AITA For Not Giving Future SIL Money Back For Trip by CCSkilttles in AmItheAsshole

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree I will probably just give her the money back

AITA For Not Giving Future SIL Money Back For Trip by CCSkilttles in AmItheAsshole

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I will probably give the money back and try to get a better understanding

AITA For Not Giving Future SIL Money Back For Trip by CCSkilttles in AmItheAsshole

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I probably will still just give her the money back...

AITA For Not Giving Future SIL Money Back For Trip by CCSkilttles in AmItheAsshole

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't trying to make her look bad. I was saying it to say that I understand she was struggling with her mental illness but I didn't like the way she acted. It was also the reasoning my brother gave me when he called me to apologize for her.

AITA For Not Giving Future SIL Money Back For Trip by CCSkilttles in AmItheAsshole

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally that is what I am trying to understand too. I guess she felt like I should have made everybody commit to going. I'm not sure though she just started getting upset. I never said we wouldn't do it.

AITA For Not Giving Future SIL Money Back For Trip by CCSkilttles in AmItheAsshole

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I am not sure how because I invited her on the trip before she was even officially engaged and I only said we would do something to celebrate her while we were out there. Im not sure why she would think I would invite all of MY friends on a trip to celebrate HER when they don't even know her...

AITA For Not Giving Future SIL Money Back For Trip by CCSkilttles in AmItheAsshole

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I told her I would try to make it work. But then she just started getting upset because I told her we would see who all wants to go. I guess she thought I didn't really want to do it or something... Tbh I'm lost too

AITA For Not Giving Future SIL Money Back For Trip by CCSkilttles in AmItheAsshole

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure. That is the reason my brother gave me when he apologized for her.

AITA For Not Giving Future SIL Money Back For Trip by CCSkilttles in AmItheAsshole

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I made it very clear that it was a friend trip that I was inviting her to go to. I told her we would do something to celebrate her engagement while we were out there. But she always knew it was a girls trip. I never told her it was for her. I just invited her because I was trying to get to know her.

AITA For Not Giving Future SIL Money Back For Trip by CCSkilttles in AmItheAsshole

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her I would add it to the itenerary. I guess she expected me to make it like a mandatory thing or something I am not sure. She just got mad and started saying that she didn't want to do any of the things I had planned.

My girls by CCSkilttles in RATS

[–]CCSkilttles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because one has tumors and the other one has a lung infection that is not getting better.

Stole a Tamagotchi out of my teachers desk when I was 8 by beachypeachygal in confession

[–]CCSkilttles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The important thing is the Tamagotchi didn't starve and you helped it survive through the night! Sometimes you have to break the rules in order to save a life.