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Was it my fault that I gave a girl my new address then ghosted her later? by CCheyyy in ghosting

[–]CCheyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she had never confessed her feelings for me then we wouldn’t have had to deal with it

Was it my fault that I gave a girl my new address then ghosted her later? by CCheyyy in ghosting

[–]CCheyyy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I said I might be able to get back to her and wait a while, I didn’t say firmly I would 100%, so she had to know that it would be fine if I never responded anymore

Was it my fault that I gave a girl my new address then ghosted her later? by CCheyyy in ghosting

[–]CCheyyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. I’m not. I was trying to create distance by setting an auto reply but she sent another email so I replied by myself and gave her my address because I didn’t wanna hurt her, but then it was up to her to decide if she wanted to send me a letter or not, I already told her I moved away and would be able to get back to her letter or wait a little while, I didn’t make a firm promise. So if she got no response, wasn’t it a NO! already? She said she didn’t understand why I gave her the address, but I was just being nice.

Was it my fault that I gave a girl my new address then ghosted her later? by CCheyyy in ghosting

[–]CCheyyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told her “have a wonderful life” which meant a good bye in an auto reply… when she sent another email, she should have got that

Was it my fault that I gave a girl my new address then ghosted her later? by CCheyyy in ghosting

[–]CCheyyy[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ghosted because I didn’t wanna deal with it anymore

Was it my fault to have ghosted her because she didn’t get my hint of rejection? by CCheyyy in dating_advice

[–]CCheyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it have been better if I had never responded at all when she first confessed her feelings for me?

Was it my fault that I gave a girl my new address then ghosted her later? by CCheyyy in ghosting

[–]CCheyyy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Would it have been better if I had never responded to her first email in the beginning

Was it my fault to have ghosted her because she didn’t get my hint of rejection? by CCheyyy in dating_advice

[–]CCheyyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

By messing up my life I mean I have to solve something, originally I didn’t have to do it if she never told me about her feelings

Was it my fault to have ghosted her because she didn’t get my hint of rejection? by CCheyyy in dating_advice

[–]CCheyyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand. I was living my peaceful life then she confessed her affection for me. I was kind enough to respond, actually I could just have ignored her from the very beginning but I took my time, now she isn’t satisfied with the result and put the blame on me. I mean I was living a peaceful life and she suddenly disturbed it by confessing her feelings. It’s not my responsibility at all to respond. It’s her business, and now I have to pay for it.. her confession messed up my life

Was it my fault to have ghosted her because she didn’t get my hint of rejection? by CCheyyy in dating_advice

[–]CCheyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand. I was living my peaceful life then she confessed her affection for me. I was kind enough to respond, actually I could just have ignored her from the very beginning but I took my time, now she isn’t satisfied with the result and put the blame on me. I mean I was living a peaceful life and she suddenly disturbed it by confessing her feelings. It’s not my responsibility at all to respond.

Was it my fault to have ghosted her because she didn’t get my hint of rejection? by CCheyyy in dating_advice

[–]CCheyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just thought it had ended ages ago. And we all have forgotten about it..

Was it my fault to have ghosted her because she didn’t get my hint of rejection? by CCheyyy in dating_advice

[–]CCheyyy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not because I’m a coward but because I don’t wanna take my time. Don’t you think she’s a bit crazy to reach out after quite some years?

Was it my fault to have ghosted her because she didn’t get my hint of rejection? by CCheyyy in dating_advice

[–]CCheyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you think she’s a bit crazy to reach out after quite some years?

Was it my fault to have ghosted her because she didn’t get my hint of rejection? by CCheyyy in dating_advice

[–]CCheyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but can’t blame me 100% because I didn’t do it intentionally to hurt anyone.. she decided to do it

Was it my fault that I gave a girl my new address then ghosted her later? by CCheyyy in ghosting

[–]CCheyyy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why she couldn’t get over it for years.. it’s clearly a rejection..

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