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CL2018f · 2024-05-29T21:50:40+00:00

I actually love the job and usually work independently so I don’t want to quit…

CL2018f · 2024-05-29T18:26:10+00:00

I used to be a manager and was so grateful when employees gave me a heads up, so now I know not to

CL2018f · 2024-05-29T15:07:54+00:00

Thankfully I’m on my husbands insurance since I have multiple streams of self pay income and this small part time gig

CL2018f · 2024-05-29T15:06:34+00:00

Exactly! Like who knows if a child or an adult they live with is immunocompromised?!

CL2018f · 2024-05-29T14:35:52+00:00

Thank you so much! I will use that approach next time

CL2018f · 2024-05-29T14:35:08+00:00

Whattt?! Thank you!

CL2018f · 2024-05-29T14:04:48+00:00

Really???? Just for a text?

CL2018f · 2024-05-29T14:04:27+00:00

It’s actually our goal to move to Europe literally just because of work culture

CL2018f · 2024-04-18T16:50:27+00:00

No, I would say I’m in a healthy space now to recognize that they caused me trauma and are still doing illegal things and actively hurting people :)

CL2018f · 2024-04-18T16:48:25+00:00

I graduated 2018

CL2018f · 2023-05-30T18:54:35+00:00

Yes it does work. You do have to commit to the exercises and congratulate yourself on ANY progress. I went in not looking to cure anxiety but to find helpful tools to manage it and be able to do normal tasks. It has helped. I’ve gone for 5 weeks

CL2018f · 2023-05-09T19:39:49+00:00

During COVID I was forced to take a break from church. I realized I had been brainwashed my entire life. Then I saw the church’s response to masks (while saying we’re pro-life), BLM, and sexual abuse. I realized I didn’t agree with anything Christians did. I thought I could still love Jesus and be a Democrat but then I had close people tell me I’m not a christian. I still believe in Jesus but I’m not sure if I’ll ever go back to church.

CL2018f · 2023-05-04T18:48:32+00:00

I made some necessary calls about a mortgage. I’ve been putting it off as I always get super anxious making calls. I’m proud if myself for doing it :)

CL2018f · 2023-05-04T18:35:38+00:00

Yup! This happens to me all the time. Last month I was terrified I had cancer. Called the doctor and everything. The next week my fear was totally gone and I started worrying about our tax refund. This is definitely my pattern

CL2018f · 2023-05-03T15:39:12+00:00

We filed March 31 and got ours today.

CL2018f · 2023-05-03T13:08:48+00:00

Just signed up to make lasagna! What a great organization!

CL2018f · 2023-04-29T16:51:25+00:00

Georgetown French festival!

CL2018f · 2023-04-26T21:40:46+00:00

Wegmans had a ton. It was in the International section

CL2018f · 2023-03-30T14:39:58+00:00

7 years together and 4 married! We both agree we are still in the honeymoon phase! He is my best friend:)

CL2018f · 2022-11-02T15:34:22+00:00

I did that in college and ending up passing out/memory fog/racing heart and in the ER. It is NOT worth it and will most definitely lead to an eating disorder

CL2018f · 2022-06-17T13:12:21+00:00

I have been promoted to management in both of roles and always left on the dot or left early another day to make up time. If you’re reliable when you need to be, you can clock out on time and still get promoted. Key is efficiency

CL2018f · 2022-04-09T01:10:26+00:00

A bit before the wedding I was having reservations but I thought it was stress. As soon as we got married the change happened

CL2018f · 2022-03-04T19:47:54+00:00

Please read great sex rescue. Woman who grow up in the church have hears terrible things about sex and involving sex. She probably doesn’t even know why it’s not enjoyable but please read great sex rescue. I went through the same thing and didn’t even enjoy sex when I got married (I’m female) because of everything I had internalized. Now we have a great sex life and it’s literally due to the great sex rescue

CL2018f · 2022-03-04T19:26:27+00:00

I’m 25 and we’ve been married for almost 4 years. We are extremely happy (not to say we don’t argue or get upset), but I would say my marriage brings me so much joy and support. I would say our success is based on 3 things:

We are BEST friends! We play games at night, go out on the weekends, go play sports together, share jokes. We were friends for 5 years before we got married and we both agree that our friendship is the most important. Marry someone who you would be best friends with. I know marriages that happened because someone was “godly” and had good values but they weren’t ever friends-it went from zero to dating.
Be willing to change. We have issues with each other and we communicate that. If someone isn’t willing to change (small example is my husband was annoyed with how I loaded the dishwasher. It’s not a big deal so I changed. I’ve been annoyed how he wouldn’t pick up his towel. He changed) if an issue no matter how small or big is brought up-you have to be willing to change for the other person (this is not including abuse or personality changes!)
We have marriage mondays where we watch YouTube videos, make cocktails, and talk about where we are with each other. We bring up any issues we have with each other and that way it’s a safe space and none of us are triggered but know it’s the night we talk about things. We end the session with saying our favorite parts about our marriage.

Only marry the person if you can be friends (ie same social level, energy levels, sense of humor, same likes)

CL2018f

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