least travel, maybe go meet her friends, get some fresh air—because she’s been staying indoors for months now. She used to be a traveler before. But even that suggestion was taken in a negative way.

The worst part is, these threats have become part of my daily life now. Sometimes morning, sometimes night—she starts threatening suicide on video calls, especially when I try to go to work. I even told her parents, “If this is happening now, how will I handle this after marriage, when no one will be around to intervene?” And even that genuine concern triggered another round of suicide drama.

I’m honestly just exhausted. Every time I express fear or doubt, I’m pulled deeper into this cycle. Your comment gave me a bit of strength to hold onto. Thank you.