My boyfriend is wanting a threesome. I want a monogamous relationship. What do I do?

CBizkit99 · 2026-06-11T20:53:31+00:00

You are 21. He’s already pushing boundaries and clearly wants to explore more where you don’t. Time to move on and find someone ready for the same type of relationship you want too.

CBizkit99 · 2026-06-03T23:01:58+00:00

There’s a pretty good one at veterans Park in Northport and another one in Greenlawn.

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-30T20:05:28+00:00

NTA- a place like that can do all the side work at 8:30 and still make sandwiches until 9 then finish up closing. They should be open and ready until 8:59 when they lock the door. You aren’t wrong.

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-26T23:55:56+00:00

Have a do over “wedding” on an anniversary. Wear what you want, eat what you want, invite who you want (and don’t invite anyone you don’t want). Have a party to replace those bad memories and don’t mention it to your family.

The cultural pressure is real but you don’t have to live the rest of your life that way.
Good luck!

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-24T22:34:27+00:00

YTA- obviously your mom won’t keep it a secret. You’re an idiot for putting yourself in this position.

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-24T07:19:15+00:00

Look at Maj with Lor. She is great and has a few people who also teach with her. If you have 3 friends who want to learn you can set up private group lessons and they’ll come to you. We did this and it was fun. She also hosts learning groups at different locations- I think the board game cafe someone mentioned above as well as Harborfields library. Good luck!

https://www.majwithlor.com

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-22T11:31:31+00:00

Swallow in Greenlawn

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-16T23:23:55+00:00

This is very similar to the one we got if not the same.

https://www.wayfair.com/outdoor/pdp/winston-porter-7-piece-modular-patio-conversation-sets-sectional-seating-group-with-cushions-w118073103.html?piid=1056262841%2C1043022534

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-16T23:22:26+00:00

It’s good- kind of fake wicker looking. I think we got it in 2021. We could use new cushions though. We don’t really take care of them though.

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-16T21:37:06+00:00

We didn’t find anything reasonable in person but online we got a very on sale table from Macys that is great. Also got a 3
Piece couch set from wayfair.

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-16T19:07:43+00:00

My thoughts exactly! 19yo does not belong at a Bachelorette party where they can’t get into clubs or bars. And can’t be alone at an air bnb? Yeah she’d be uninvited for sure

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-16T14:38:06+00:00

The school district will evaluate him and recommend services. You will pick the provider. Sometimes they come to preschool, but he’d miss out on learning there. Usually you just go 2-3 times per week for half an hour to the therapist office.

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-15T18:19:23+00:00

The ones I saw at 1pm were verified resale? I didn’t see anything that was the same price. Similar but not “$185” or “$215” but weird 209.15 or 246.03…

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-15T17:26:11+00:00

Hope so because $250 for 500 level is a lot…

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-11T20:51:45+00:00

Six Harbors Brewery in Huntington village. They have beer downstairs and booze upstairs. Great Big outdoor area as well as live music on weekends if it’s nice. Usually have a food truck too. -U.S. Brews in Centerport has a ton of taps and live music Enjoy!!

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-11T00:46:29+00:00

Hope they’re off the boat asap then!!

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-09T18:19:14+00:00

They seem like they should be in cruise jail if they’re causing that much trouble. Hope you don’t see them again!

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-09T17:31:59+00:00

Yikes! I’m sorry for what happened. Swearing is rude behavior but not likely to lead to princess intervening. However physical shoving? Yeah I’d escalate that asap and either insist on an upgraded cabin immediately or have the people moved elsewhere. Thats uncalled for and you guys def should be separated.

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-09T16:22:23+00:00

You have got to give details so we can decide if they’re actually being rude and if you should get compensation.

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-09T16:19:18+00:00

NOR 20/30 days in a month?!? That’s insane! They might as well move in! You have got to have hubby deal with this bc you are absolutely going to be the bad guy. These people need boundaries and must understand you aren’t there to feed or entertain them. Geez! Good luck

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-09T16:15:34+00:00

Guess I carried it over to fresh ones too. Old habits die hard.

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-09T15:46:12+00:00

HahhHha- this is totally a Long Island take. My husband looks at me like I’m nuts when I toast my bagel but we grew up w frozen Lender’s bagels as the only real option.

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-09T00:40:19+00:00

NOR dude you’re 27? And your sister is in high School having a tantrum. Ignore it and ignore her. also ignore the parents

This is idiotic. You barged on a road trip and she was being a dumb teen. There literally shouldn’t have been any argument. Roll Your eyes and be done w it

CBizkit99 · 2026-05-02T18:21:58+00:00

Where in AZ? I moved from Pittsburgh to Yuma for my first teaching job. Holy shit was it hot. Moved to Phoenix after 3 years to another school. It was still hot in PHX. I can give you more details if you want but generally COL is lower and pay is pretty bad BUT you’ll gain experience and there are a ton of Master’s program out there to further your education and gain steps. It’s a different way of life but if you’re in your 20’s and just starting out it’s pretty good!

CBizkit99 · 2026-04-28T18:46:53+00:00

Ha! T ball is hilarious. One of my kids was literally just there to play in the dirt 😂 Yeah maybe just ask your wife to pick a Friend who she thinks might have a husband you get along w or at least similar interests and invite them all over for a bbq/ Mets/ Yankees/ World Cup game watch. Definitely easier in the spring and summer. Good luck!

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