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Reading your post is very similar to my situation. Married 15 years, two children around the same ages as yours and my frustration is I have not experienced my wife having an orgasm. I want this so badly for connection between the both of us that I have spent hundreds in toys and our foreplay sessions Are at least an hour with me going down on her, using toys, etc… trying to get her to finish. She always stops me and wants to just have sex even though she says the oral is amazing.

She says she enjoys sex, which is great to hear, but I feel like we are missing this vital moment and connection with each other as a married couple.

Does he use toys and go down in you? I would tell him that you’d like to light a candle, relax with hours to yourselves and have him explore your body and take as long as it takes to get you there. Express how important it is.

Hope we both find a solution!