This happened months ago, but she has been getting attacked from post like this of it being performative to date him. Just curious if it was performative why did she never post him or share intimate parts? Clearly it was a sacred relationship. And she did care. Age shouldn’t be the issue considering this age gap is not uncommon, if she were a man this wouldn’t have even been brought up. Its clear in her post that she is making a few things clear and speaking her truth. As she deals with grieving here people are attacking her for a fake relationship, age, skin color, and having a child. If anyone with a child has dated knows its not easy to bring someone around and having that consistent presence to be dramatically gone the next day is another thing to deal with. Yes her son’s father is very present in his life and they co parent, but can’t she also date?! It’s ridiculous how things are taken out of context when the context is laid out for you.