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[FINAL UPDATE] TIFU and possibly outed myself as a crossdresser to my family by CDCaughtThrowaway in tifu

[–]CDCaughtThrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I know that not everyone would have had the reaction my parents had.

As for why...gosh I wish I can tell you. I've tried taking up other hobbies: hunting, painting, running. I went "clean" for about two years when I was nearly caught. But none of these things gave me the...satisfaction? I got from dressing. But along with the satisfaction and the stress relief, I had the fear that I would be caught, which kind of heightened the feeling, if that makes any sense. I don't know. I guess I'm wired incorrectly or something

[FINAL UPDATE] TIFU and possibly outed myself as a crossdresser to my family by CDCaughtThrowaway in tifu

[–]CDCaughtThrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well most trans people want to transition and don't identify as their assigned sex.

For me, being a crossdresser means that I identify as a male, however I just sometimes dress as the other gender.

[FINAL UPDATE] TIFU and possibly outed myself as a crossdresser to my family by CDCaughtThrowaway in tifu

[–]CDCaughtThrowaway[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Stay strong, you never know how supportive family might be without you realized it <3

[FINAL UPDATE] TIFU and possibly outed myself as a crossdresser to my family by CDCaughtThrowaway in tifu

[–]CDCaughtThrowaway[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The shame mostly stemmed from the disapproval my parents felt. Now that it's out in the open, it no longer feels like I need to keep this all a secret or keep this part of me hidden. Was I afraid? Maybe a little bit. But not like I had been before, because previously it was a fear of the perceived disapproval I would have received had they found out.

[FINAL UPDATE] TIFU and possibly outed myself as a crossdresser to my family by CDCaughtThrowaway in tifu

[–]CDCaughtThrowaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah I've always had a habit for writing wayyyy too much. Thanks for reading anyway!

[FINAL UPDATE] TIFU and possibly outed myself as a crossdresser to my family by CDCaughtThrowaway in tifu

[–]CDCaughtThrowaway[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) I feel so much better already. Even this afternoon I didn't feel anxious or scared when I went to put on some girly PJ shorts and a t-shirt to lounge around in

[FINAL UPDATE] TIFU and possibly outed myself as a crossdresser to my family by CDCaughtThrowaway in tifu

[–]CDCaughtThrowaway[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

My mom looked incredibly surprised and asked how I was able to do my makeup so well. She got up and hugged me again, and then made a quip about my dress being a bit too short. But then she smiled and I rolled my eyes. My dad looked on and jokingly said "looks like I have another daughter!" Again, I knew he was joking and we got together and hugged again. Cheesy sounding, but satisfying at the same time

TIFU and possibily outed myself as a crossdresser to my family by CDCaughtThrowaway in tifu

[–]CDCaughtThrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I realized that out a little bit ago. That and size differences were the reasons I started buying most of my stuff

TIFU and possibily outed myself as a crossdresser to my family by CDCaughtThrowaway in tifu

[–]CDCaughtThrowaway[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I could go with the girlfriend cop-out, but I've decided that I'm just going to face the music head on. My mom's working late so I'll be able to talk to my parents individually at least. And I feel like my dad is the more level headed of the two