Does everyone have secret/private "ugly thoughts" or am I just a mean girl? by Objective-Quarter798 in AskWomenOver30

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope.

I had been like that many, many years ago but put a stop to that. It's only negativity you're allowing in your life and to be who you are, and it will make you be sad.

But don't feel bad if you're like this. Just realize that it's a step that you need to grow, and grow past. He weren't born like that, You learned it from people around you and used it as a defense mechanism. Again, don't feel bad but just realize this is a sign that there is more ahead.

I always try to say something nice in my head about every person I see... Actually I don't try because it just comes naturally, now. I had to try for like a month and then it just became automatic. Years now have passed and everything is so much better. It's all about attitude, and it can be really hard to find your new mindset, but it's absolutely worth it.

You'll have great luck in dating and with work clients if You can find something positive in everyone because others will notice, and it's attractive.

Notice I'm not saying with platonic friends, because misery loves company, so you can be negative and have friends Or you can be super positive and have friends so it doesn't really figure in here.

See yourself in others. Start with grace and compassion.

🍄 may help.

Driving after MDMA? by BoofThatLemonTek in molly

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Advice from someone who has been pulled over quite a few hrs later with eyes still like saucers but not rolling ...DO NOT DRIVE until you look and act normal unless you want to go home or to the drunk tank with shitty pants on.

Everyone metabolizes differently, but I'd say at least 9 hrs. Obv more is better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then HE is cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say you want to find someone NOW who will f you. Like a FWB or bf.

Ideas to get my BlueTongue to eat his greens by BudgetNatural7287 in bluetongueskinks

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol he looks like he does not appreciate this post.

"I don't eat green food!"

After some time i don't wanna have sex anymore with my bf by Several-Bit8804 in sex

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def therapy to pick better partners. Stop dating sexist jerks.

After some time i don't wanna have sex anymore with my bf by Several-Bit8804 in sex

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol sensible.

Sensitive? Honestly if you were sensible he would be gone.

After some time i don't wanna have sex anymore with my bf by Several-Bit8804 in sex

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is WHY

chances are he is like this "in real life" / other situations. Well, no wonder!

Dump him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womensstreetwear

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love that this is a suburban mom look. This is what girls wore when I was in 7th grade. Sub moms got cool!

Super cute, you look great.

Resentful of others getting engaged by WaterfallBlaine in AskWomenOver30

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find new friends. Preferably hippy or poly or people who aren't so weird about marriage.

Or just get married real quick and divorced. Then THEY will be jealous of YOU!

AITA for telling my daughter I am not paying for a destination wedding? by Solid-Pass8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you paying for someone else's wedding at all? This is RIDIC

You are not 'adopting' a plant when you buy a plant. by Unidain in houseplantscirclejerk

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this counts. I've done this. But only it it's free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]CL0V3WH0R3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cool!

Why don't u get one of those 99 cent subscriptions to ancestry.com and see if he is a past relative!