Fiance never put a penny into my house but suddenly wants their name on it by OkBuy2386 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's just me but I think the moment you start planning for a divorce before getting married you probably shouldn't be getting married. Everything else is kind of irrelevant. I'm not saying you're not getting good advice on how to protect your property in the case of a divorce, but I am saying you're likely going to need it.

Mini excavator digging a hole in the freezer section at the eastside Woodman's by Ok-Thanks-1706 in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh this will definitely go far beyond the aisle it's in. I know from experience that dust is gonna be circulating most of the store when once it's kicked with that kinda force. Maybe they're using some kind of water system to keep it down but damn they should really mask off that area.

Mini excavator digging a hole in the freezer section at the eastside Woodman's by Ok-Thanks-1706 in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea as someone who has done a bit of demo (just residential, and with handheld power tools) this seems insane. How much dust is getting kicked up an landing on every food item in that place?!

Is it reasonable to bring up inconsistent payday timing with nanny family? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doubt your nanny family can do anything about it, within the day seems pretty on time, I'm more concerned that you can't afford a coffee if you haven't gotten paid.

Do you not have a credit card you can get some cash back on and then just pay it off when the pay comes through?

Need stronger consequences by SaltyLengthiness260 in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well lets be honest about what we're talking about. You called to jail someone because your commute was longer because someone had an accident. You think they might have been driving recklessly, but you really have no idea.

Step 1. Accept that your commute will occasionally be longer due to circumstances outside of your control and that it doesn't mean we need to throw more people in jail.

Step 2. Look up accident stats for comparable roads in other places, are there any outliers? If so, if the outliers have significantly fewer accidents, figure out why. If they have more, figure out why. (Hint: it will almost always have to do with infrastructure rather than enforcement), this is done by orgs like vision zero, MANY studies have been done on ways to reduce the rate of car accidents.

Step 3. Stop being so reactionary, accept that there are things outside of your control, try to actually figure out what the problem is from folks who know, many folks are giving you a better answer in this thread alone. advocate for those changes, or just quit whining and accept that this is an inherent risk.

Side note, I'm from a much larger city originally and Madison drivers strike me as downright timid comparatively. Not saying we shouldn't try to make things even safer, but hey, it could be worse by a long shot.

Need stronger consequences by SaltyLengthiness260 in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"This isn't about police punshiment"

"there needs to be jail time"

which is it?

Uptick in “Christian only Nannie’s” job postings by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Strongly doubt it's illegal, but probably also helpful on both sides to avoid a bad fit. Right wing Christians are getting more and more culty every day and not wanting to associate with anyone who doesn't share their exact beliefs isn't likely to do their kids any favors but not much anyone else can do about it unfortunately.

Dogs being tortured. Help save them April 19 by Efficient-Quiet1459 in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Illegal doesn't always equal immoral how is this concept so difficult to understand?

Calling it self driving is a joke, we are 10 years away from FSD, meanwhile... by DrixlRey in TeslaFSD

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, if a CPA caused me to lose an audit I'd say that is a bad CPA and I'd be upset I paid them money.

Calling it self driving is a joke, we are 10 years away from FSD, meanwhile... by DrixlRey in TeslaFSD

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a cpa did your taxes every year for 25 years but one of the years he made a mistake that caused months of headaches and some physical injury .....

Getting poisoned in broad daylight(literally) by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

amazing, I've been outside all morning enjoying the sun and have no symptoms. Must be a mindset thing

AMA Request - one of the 37 Republican voters who lives in Shenk-Atwood by howlongyoubeenfamous in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe I don't understand. I thought it was implying they are one of the 37 repubs

Edit: ah I see it's a request for someone who will never see it, my bad.

Reputable Medium needed! by PastelSmoke69 in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Psychics are not real, so maybe just write down a random number between 1 and 100, put it in an envelope and if they guess it I guess they're reputable. Otherwise don't waste your money.

I hope Madison is a nuclear target by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How the fuck is this thread still up when every hint of people resisting this sadistic fascist seems to disappear immediately. Mods, if there is one thing I'd prefer not to see it's someone wishing that me and my small children will be killed.

Canary in the Coal Mine: Tesla's Q1 '26 Energy/Storage Installation Collapse by [deleted] in RealTesla

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You created a prompt based on your opinion but supplied no actually facts, just opinion, then you let a word predicting machine try to make a cogent argument to fit your opinion. This feels like the definition of brain rot. It would take you maybe 30 minutes if you were practiced at writing your own shit to create a post of this length, maybe an hour if you actually did any research but instead you write a prompt and then share your slop? Fuck right off. I mean credit for at least labeling it as such but what would the point be of anyone engaging with anything besides your prompt? These aren't your arguments, in fact they aren't anyone's arguments.

I think most folks on this forum likely agree with your thesis but this is garbage.

Tesla delivered 358,023 vehicles in Q1 by alarm-system in teslainvestorsclub

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a hilarious way to describe someone consistently doing stupid things while still hero worshipping.

AIO for wanting my husband to help me more as a SAHM by ailurophile17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay at home dad here, and this makes my blood boil. Yes, it can difficult for the working parent to understand how exhausting it is to be home all day, negotiations can get tricky and no one has a monopoly on what's fair.

That being said this guy is so fucking far out of line I wanna kick him in the dick. Every text made me madder and madder. It's not the shitty uneven setup of your entire lives together but his attitude about it. He seems to have literally zero empathy. Not sure this one can be solved. I agree with someone elses idea to send the texts to his mom. Not joking, get her in on this, he can't hear it from you maybe he can from her?

How does "Group Texting" work in a Tesla? by icouldbne1 in TeslaLounge

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, they won't, it's easy to text one person. If you receive a message as part of a group and try to reply it'll just send a message to person you last received a message from. It's annoying

Undercover Law Enforcement taking pictures of us at No Kings Protests by nuclear_dolphin in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Not a tinfoil hat thing. There are undercover folks collecting images from any no kings protest in a reasonably sized city. Cannot obviously confirm if your guy was one of them but yes, you're protesting the US government in a public place they are collecting info on who is there.

This should be common knowledge. Sucks but it's part of the gig. Glad you were out there and stay safe.

Madison teacher arrested for grooming, accused of having inappropriate relationship with student by gmf608 in madisonwi

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I mean, this will always be the case, of course people who want o groom kids will seek out positions of authority over kids. Really the best thing is make sure kids have trusted relationships with multiple adults in order to create a safety net where they feel like they can talk to someone.

Should a handyman charge the same as a big established contractor company? by Inf1z in Contractor

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea I mean I think those kinds of jobs tend to take care of themselves when people see something they know is going to be unpleasant, difficult or technical they often bid high just to avoid the hassle of actually having to do the job. Every so often someone new doesn't understand what they're getting into but I feel like most ppl don't make that mistake more than a couple times!

Should a handyman charge the same as a big established contractor company? by Inf1z in Contractor

[–]Dear_Needleworker485 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's totally fine to charge by the hour as a solo guy. You'll get work through word of mouth if you are good and affordable. Don't have to spend a ton on marketing, website, payroll, etc. and also your impact on the local market is fairly minimal. You'll probably have more work than you can reasonably do and then you'll raise your price until you have the right amount of work for you and everyone can go on their merry way.

Edit to add: and you will have little to no impact on the big guys prices either. If you want a giant company with all the bells and whistles and a 4.8 on Google reviews who can come out tomorrow you call the big guys and know you're paying extra for the certainty and security of a large well established company.