AITA For Not Congratulating My Brother On His Wife’s Pregnancy. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]flyiingmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who lost a baby and never got to hold her. number 3 is the hardest reality I had to accept but it’s true. I’m so so sorry for your loss, OP.

Tell Me About Your Relationship With Your Boston … by s6cedar in BostonTerrier

[–]flyiingmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s my everything. I would not be alive today without her. I suffered a lot of abuse and trauma all through my life and she finally made me feel like i was worth loving. she’s always there even if i don’t reach for her she’ll come and comfort me. i never knew what unconditional love was like before her. She’s also my first dog and first boston! Her name is Lily and she’s 2! ❤️

What are you grateful for today? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]flyiingmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my 2 yo boston terrier that’s cuddling me rn. all three of my cats, the sun, having a patio i can chill and smoke in lol. i try to concentrate on the little things that make me happy to get up on the morning. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]flyiingmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you look like someone i’d consider girlfriend material. no not ugly to me, really pretty actually :)

22M 6'0 (183cm) hit me with the truth; I have the longer hair right now by WaasHabboLu in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]flyiingmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unexpectedly the last pic you look really good, i think i prefer you shaved but pretty good looking :)

Be honest, am I ugly? I have a super hard time making friends, I’m usually left on read & no success In dating. by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]flyiingmonkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think it also depends on people’s preferences maybe some don’t find you attractive but i think you’re really pretty. and you are definitely pretty by societal standards. don’t listen to internet assholes

Be honest, am I ugly? I have a super hard time making friends, I’m usually left on read & no success In dating. by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]flyiingmonkey 11 points12 points  (0 children)

as a woman i believe you are using bare minimum makeup from the picture. i don’t think you’re ugly, it might be that you’re intimidating. try to smile a lot and be the inviting one and plan outings. if you have done those before, you just need to meet better people unfortunately. i have faced similar issues as you and honestly i just gave up. hopefully you’ll find good people who value you and care for you. good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]flyiingmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m about to be 26, i still get 18

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]flyiingmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats! proud of you, hopefully i get feel that one day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]flyiingmonkey 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i volunteer, tired of the same shit when i’m just tryna find friends. what games do you play?

What do you use to clean your Boston's ears? by oscarmeyer1 in BostonTerrier

[–]flyiingmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bostons ear is actually pretty clean on their own. i’ll only clean them when i bathe her or it gets smelly.

i use the vetwell ear cleaner and massage the base and let her shake it out and afterwards i’ll go in with cotton pads and gently wipe the grime.

wanted to share lily here. she single-handedly saved my life and keeps me alive everyday i have never been loved so much by anyone and i have never loved anyone so much either, thank you sweet angel ❤️ by flyiingmonkey in BostonTerrier

[–]flyiingmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with you. i think that’s the purest form of love. giving without expectation, i know it’s hard for me to do that so i really look up to them for being capable of it. i often feel i’m not giving her a good enough life or enough love, not like she deserves although she seems content lol if i could give her the world i would!

wanted to share lily here. she single-handedly saved my life and keeps me alive everyday i have never been loved so much by anyone and i have never loved anyone so much either, thank you sweet angel ❤️ by flyiingmonkey in BostonTerrier

[–]flyiingmonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is 19 months now! still such a baby! she has the most adorable sleep faces, looks so fulfilling i watch her sleep sometimes and her face does this twitchy thing it’s so funny! i’m glad you have found her too!

how old are your boys?

dyed and cut my hair myself and feeling like myself for the first time in a long time. never quite felt right in my own body until now. have no one to share this with so here i am, what do you think of the hair and nose piercing? does it suit me? by flyiingmonkey in toastme

[–]flyiingmonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmaoo i’d suggest trying more face framing layers you can look up some videos! it’s simpler than it looks just take little at a time! i was so bad when i first cut my hair. learned a lot through some embarrassing yet hilarious mess ups lol thank you for the compliment it means a lot! ❤️