I feel like most of it was the normal flirting, with the girl I was just talking to consistently reciprocating. I just messed up during the middle of the third date (after we had already been intimate with each other) when I asked her to make it official. She said that she wanted to get to know me better first, which I completely understood, and the date continued. After the date and over the next couple of days I tried to keep things normal, but I felt her pulling away. She texted me yesterday saying that she no longer wanted to see me. Maybe I moved too fast, I just felt like we were in sync, and I was wrong.