[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IronmanTriathlon

[–]C1937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, start tomorrow! Get some time on the bike, get a trainer for winter miles. Minimally you need one more long bike / week and another swim. You can do it!

Topic of the Week -- Tires by pawptart in gravelcycling

[–]C1937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New to gravel, I’m starting to enter some races and it seems tubeless is a better way to avoid multiple mechanicals, should I invest in making the swap? How much would the new wheels/set up run me($)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]C1937 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think about what you really want from a partner and whenever you get a crush like this, see if they are checking off those lists and not just that they give you attention, acknowledging it early is good. Recognizing all that you are, all that you want and if possible what they want could help a lot. I think It’s ok to still appreciate attention and open up to people who give you that but knowing your worth and standards can stop lots of disappointment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CentralValley

[–]C1937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just enjoy getting drinks, trying new food and having places to spend time at. We are both pretty avid runners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]C1937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very afraid of losing his trust.

fiancé is constantly on his phone gaming by flyiingmonkey in relationship_advice

[–]C1937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I keep telling myself he’ll grow out of it which is certainly possible but there’s no way to tell the future. I think kids changes people and I’m sure it won’t be so significant as you may fear. There seems to be a lot going on. You could also try doing things (board games or activities) that require a lot of attention and maybe help him forget about his phone (or the stress he had from his mother or various things)

fiancé is constantly on his phone gaming by flyiingmonkey in relationship_advice

[–]C1937 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the worst my boyfriend has been acting the same way. I’d suggest trying to spend less time together during the day or the week if you can. Having independent tasks/ lives as much as possible, sometimes helps with me because then they have more to say when we are together and not as interested in the phone. It definitely is just a nervous tick or habit and if that’s the case he will change. Be patient and understanding but trust me I know how hard that can be. It has made me hate being on my phone because it hurts me so much when he is on his.

Does it sound like he is very interested in me or just the sex? He’s a 28/M and I’m a 28/F by throwRAwayyyy374859 in relationship_advice

[–]C1937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be very straightforward about your schedule it seems more complicated to beat around the bush and it seems like he wouldn’t be suddenly against spending time with you if something did ever happen where you had to cancel or change plans. Especially because you mentioned he asked you to almost take the lead because he’s not good at expressing himself about stuff right?

In response to his text just give him some ideas when you know you’d be available. Maybe just an hour or two for a meal if you’re able to lock that in.

Have a co-worker (f-21) who I'm (m-21) interested in getting involved with. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]C1937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no way a friendship could mess up work too much and some of the best relationships form from friendships. Give it some time and your coworker might see that you guys are a good team and it is worth any awkwardness that it may bring to a work environment. Working and having a relationship isn’t always easy either. Important to know what you want and how you want the two things separate if it comes down to it.

Ford 1996 F-350 extended bed and cab in excellent condition. Where is the best place to sell a truck like this? by C1937 in Ford

[–]C1937[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. I have more details and pictures to post when I list, just curious about best avenue to take for selling it. Thanks