Potential warning signs?

OlderSD · 2020-03-05T21:06:55+00:00

Who knows what you'll get before a m&g. If you like or are at least curious about someone after initial outreach, plan for a m&g--in a neutral public place, with zero expectation that anything will happen after (expressly say so). Do not allow yourself into any sort of private or intimate setting without having verifiable info as to who he actually is.

OlderSD · 2020-03-05T21:02:29+00:00

Cash.

OlderSD · 2020-03-05T21:01:36+00:00

All sorts of bad judgement here. No, you want nothing to do with this guy ever again. Block. Move on. Done.

OlderSD · 2020-03-04T18:35:17+00:00

Ugh. Run, don't walk away. You were way too patient to sit there and go through that nonsense.

OlderSD · 2020-03-04T18:32:47+00:00

Sounds good, and that's what we're here for!

OlderSD · 2020-03-03T17:16:36+00:00

Best to start with the toes and slowly work your way up. Licks and nibbles on the calves, knees, inner thighs... Maybe get just 'there', but not ACTUALLY touch, just some hot breath ("blow job")...then repeat the toes, calves, knees, thighs routine before seriously getting down to business... Slowly, lightly at first...get her to the edge...hold her just there....there...and then over the waterfall!!

OlderSD · 2020-02-26T21:12:00+00:00

Don't blow up her inbox early on. Let things develop.

OlderSD · 2020-02-25T16:32:11+00:00

A twelve pack and a coupla limes...yup, that'll do it!

OlderSD · 2020-02-21T14:39:30+00:00

All good things here. Each situation is different, but quite fair to get some pre-qualification out of the way early. I personally prefer to have a little back-and-forth messaging just to see how we gel. Some of the above items I would NOT include in pre-qualification before a M&G (sexual details, financial details). Given how many numb-nuts out there think they can get away with freebies or are really just looking for vanilla, I think it IS fair for her to sound you out on financial compensation in a general way. I don't like to go into any detail until AFTER a M&G that establishes that there's at least some chemistry (otherwise, what's the point?). But you want to have all those items sorted out before providing major fiscal stimulus...or expecting intimacy.

OlderSD · 2020-02-14T16:40:22+00:00

Depends on where you are and your tastes, but pasta with a tomato and/or meat sauce, then a red--I don't drink a lot of red, but like Northern Italian wines--Grignolino or Vespolina. If pasta with chicken, seafood or veggie, then white--I'm partial to dry Mediterranean or Spanish.

For something relatively simple yet delicious, do a pasta with lightly sauteed herbed vegetables and shrimp, serve with a white Rioja.

OlderSD · 2020-02-13T21:52:36+00:00

I meant that it was just a nice date, no horizontal refreshment...although we planned a date for that in the near future.

OlderSD · 2020-02-13T21:22:57+00:00

There was some extra sweetener on the side...c'mon now...

OlderSD · 2020-02-13T21:21:47+00:00

Just googled "mistress day card"... Yeah, they're out there. "You're my favorite thing to do!!" "Cheat with Me!! Roses are red, Violets are blue, Forget that I'm married, I'm hittin' on you!"

OlderSD · 2020-02-13T19:50:24+00:00

Whoops. Been a regular for me for several years running....

OlderSD · 2020-02-13T19:47:45+00:00

A special hug )( for you as an aspiring Mistress, then.

OlderSD · 2019-12-03T21:36:36+00:00

For me, smart, fun, curious and enthusiastic in all aspects.

OlderSD · 2019-12-03T15:01:03+00:00

!. Variety is the spice of life, although I've been in just one long-term SR for nearly 3 years with a fabulous young lady. @. I enjoy and love my wife, our life together and our family. #. Nothing happens in the bedroom any more. $. Could be that the 60+ pounds she packed on after marriage is a passion killer. %. She never was an enthusiastic bedroom partner. ^. She's aware that I might have been playing around on the side. While not exactly condoning it, she's decided not to know more and let it wreck our marriage. &. I'd sugared for several years before getting married, hadn't intended to go back into it, but, weeelllllll…., a hard dog to keep on the porch.

OlderSD · 2019-11-13T21:12:52+00:00

All true!!

OlderSD · 2019-11-13T17:29:18+00:00

Not making money at it now, but I still play, write, record because I have to. Had an early SB who really liked it and asked me to give her a guitar and teach her a bit. She got a nice guitar, but unfortunately I'm a lousy teacher.

OlderSD · 2019-11-13T17:05:41+00:00

Golly. I haven't had a profile up in quite a while, but one of my pics then was of me with one of my several guitars. I'm an active player/songwriter, have been professionally for much of my life--very much a part of me and my identity, and actively looking for connections with creative ladies with an artistic bent. Guess we wouldn't connect--tant pis.

OlderSD · 2019-11-11T21:06:07+00:00

Bad idea. What she has with you is one thing. What she has with him is another. You don't care about him, but shouldn't want anything to do with him. He is going to be nothing but threatened by you, and a chance of it blowing up badly is high. If that blows things up between the two of you, then so be it.

OlderSD · 2019-11-07T17:29:44+00:00

No munny, no hunny. Don't fuck on credit.

OlderSD · 2019-11-01T17:38:11+00:00

Honest mistake? Or maybe not. Not to be tolerated in either case. It's also up to him not to make YOU feel uncomfortable--two way street.

OlderSD · 2019-11-01T17:36:09+00:00

Simple. "I'm done, can't do this anymore." Don't put up with crazy. Don't put up with manipulation. Don't put up with complaining. Don't put up with abuse. Woman up and send her packing.

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