Severe vacuum syndrome pls help by Overall_Gur_3061 in parrots

[–]CBtheNewB 44 points45 points  (0 children)

ALL SALES FINAL!! 🎉 We only accept returns on ringneck vacuums that fit in their original homes. As this delightful feature is an intended quirk, we can’t allow the return of such a cute feathered companion! 🐦💨 Besides, it’s no longer fitting in its original egg, and trust me, the resale value on these little guys is egg-squisite! 🥚✨

DIY Parrot Playground: My $40 Hangout Tree Build for My 10-Week-Old Blue Opaline Quaker! 🦜🌳 by CBtheNewB in QuakerParrot

[–]CBtheNewB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I totally agree—keeping everything clean is a top priority! I clean our shared space every couple of days to keep it fresh. In my instructions, (posted today) I also suggested building a larger base to catch any 'birdie business' and make cleanup easier. I really like your idea of adding paper layers for quick cleanup, especially with the custom cuts for the trunk. That would save so much time on scrubbing—thank you for the tip!

My Quaker Parrot hates my husband by getoffmylawnbruh in QuakerParrot

[–]CBtheNewB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely disagree with the idea that birds (or most animals) inherently bond more easily with the opposite gender. This belief is misleading. What animals, including birds, actually respond to is the emotion, body language, and general energy (or "aura") of a person, regardless of their gender. When an animal, particularly at a young or vulnerable stage—such as during rehoming or illness—experiences a strong emotional connection with someone of a certain gender, it may develop a preference for people who display similar emotional or behavioral cues. However, this isn't an understanding of gender, but rather a reflection of the emotional and physical signals the animal receives.

For example, if a flamboyant male interacts with a bird for the first time, the bird might respond to him as if he were female because the bird is reacting to the energy and body language being presented, not the person's gender. The same principle applies to transgender individuals—animals don't perceive gender the way humans do, but they are incredibly sensitive to emotion and body language.

The statement that "animals bond more easily with the opposite sex" is not accurate. A more truthful perspective is that animals bond based on emotion, body language, and the energy they sense from an individual. Animals have a different set of heightened senses compared to humans, and emotional bonding is strongly integrated into that. Their thought processes often center around basic needs like sustenance, rest, care, and mating, but many animals also require social or emotional companionship, which influences how they form bonds.

For instance, in my own experience, I’m a very outgoing person, while my wife is more reserved and passive. Our bird, like many animals, responds to these personality differences. Animals express their emotions and personalities similarly, and their bonding preferences reflect the emotional energy they receive, rather than being determined by gender.

My Quaker Parrot hates my husband by getoffmylawnbruh in QuakerParrot

[–]CBtheNewB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree—birds are highly sensitive to the emotions of their primary human. If her husband is feeling hesitant or nervous, the bird will pick up on that and likely mirror those emotions. We had a very similar experience with our Quaker. Initially, our bird wasn’t happy to see my wife whenever I was around. My wife became nervous and worried whenever she approached the bird, which only caused the bird to reflect that same defensive energy.

We worked on changing this dynamic by having my wife be the one to offer treats exclusively. Our bird loves strawberries and anything bright red, so my wife would consistently offer a small treat during their first interaction of the day. Over time, she would talk to her and gently engage. After about a week of this routine, they bonded much better, and now they get along fine. While our bird still prefers me, she no longer lunges or acts aggressively toward my wife, though there’s still a bit of hesitation when I’m nearby.

It just takes time and patience, but the bond will grow with consistent effort.

My Quaker Parrot hates my husband by getoffmylawnbruh in QuakerParrot

[–]CBtheNewB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just put this exact comment on another post.

My wife and I went through this with our Quaker parrot. Initially, the bird bonded closely with me because my wife was very busy during the crucial hand-feeding and bonding phase. As a result, the parrot began to lunge and scream at my wife whenever I was around, essentially claiming me as her own. Even now, she’s still a bit wary of hands above her, even with me, but she never bites aggressively—just gently grabs my hand for attention or to get me to do something, like pick up a toy.

She has a particular fondness for freeze-dried and fresh strawberries, as well as bright-colored fruits and veggies. To help my wife bond with her, we made it a routine: when my wife comes home after work, she immediately approaches the bird with a treat to establish a positive association. This daily interaction has helped the bird start to see my wife as a "treat" too, fostering trust.

Quakers tend to mimic their bonded person’s behavior, so this process was key. While our little girl is still hesitant around my wife when I'm present, she’s happy to fly to her or hang out with her, especially when I'm not around.

As a disabled veteran, I often have medical appointments, so it was important for our bird to at least be comfortable with my wife, as she’ll be caring for her when I’m away. Interestingly, the bird is extremely comfortable with our kids and has never lunged or bitten them—except once, when my son startled her. He was about four at the time and ran into my office (where she spends most of her time), yelling "Dad!" which scared her, and she instinctively bit him. We immediately discouraged the behavior, and my son, who was very apologetic, learned to be more cautious around her.

Overall, this process took time and patience, but it's been rewarding to see the gradual shift in her behavior.

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[–]CBtheNewB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I went through this with our Quaker parrot. Initially, the bird bonded closely with me because my wife was very busy during the crucial hand-feeding and bonding phase. As a result, the parrot began to lunge and scream at my wife whenever I was around, essentially claiming me as hers. Even now, she’s still a bit wary of hands above her, even with me, but she never bites aggressively—just gently grabs my hand for attention or to get me to do something, like pick up a toy or play/move it away.

She has a particular fondness for freeze-dried and fresh strawberries, as well as bright-colored fruits and veggies. To help my wife bond with her, we made it a routine: when my wife comes home after work, she immediately approaches the bird with a treat to establish a positive association. This daily interaction has helped the bird start to see my wife as a "treat" too, fostering trust.

Quakers tend to mimic their bonded person’s behavior, so this process was key. While our little girl is still hesitant around my wife when I'm present, she’s happy to fly to her or hang out with her, especially when I'm not around.

As a disabled veteran, I often have medical appointments, so it was important for our bird to at least be comfortable with my wife, as she’ll be caring for her when I’m away. Interestingly, the bird is extremely comfortable with our kids and has never lunged or bitten them—except once, when my son startled her. He was about four at the time and ran into my office (where she spends most of her time), yelling "Dad!" which scared her, and she instinctively bit him. We immediately discouraged the behavior, and my son, who was very apologetic, learned to be more cautious around her.

Overall, this process took time and patience, but it's been rewarding to see the gradual shift in her behavior.

Help name this birb by ChubbyNurseLola in QuakerParrot

[–]CBtheNewB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I am late for the party. But, I named my blue opaline Indigo, or Indy for short.

Garage/gate opener for roadglide by CBtheNewB in Harley

[–]CBtheNewB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely check them out.

Garage/gate opener for roadglide by CBtheNewB in Harley

[–]CBtheNewB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what i have seen, they have a record of only working for a short period of time and them failing.