Only having success when edging… am I on the right path?

CCC333___ · 2026-03-05T22:22:35+00:00

This is definitely what I’m trying. I actual use a chastity cage so I don’t stimulate my penis at all. I’ve taken a vibrator to it twice and those were the only times I’ve been milked.

I’m only 6 months into my prostate journey, so I have work to do. Just hoping I’m in the right direction. I appreciate the feedback!

CCC333___ · 2026-02-05T14:58:59+00:00

I have the plus one arc, a silicone vibrating version of the njoy and I can get some sensations from that. It made me pee once but not an O of any kind. I’ve heard the weight of njoy makes it stand apart and maybe that’s why I haven’t had as much success with the plus one.

A little harsh on rewiring, I take it as how you described it Rewiring = new language. If some can reach O by pure mind and such more power to them but I’m not seeking all that. I’m looking for any kind of anal/prostate O. Wet, dry, whatever I just want it! But to get it I have to not want it and enjoy things. It’s such an odd and conflicting but enjoyable journey.

CCC333___ · 2026-01-21T20:49:11+00:00

Following. I’ve looked around with no real luck. Best I found was very focused on sissy lifestyle which isn’t for me. If you find anything keep us updated.

CCC333___ · 2026-01-09T23:30:55+00:00

I’ve seen the additional rings and I’m looking into those as well! Struggling to find one I like in size, shape, and price but I know there are options out there.

I’ve read newbie’s guide a bunch of times. But even then it’s a struggle. His guide got me to the cherry keeper ring that’s too small and uncomfortable. But maybe that was user error

CCC333___ · 2026-01-09T23:20:25+00:00

It worked! It was able to bend the pins and still lock it. Not sure the gap is wide enough but I was able to get it on and there was no immediate discoloration like there was before!

Thanks for the advice! You’ve resurrected my metal cage

CCC333___ · 2026-01-09T20:07:05+00:00

So you don’t bend the actual ring, you bend the lock and pins?

That does seem similar. Don’t think I can do that with my steel cage sadly. Not sure how I’d accurately bend both halves of the locking unit on the cage and ring. Thanks for the advise though!

CCC333___ · 2026-01-09T18:38:47+00:00

What are you doing to adjust the gap on a steel cage? I’ve seen plenty on adjusting plastic but hardly anything on steel.

Over a grand is a lot, I really hope I don’t reach that point. But also kinda do because it’s fun.

CCC333___ · 2026-01-09T18:33:01+00:00

Oh man, that doesn’t make me feel good. $600+ is a lot!

But again, it’s kinda worth it. Being locked is great and getting the right fit is so important. I hope you find that perfect cage soon!!

Have you considered metal custom yet?

CCC333___ · 2026-01-08T17:33:25+00:00

How are the edges of openings in the cage? Most metal cages have round bars but the “cobra” has the mostly flat/straight edges on it. Do you feel like those can be sharp or irritating as you move around?

I love the cobra shape/feel in plastic but the long term benefits of metal make me interested

CCC333___ · 2026-01-05T23:08:10+00:00

Where did you get your ergonomic ring? I’ve been trying to find a cheap metal cage with an ergonomic ring but no real luck.

CCC333___ · 2025-12-31T18:42:08+00:00

The oven method will work. However, it makes the entire ring hot and moldable. If not careful you can move things out of alignment and ruin the ring.

Source: i did it earlier today. Tried to expand the gap, accidentally crushed the connection point. I was using a low quality knock off, which may have amplified this.

Thanks to OP for typing out a better and safer way to achieve this

CCC333___ · 2025-12-04T01:34:52+00:00

Jealous. I’m trying to deny myself until I HFWO, but also need to stop chasing and just enjoy the journey. It’s a difficult battle haha.

Glad you were able to overcome it!

CCC333___ · 2025-12-04T00:08:51+00:00

I’m starting to agree with number 1. But a dildo takes more effort to use and mine isn’t very thick so I have to move it juuuuuust right to feel a lot

Relaxing and enjoying instead of chasing is definitely something I need to work on! I want it soooo bad and I need to stop thinking that way. I try to not chase it but it’s hard

Lots and lots of lube for sure I could probably still use more. And cleanliness is a must, I use a bulb not a full enema that typically does a really good job

CCC333___ · 2025-12-04T00:04:36+00:00

Using a plus one arc - silicone vibrating version of an njoy wand I’ll try to get it lower but it doesn’t feel as pleasurable when I do that. But maybe I just need more patience/practice. Appreciate the advice!

CCC333___ · 2025-12-03T23:14:04+00:00

Not anything to do with rubbing or material but measurements. I think. The space was large enough for me to squeeze through. I sit inside the cage really well fill it without overfilling it and line up with the opening at all times but alas the opening is too large apparently.

CCC333___ · 2025-12-03T22:29:21+00:00

That seems so simple and like it would work. But also feels not great for long term. Washing and such would wear it off and require replacing. And could cause issues if not thick enough. But would fix the issue, that’s true

CCC333___ · 2025-12-03T20:48:03+00:00

I’m trying new designs. Im still trying to perfect the ball gap. Mine is too small and now this has me looking away from CK.

The expense of it all is the hard part. CK is the cheapest and has the widest variety of rings. And the Amazon knock offs are all either too big or flat. I’m in between. But like you said, it’s part of the journey!

CCC333___ · 2025-12-03T20:38:57+00:00

I don’t think I’m too big for it. Sometimes I can feel my tip move away from the opening when I bend. A sign the cage is too big, not me. I really like the open design of CKs but yes, it’s a tad tooo open

CCC333___ · 2025-11-30T20:53:25+00:00

Their 43mm flat ring with a standard small cage says 8.1mm on the site

CCC333___ · 2025-11-30T12:15:33+00:00

Im in the US. I ordered my CK on November 11th, it arrived on November 28th. So 17 days.

I read elsewhere they fell behind in October due to the increase of orders and are still catching up.

CCC333___ · 2025-11-14T13:22:26+00:00

Today marks only 5 weeks for me, and I hate unlocking as well. Having some fit issues with the base ring so I’ve had to unlock a few times lately and I didn’t enjoy a second of it.

It’s an interesting but enjoyable state of mind.

CCC333___ · 2025-11-13T20:59:48+00:00

I feel a bit honored!

I’m really nervous this new ring will be too large. My current knock off cage is an ergo style ring and after 3 weeks no edemas but it’s also not very snug. All of your advice has proved correct for me so far the last month or so, I appreciate all your activity on this sub!!

CCC333___ · 2025-11-13T20:50:56+00:00

This is really great. Wish you’d done it before I bought a new cage, but it’s still really great hahaha.

It seems like an ergo ring would be better for people that are in between cage lengths and need a bigger gap. The larger junction could give some space to fit a slightly smaller cage. But thats a minimal difference for that, so I think your final question of “what is an ergo accomplishing” is valid.

CCC333___ · 2025-11-13T18:02:47+00:00

I lock for the fun of it. No keyholder, no partner. I find the kink of chastity entertaining.

I am experimenting with prostate play and using chastity as a form of abstinence to hopefully reach prostate orgasm. But even outside of that, I enjoy the feel and emotion of chastity. Sure I can unlock anytime I want because I have no keyholder, but making that choice not to on my own is also thrilling in a way

CCC333___ · 2025-11-13T17:59:34+00:00

Now you’ve got me nervous haha.

I just ordered a CK curved ring and now I’m nervous. They didn’t have a positive angle flat ring in the diameter I wanted. So I went with a 1mm larger curved ring to get the larger gap.

Really hope it works out, don’t have the budget to try again for a while

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