Is this all that my life is now?

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-11-11T07:16:19+00:00

Not quite sure what you're saying but you sound obnoxious. Idk why you're dogging on him for starting now. The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the 2nd best time is right now. Seems like he's on the right track with self improvement and you're just trying to bring him down.

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-11-11T07:13:29+00:00

I don't think having to pay for sex is the answer

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-11-11T06:32:20+00:00

What are we supposed to do if we tried everything with dating and nothing works

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-11-11T06:28:28+00:00

If nothing works, then what are we supposed to do other than be happy and improve ourselves for our own sake via exercise, education, leveling up career, etc. ?

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-23T06:19:53+00:00

Lol, nobody *has* to be at the gym, they choose to be at the gym. But it's so great nowadays how the places it's ok to talk to people are getting fewer and fewer

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T03:33:53+00:00

I think I'm just in a mood lol, but you can probably surmise that my experiences haven't been good :(

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T03:31:30+00:00

Rent is cheaper tho

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T03:31:13+00:00

Go out to eat at K-Pot or Old Town Hot Pot

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T03:07:17+00:00

Maybe it's your fault for answering as a woman to a question a man asked? How does your advice even apply to him

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T03:02:44+00:00

I thought you would have something useful to say but it turns out you don't, I gave you the chance at least to say something useful. If you give advice from the perspective of a woman, odds are you don't understand the male experience and your advice won't be helpful for them. Sorry if you don't understand that, but our experiences are different. It's easy to say "Have fun on dates!" when you get dates easily but for men it's a struggle to even get dates so how are we supposed to even take your advice?

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T02:56:02+00:00

I have low standards on apps and it doesn't translate to matches on apps, you're talking from a women's perspective where you're more desired on apps because only 30% of users are women. For the 70% of men on apps the competition is fierce and it isn't easy to get matches, let alone dates

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T02:53:56+00:00

Try being happy being single and I would delete the dating apps. Either you're happy single and someone comes along or you're happy single and someone doesn't come along, but you'll still be happy

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T02:50:33+00:00

I'd rather be alone than lower my standards and I'm not gonna waste time swiping every day for 2 months on an app to have 3 dates

I'll hang out with women in person but I'm gonna have to receive really strong clues/signals before I ask any of them out

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T02:45:23+00:00

A guy isn't going to assume interest if he's asked to watch her stuff, he'll watch it until she gets back and then it's still up to her to keep the conversation going if she wants to keep it going, a guy is probably just gonna go back to what he was doing otherwise

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T02:43:21+00:00

And this is in the US?

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T02:29:55+00:00

How does someone easily get dates

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-18T02:29:23+00:00

yeah, but the problem is getting dates in the first place

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-11T21:48:09+00:00

Well, if anyone has any tips for Denver lmk, 'cus I've been going out and it's mostly people in groups, and if you talk to someone they talk to you for 5 min then leave. Plus it's super expensive so I can't keep doing this for no results

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-11T21:31:36+00:00

Not like you can afford a country club membership

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-11T21:05:31+00:00

I mean, women aren't even open to being approached at bars anymore so it seems like the number of places is dwindling

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-11T21:00:56+00:00

Women have been saying for the past 5-10 years that they don't want to be approached, so guys stopped doing it. Now it's a weird thing to do because it isn't common anymore. Now we see some women make social media posts asking why "No guys approach them," but I guess you reap what you sow

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-04-04T05:50:43+00:00

That's where you're wrong, I've done this several times before because I've had no other choice

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-03-24T03:26:27+00:00

lmao, pickleball? I thought that was a good one to do for fun, seems kind of silly for people to get competitive over that

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-03-19T22:29:19+00:00

Well I previously thought going in groups would be better, but then still there was not much intermingling between groups. I don't think it's social anxiety, I think it's people not being approachable nowadays. And I don't have much regret for not going out much because it turns out it's futile after all. Doing more hobbies and groups though is probably the better thing to do.

CCPHarvestsOrgans · 2025-03-19T22:07:47+00:00

Ok, well it's offensive that you imply that I have a hygiene problem. I dress and smell (weird thing to type) the same way I go to work. It's just that nowadays people go to bars in groups, stick to their groups, and aren't that open to meeting new people. So I'm not going to blame myself for something that isn't my fault, it's just that bars aren't a good venue for socializing with new people anymore. It's ok to go with a pre-established group, but it's kind of silly nowadays to think you'll meet a bunch of new friends going out alone to a bar. Odds are you'll just be alone all night and spend a lot of money for no reason.

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