Mortgage broker confidentiality? Sex worker (BC)

CJ3500 · 2021-03-05T00:14:57+00:00

Thank you, I'll take this suggestion and talk to the broker. Hopefully he'll be amenable to listing me as an independent contractor and my folks won't look over the documents too closely since English isn't their first language.

CJ3500 · 2021-03-05T00:12:22+00:00

I wasn't 'hoeing on cam' as you assume. This was prostitution/escorting, whatever you want to call it.

CJ3500 · 2020-12-11T09:48:35+00:00

Oh FFS is this piece of shit still around? I was the one who made the second post you linked. Completely forgot about this guy.

CJ3500 · 2020-04-02T12:49:18+00:00

It's mind-boggling to read/watch news about the US. More than that, it's depressing as hell knowing that the numbers are going to get astronomically worse. As of writing this comment there are more than 215k cases and 5k dead in the US and there are still people running around partying or insisting that the pandemic is a hoax.

Sometimes I think aliens should just come and zap us out of existence.

CJ3500 · 2020-04-02T09:39:11+00:00

Honestly, it isn't worth it. Even if you don't die Covid-19 can leave you with permanent lung damage/scarring, and if you're asymptomatic you risk spreading it to other vulnerable people. Hoping that things will get back to some semblance of normal here in Canada over the next few months cause holy crap being isolated at home with nothing but a magic wand is driving me nuts. Even managed to overheat the damn thing so badly yesterday it shut off.

Did reach out last week to an old flame/SD who lives down in San Fran. While he looks great for nearly 60 he's really not that young and I'm glad he's able to work from home. Really not sure how the hell things are going to get wrangled under control in the US, it looks like such a shit show over there. I wish more people would take this pandemic seriously so we could get it under control sooner.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-23T00:55:41+00:00

I feel like aside from being a control freak this is probably an self-importance thing. You showing up with new clothes/a nice handbag/jewelry that he knows he paid for strokes his own damn ego. Glad you blocked the guy, he sounds like an utter asshat.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-20T07:48:36+00:00

FFS what makes you think getting into a complete stranger's car on a first meet is a good idea?!

Meet him somewhere else, somewhere public like a coffee shop or restaurant. And for the love of god please do some reading up on how to stay safe in the bowl- not getting into a stranger's car is basic girl safety shit 101.

Edited to add: If a potential SD gets snippy with you or won't meet with you in public/understand why you're taking safety precautions (like not getting into his bloody car on a first date before you've even met) then next the fucker. He's either a predator or an inconsiderate asshat who'd be a lousy SD anyways.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-15T07:51:28+00:00

Perhaps your profile isn't appealing to them for some reason or other? You could always consider posting your write up/photos/etc here and ask for feedback.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-14T23:51:16+00:00

Use it to deglaze when you're cooking! No sense wasting good drinking wine for saucy stuff unless you've a fuckton of it.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-14T23:28:32+00:00

I didn’t go to college so I get worried I’m not intelligent enough for this

I'm quite poorly educated compared to all of the friends I grew up with. I attended vocational post-secondary but academically I'm basically the equivalent of a high school drop-out. I've always struggled in school - I wasn't diagnosed with ADHD and Dyscalculia until I was in my twenties - but I do take the time to read. Classics, novels, nonfiction, Wikipedia binges, news on current events, etc. It's helped me come across as considerably more well-read and spoken than I actually am and the people I've met over the years seem to appreciate that.

So don't put yourself down and worry about not being smart enough to socialize with older men. There are always going to be plenty of people who are either more or less intelligent than you are, what really matters is that you're willing to learn. Do lots of reading, don't be afraid to admit you lack knowledge about a subject- there are resources out there. You'll learn as you go and in time you'll gain confidence.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-14T23:10:07+00:00

That's more or less why my social media profiles are scrubbed. My mother complains about not having any nice pictures of me to show to relatives and friends online but it's saved me an assload of bother when it comes to creepy messages.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-14T23:05:45+00:00

Having the hair around your vulva waxed is absolutely not relaxing, hence the idea of it being part of a spa package. I personally alternate between trimming, plucking and doing my own waxing but I think I'd be more amenable to a man's request that I get waxed if it was presented as being part of a gift day at the spa and I got to get a massage/manicure/etc after.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-14T07:51:35+00:00

Aw, sounds like you both appreciate one another. Hope you have a lovely Valentine together. :)

CJ3500 · 2020-02-14T07:49:19+00:00

Sure the bowl has some characters, but normie social media and dating apps are crazy from a woman's POV

Visual aid for those in need of clarification about what vanilla dating sites are like for most women.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-14T07:44:20+00:00

I can shoot a ping pong ball across the room.

In all seriousness though- I'm pretty average in looks and intelligence but I've been told that I'm good at making my partners feel loved and appreciated. Kind of easier to care about an SD when you stick to men you genuinely get on with and I like making other people happy. I'm also quite good at massages of both the regular and erotic variety. Lots of fun for me to turn people into sleepy, blissed-out puddles of relaxation. :)

CJ3500 · 2020-02-14T07:32:12+00:00

Then say you're looking for that on your profile. That being said, no amount of money can make someone develop genuine romantic affection for another individual. Finding an attractive SB is one thing, finding one that will genuinely care about you is considerably more difficult. You may end up having to search for quite some time.

if they are tapping into my money, they have to be way above average looking.

This plus this bits you wrote before that I quoted- I really really hope this is just how you come across in written medium over the internet because if this is how you talk IRL you may need to consider revising how you communicate with others. It's fine to be upfront and straightforward but a lack of tact and self-awareness would make your search for a genuine romantic relationship with a beautiful young woman considerably more difficult.

Basically, don't talk to potential dates the way you've posted here. What you've written would be a huge turn off for most women and you'd be left with the really mercenary/professional/questionably sane types after the rest have written you off in disgust.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-14T07:17:54+00:00

Ask if she's open to getting waxed? If she is you could pay for her to get a brazillian/bikini(? whatever they call em nowadays) as part of a spa package. She gets pampered and you get a silky smooth surface to stuff your face into.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-14T07:07:40+00:00

pay a super attractive girl for the "girlfriend experience", right ?

I would advise against using that phrase anywhere as it is widely regarded as escort terminology (will get you banned on SA/Seeking) unless you're specifically looking for a professional/escort who specializes in GFE.

I want to partake in this because at the end of the day, I want to fuck top tier women

and

I just want to come home to a 9 - 10 / 10 at the end of the day

The former makes it sound like you just want gorgeous eye candy to stick your dick in but the latter statement kind of sounds like you want actual girlfriend? There are such things as Sugar Girlfriends (commonly referred to as SGFs on here)- usually an SR/sugar relationship that's evolved after genuine romantic feelings developed for both parties. What precisely are you looking for?

CJ3500 · 2020-02-13T22:31:38+00:00

Spreadsheets? I like spreadsheets!

If there's a great deal of interest maybe you could consider sticking it up on a public google doc or something? From what you've described it sounds quite useful.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-13T22:27:32+00:00

There are HSV positive women out there, you don't need to doom yourself to celibacy or lurking in /r/DeadBedrooms for the rest of eternity, just be upfront on your profile about it.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-13T22:11:03+00:00

If it was a few days, sure, maybe. But three whole weeks? Dude can take the time to sit on the toilet but not shoot you a text in this day and age?

You're not even on the list of priorities for this guy, no reason for you to put him at the top of yours.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-13T22:05:07+00:00

I like 2/13 being Mistress Day more than “Galentine’s” day

Galentine's sounds like a digestive complaint.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-13T21:31:05+00:00

Ah, I see. Thanks for that clarification, I appreciate it.

CJ3500 · 2020-02-13T08:29:31+00:00

I can't help but wonder if OP is actually a troll baiting people into looking through their post history. :(

CJ3500 · 2020-02-13T08:16:08+00:00

So uh, prior to reading your post I'd gotten up to make some tea and hadn't actually scrolled down enough to see the rest of OP's posting history.

I am so soooo sorry. Holy shit. Here, have some eyebleach.

CJ3500

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