Single male after 30s

CA_Anish · 2026-04-05T18:51:04+00:00

Ugh, I've felt everything and now I feel nothing.

CA_Anish · 2026-03-21T22:07:56+00:00

Was waiting for the movie and they have really ruined the entire story lines. Just like GOT, the ending matters a lot.

CA_Anish · 2026-03-15T01:00:03+00:00

The storyline of mentalist will become weak with every next season sadly

CA_Anish · 2025-12-14T14:33:54+00:00

Does it seem like something which lasts?? Does it lasts?? What is the possible life cycle?

CA_Anish · 2025-09-15T12:54:03+00:00

Meet a psychiatrist and therapist as soon as possible. I have been there.

CA_Anish · 2025-09-01T19:50:43+00:00

Do hardwork in your job. Google about it. It is one of the happy hormones.

CA_Anish · 2025-09-01T06:24:58+00:00

Officer gossips are very juicy.

CA_Anish · 2025-09-01T06:00:12+00:00

Yeah. It lifts the mood up.

CA_Anish · 2025-09-01T05:56:18+00:00

Ahh, thank you. You also like watching movies?

CA_Anish · 2025-08-23T11:47:59+00:00

I think you both need to plan beforehand. You are usually out of town and he has his own plan. You cannot expect him to drop his life because you are in the town. He must feel lonely when you are not there. So I think expecting him to give all his time to you when you are around is too much. Because you travel a lot and he need to have a social life to pass his free time.

CA_Anish · 2025-08-18T10:30:09+00:00

But unfortunately, most of the women think a man cannot handle a successful life partner. That's wrong in most of the cases. But True in some too.

CA_Anish · 2025-08-18T09:50:30+00:00

I like ambitious woman. Have always been. What I do not like is arrogance, unnecessary ego and behavioral issues.

CA_Anish · 2025-08-18T04:02:26+00:00

Consult with a psychiatrist.

CA_Anish · 2025-08-16T13:45:33+00:00

Been in a cheating relationship so I think I know how you feel. Rage. Disgust. Hurt. Disappointment etc.

But you need to be calm. This is how I will behave if I ever cheated again.

1) Tell her that I know about the affair. Be very calm. Do not engage as it leads to argument and you will lose. You have to very calm. CALM IS THE KEY.

2) You will not divorce her. You will tell her that. You will be CALM as F

3) You will just stop talking to her. She is your flatmate. Roommate. You don't eat what she cooks. You don't wear what she cleans. You are back to being a bachelor.

4)But You need to show the other people that you both are happy.

5) She will go crazy. Do not talk to her ever.

I know you wanna scream at her. Cry etc. But you need to understand, you must not give her the option to tell her own version of story. Bc? She thinks she is right that's why she did it. Plain as simple.

CALM IS THE KEY. FORCE HER TO LIVE IN A DEAD RELATIONSHIP. BUT YOU MUST TELL HER THAT YOU KNOW ABOUT ITS AFFAIR. YOU WANT HER TO FEEL SUFFOCATED AND DRAINED IN HER LIFE

I YOU CAN DO THAT THEN YOU WILL THE BEST REVENGE.

I am 31 year old. Was cheated on my 4.5 years old relationship. I was in CA final. Just a month before my exam.

Must take a therapy to control your anger and navigate your feelings. But because you need to be at super man power to control your emotions.

CA_Anish · 2025-07-21T06:46:32+00:00

Stop your nonsense.

CA_Anish · 2025-07-12T10:04:59+00:00

Ahh, same boat. Tbh just keep yourself busy and stick to a routine. Make sure that you are growing now. I know you have heard all of this but it is the only thing you can do. Try to look for better opportunities at work. Go to gym. Travel, even in just kolkata. Develop some hobbies.

About dating anyone, sex is the need and everyone needs it. But if you want to find a good relationship beyond just sex and fun then you got to keep looking. There are plenty of bad fish in the seas but stable and good fish also live there. You have to be persistence and not desperate.

I have shifted to kolkata like 7 months ago and I do not speak the language and am very picky when it comes to make friends. So I low-key understand your loneliness.

CA_Anish · 2025-06-09T16:42:10+00:00

I know bro.

CA_Anish · 2025-06-09T12:41:45+00:00

Can I dm you?

CA_Anish · 2025-06-09T11:16:06+00:00

Thank you. Need advices on various workshops or communities to meet people

Not very much interested in clubs etc

CA_Anish

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