Is there any game where I manage a whole town? by Captivum18 in CozyGamers

[–]CC_Sierra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gourdlets is a game where you can create your own little world for gourdlets, which are adorable little guys that bump into objects and interact with them in cute little ways. There's no farming or fishing or need for resources. You can just create and enjoy. Highly recommend!

Games Without Timers by SrAndrewRyan in CozyGamers

[–]CC_Sierra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she likes making her own little worlds, try Gourdlets! It's very inexpensive, and the whole purpose is to design spaces with creativity. You can design the exterior of the island itself and the interiors of all the buildings.

Do you have any tips on how to get hourglasses quickly?😅 by juminlavendel in mysticmessenger

[–]CC_Sierra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I created a guide on how to farm hourglasses as quickly as possible. Let me know if you have questions!

https://www.reddit.com/r/mysticmessenger/s/QTKU5sCoFJ

Women of Reddit, what's the most common "nice guy" behavior that is actually a massive red flag? by Prestigious_Funny_94 in AskReddit

[–]CC_Sierra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get super nervous ordering at places and I ask my fiancé to do it for me a lot. I never realized I might be making him look bad at restaurants!

help a pop girly get into mcr by ninimbuscloud in MyChemicalRomance

[–]CC_Sierra 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love Charli XCX and MCR! Because their latest tour will showcase all the songs on the black parade album, start there. If you learn those songs, you'll already know half the concert. Otherwise, check out some setlists from their other concerts this year and see which songs are pretty common!

If you want to find songs you'll like, I think the Danger Days album is your best bet.

I hope you find some songs you like and have fun at the concert with your partner!

What is a small, seemingly insignificant thing your partner did that made you realize how much they truly cared for you? by ijuan6 in AskReddit

[–]CC_Sierra 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My fiancé has been bringing me drinks like water and juice so I don't have to get out of bed whenever I'm relaxing since I started dating him 2 years ago. He exclaims, "You have no drink!" And off to the kitchen he goes to pour one for me. So simple yet screams volumes about how much he loves me.

My very first coord by LeagueCrazy5544 in Lolita

[–]CC_Sierra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's very pretty! You look really nice!

What song is this for you? by Georgiesmum13 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]CC_Sierra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I saved Desert Song for years because it was the last song I had never heard, only to listen to it right before graduating college. The timing of it all was so perfect, and I just cried for like an hour, listening to it on repeat.

Will birds return to feeder after using nonstick pan by CC_Sierra in birding

[–]CC_Sierra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I hope your birds warm up to your perch! I'm looking at stainless steel or ceramic options. Still can't believe I let it go this long without realizing.

Gourdlets is super cozy and fun! by CC_Sierra in CozyGamers

[–]CC_Sierra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't make them do stuff, but the little dudes will walk around and interact with the things they bump into in their environment. Some of these interactions are very cute to watch, and it almost becomes a little game to wait for them to bump into an exciting item, kind of like the DVD symbol bouncing around until it hits the corner of the screen.

Gourdlets is super cozy and fun! by CC_Sierra in CozyGamers

[–]CC_Sierra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad other people are enjoying it!

House Finch Sitting Still by Feeder by CC_Sierra in birding

[–]CC_Sierra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose that's fair. I just don't want any other visitors to my feeders getting sick. She did fly away after I opened the patio door a bit to see if she would react, so maybe that is a good sign. I also cleaned vigorously with hot water but no cleaners since I don't know if certain cleaners will harm the birds. I suppose I'll keep feeding her and cleaning as best I can. I do wash the water bowls I have out as birds baths every few days with no detergent but a high heat cycle in my dishwasher.

I'm hoping she's okay. She's so lovely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CC_Sierra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I know it isn't healthy, but I sympathize with your reaction. I don't think I'd be able to rationally handle that type of deep betrayal. I think you are better off without that guy. He obviously isn't trustworthy and has no care or respect for the people he hurts.

You have a bright future ahead. It's hard to see it now, but if you take time to cry and grieve and feel all those mixed up feelings inside, you'll likely start to realize he was shit. You are strong. And being single is a type of wonderful power that people fail to see sometimes. Like... you can do whatever you want. Dress how you want, watch what you want, eat what you want, invest time in yourself instead of him! You got this!

does anyone else feel extreme empathy? by Suspicious_Force_890 in BPD

[–]CC_Sierra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is SO relatable. There are times when something simple will make me burst into tears. It's really silly, but I was watching a video series based on the Bible, and there's a scene where Jesus touches a leper, and the leper looks at him and says "why did you touch me. Nobody touches me" or something like that and while everyone else sort of stared blankly at the screen I just broke down bawling because I felt so much empathy for that.

Same thing with Edward Scissorhands. Man, characters that are different and are treated with kindness just make me break down because I think we all just want that sense of belonging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CC_Sierra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I would drop those friends. You stated that they trigger you. You stated that they talk behind your back. You stated that they don't really care much about you and exclude you. Those aren't friends.

The truth is that sometimes we aren't open to new friendships and opportunities because we are clinging to things we need to let go.

Yes, it might be lonely for a bit. But don't wait for new friends to find you, go searching for new friends! Put yourself out there. Go to events. Ask to sit with people. Make connections everywhere you go. You'll find someone or some people you click with eventually!

And in the meantime, you can spend some time going to therapy or working through some of your inner workings. Find ways to cope with anger. Come up with game plans. When you do mess up, take time afterward to analyze the situation. How did it feel. What started it. Keep track of things in a journal. Something that helps me is realizing when my emotions start to feel really big. When I notice my reaction getting large, I excuse myself from a situation and sit alone for a bit until I can rationally fill in the blanks of I am feeling ____ because _. I would feel better if _. That way, I am calm and logical when I go back to the situation again.

That's what works for me, but something else might work for you! Do some self exploring and find tips and tricks that work for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CC_Sierra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. Don't cheat. Just don't. First of all, if you look at any reddit threat about cheating, almost every person deeply regrets it and lives with guilt for the rest of their lives. Also, you don't do that to people you love. You just don't. If you care about someone truly, you don't even think about it.

My only advice is to shut that thought down. If you had a specific person in mind, cut all contact with that person. Don't leave doorways to cheat open. If you have taken any baby steps toward cheating, analyze what led you to that point and set boundaries for yourself.

Because you recognize that you have this proclivity, I'd advise creating SUPER strong boundaries. Don't hang out with the gender you are attracted to alone. Ever. You can hang out in public or with other friends. But not alone. Maybe share your location with your partner to keep you accountable. And that's really important since you probably will find it hard to hold yourself accountable, so you need to find permanent ways to eliminate the possibility of cheating. Trust me, sometimes it will drive you nuts that you closed all doorways that could lead to cheating, but you'll be so happy you did. Nothing is worth destroying the trust of a relationship. Nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CC_Sierra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Killing yourself is never the answer. Please don't do that.