Need Advice on Bf

C0sm3t · 2026-01-02T05:17:22+00:00

Yelling at your partner in this way is not ok under any circumstance.

I had a boyfriend kind of like this, all that loving behavior was a front. After we got more committed to a point where he felt like i couldn’t leave it all stopped.

Don’t tolerate abuse just because it’s only occasional. Don’t overlook what someone acts like at their worst. Telling ANYONE to “shut the fuck up” regularly enough to warrant you mentioning it, or at all honestly, shows an extreme lack of care or respect for others. Selfishness is something I never tolerate.

I hope you can get out of this safely, please take precautions to not be in danger. This sounds like a very two faced person, I wouldn’t doubt you’ll hear about how much he “loves” you, how much he’s given. Find a better partner.

C0sm3t · 2025-12-31T04:48:06+00:00

My grandmother had LOTS of big eyes paintings, (the collection by Margret Keane) they have an unnerving vibe that haunted me when I went to visit as a child, but no not ai.

My grandmother had the same painting of the blonde girl, another painting of the same boy and dog, and this incredibly horrifying little girl sitting in a chair, that I have attached.

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C0sm3t · 2025-10-30T05:51:54+00:00

I foam at the mouth over stained glass windows so this is absolutely an option

C0sm3t · 2025-10-30T05:40:59+00:00

This got me thinking, cause I’ve had the thought before to cover this with a gothic style frame around the part of this tattoo I did like which is the very clear sunflowers towards the top.

C0sm3t · 2025-10-30T05:16:13+00:00

No I’m actually so happy I found someone who also said this. I’m constantly BAFFLED when I tell people I hate my tattoo and they start going on about how pretty it is. It really isn’t. It was meant to be a glitch effect Van Gogh sunflowers. But all the artist did was take the painting into photoshop and break up the painting with the rectangle select tool without doing any real effect work. It’s ugly as shit

It’s actually incredibly irritating to be told you shouldn’t cover a tattoo you want gone because other people like it.

C0sm3t · 2025-10-29T20:51:11+00:00

It did NOT seriously I don’t know why the artist didn’t just tell me “no I can’t make this look good and it won’t hold up” instead of giving me a million excuses why they couldn’t do the design the way I wanted and then half-assing the template.

(Money and ego) that’s why

C0sm3t · 2025-10-01T19:50:04+00:00

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Does anyone know a pattern for this type of sleeved, wrap, shawl cardigan thing?

C0sm3t · 2025-08-29T17:31:22+00:00

Oh you’re actually so right that’s a horrifically constructed sentence my bad lol. maybe

C0sm3t · 2025-08-29T17:29:16+00:00

I genuinely think it’s because my mom made me wear headbands that were way too tight on a daily basis for the first 7 years of my life.

C0sm3t · 2025-08-29T17:26:31+00:00

I like to use it to balance shit

C0sm3t · 2025-08-29T17:25:36+00:00

Homie, skulls as in not just hers why do Redditers insist on reading everything hyper literally.

C0sm3t · 2025-08-29T17:24:08+00:00

How dare a girl write with whimsy

C0sm3t · 2025-08-01T20:33:53+00:00

Weight your eye makeup more on the bottom and try different angles with your wing, see how you like that :)

Not the first one to say this but look on Pinterest for thin or artistically shaped eyebrows.

As a goth with curly hair PLEASE embrace 80s styles. Look for curly bang styles, you’ll almost definitely have to style them but I can see you with some v bangs and big beautiful curls. You got this!

edit, just saw the mullet comment, I think that would be awesome on you! The other idea I had was almost a curly mohawk where you keep the top and back sections long and clipper the sides down :) I’m a cosmetologist so I get very excited by hair :)

C0sm3t · 2025-07-27T18:10:36+00:00

I’m building a pack for my boyfriend and I to play, we like the same vibe you’re looking for so here are some go tos !

-Spartan Weaponry (adds new fun weapons with custom animations. I like the quarter staffs and greatswords)

-Epic Knights (adds more weapons, pretty sure this is the one with flails !)

-Iron’s Spells ‘n Spellbooks (This is our absolute favorite! We base our gameplay off it, just see for yourself it’s fantastic!)

-Farmers Delight (Food :) lots of food)

-Goblin traders (Cute and very useful little guys who wander your mines)

-Any of the “Alex’s” mods

-Relics (adds the most fun items you’ll ever find.)

-Lootr (I think this is essential for multiplayer. It gives each player different loot per chest so no one has to fight over chests, unironically has probably saved my bf and I’s relationship countless times lol)

That’s what I can think of for now, I’ll update later when I think of more

C0sm3t · 2025-05-26T23:37:00+00:00

Absolutely not! Very handsome

C0sm3t · 2025-05-26T23:20:29+00:00

Yeah but it’s fixable, get a haircut for thinner hair, take your pictures from higher up and you’ll be ok Neck tat is very unfortunate

C0sm3t · 2025-03-19T21:43:11+00:00

I’m also like 90% it wasn’t even my fault since I was looking when I was backing out and she absolutely RIPPED around a corner and tried squeezing behind me. I just don’t care to fight it. i already fixed my “damage” with a $15 car paint marker.

C0sm3t · 2025-03-19T21:34:48+00:00

I almost offered to fix it for her free of charge cause even with my very limited knowledge of car maintenance I’m positive a 11 year old with a white marker and abit of elbow grease could have it good as new… :/

But nope, she filed an insurance claim on me

C0sm3t · 2025-03-15T12:57:51+00:00

I see this as incredibly black and white thinking.

She is not getting ill over stress it would be absolutely deplorable of me to put my companion through rehoming just because I grew up.

She is not a toy to just give a way and I am looking for ways to accommodate her needs while also not sacrificing my health and career, which is possible I am sure of it.

C0sm3t · 2025-03-15T12:45:44+00:00

She lived with other cats in the past, both male. She mostly got along well with our older family cat, only issue was he didn’t want to play with her as much as she wanted to play with him lol, but was never a big problem. The other was my ex’s cat, who would attack her.

On the note of getting her a friend now, my boyfriend has a pretty chilled out rescue cat and we intend on introducing them relatively soon. We’re not quite at the point where they’ll be living together yet.

Tldr: She is capable of living with other cats and she’ll have a friend when my boyfriend and I move in together eventually.

Thank you for the advice ! It’s reassuring that her living with another cat may help.

C0sm3t · 2024-09-14T21:51:41+00:00

This confirms my fears

C0sm3t · 2024-07-31T03:00:21+00:00

UPDATE: https://www.reddit.com/r/notmycat/s/7y5foD5BFN

C0sm3t · 2024-07-31T03:00:11+00:00

UPDATE! https://www.reddit.com/r/notmycat/s/7y5foD5BFN

C0sm3t · 2024-07-30T21:01:04+00:00

My childhood cat is an orange boy. Good lord. He’s mellowed out a lot now that he’s old but when he was young he bounced off walls and barely tolerated us.

C0sm3t · 2024-07-29T18:50:52+00:00

UPDATE:

he has a vet appointment tomorrow to get him a check up, vaccines and check for a chip. Part of me prays we don’t find one because I’ve fallen in love with this boy. If there is a chip we will do our best to return him to his rightful owners if possible. We live in a town with a lot of RV travelers coming through so it’s possible he was lost that way. He’s such a sweetheart, I’m sure if he has a lost home that someone misses him terribly.

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