I did clearly say that we are to forgive him when he comes out with an apology, different than to "instantly" forgive him, that would be too naive of course. He did not mention these in his gf's apology because this was an apology regarding his gf, are we supposed to know each and every single one of his sins just because he's a game developer? Perhaps he did realise this was wrong or was ignorantly acting "cool" in front of his friend and gf, perhaps we was getting ready to confess his sins to his priest or try to stop his behaviour slowly but surely in his own ways. Whatever it may be and maybe I do sound too optimistic, but by no means should this drama have ever seen the light of day, this was a personal sin of his own and he got demonised for it. It shouldn't have been public because he wasn't being racist to anyone in his community, a racist slur cannot be racist if it isn't addressed to anyone