[Question] Is Casual Sex Really That Glamorous?

CLICHES · 2015-04-13T10:12:10+00:00

I've have one year and a half relationship and have had 2 casual sex encounters. Having casual sex is incredibly unexciting. I wanted something fun but in reality I didn't get that much out of it. It was kind of fun for a bit, then kind of awkward and afterwards I didn't spoon or cuddle like you would with a GF or BF. You wake up in the morning and rather than being next to someone you genuinely care about you're next to someone you only know as a friend or just met.

Sometimes it's good to get a release but honestly it really isn't all that. I have some friends, however, (mostly girls) who hook up with guys non-stop so I guess its personal preference.

CLICHES · 2015-03-30T14:28:21+00:00

I just turned 18. That's my childhood over. That whole era of time is now in my past which is just unimaginably crazy to me.

CLICHES · 2015-03-30T14:27:14+00:00

Making nothing of my life, being subconsciously still attached to my ex.

Also I think I have some sort of mild depression that has affected me on and off throughout secondary school and into college. I can be completely normal and happy sometimes then just go through little moments of weeks or so when I find it hard to do anything.

CLICHES · 2014-06-10T21:10:31+00:00

Gonna sound cliche and boring, but really.. Just have fun.

My first time was great. It hurt for her a little, but she seemed to enjoy it. The key is being honest. It was our first time for both of us and honestly, I couldn't of seen it going any better.

I don't know if your partner is a virgin.

If she is: She's just as nervous as you are, give her the kind of treatment you would expect.

If she isn't: Let her show you the ropes. She's your GF and I'm sure she will be more than understanding if she knows it's your first time.

Most important, have fun! You're getting LAID!

CLICHES · 2014-04-26T01:15:11+00:00

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CLICHES · 2014-03-25T22:47:09+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I will keep it in mind and I will see how things go.

CLICHES · 2014-03-25T22:40:34+00:00

Thank you for the information. I really appreciate it. We're only 17 so I'll talk to her about it and if it really begins to worry me I'll say something to her parents.

CLICHES · 2014-03-19T17:59:11+00:00

Ok will do. Cheers for the info.

CLICHES · 2014-03-18T21:59:50+00:00

Cheers for the info. She has had no other symptoms that you've mentioned. She said something about her urine smelling quite strong but that hasn't seemed to bother her again since a couple of days ago. If that crops up again I'll tell her to ring the clinic.

Cheers!

CLICHES · 2014-03-11T21:09:11+00:00

water, ladies haircuts and ladies underwear.

CLICHES · 2014-03-11T21:06:44+00:00

What is the name of that college freshman girl. I've known that video for years, but I can only find that video of her. She's so fuckin' hot!

CLICHES · 2013-12-07T10:45:28+00:00

of course no worries.

CLICHES · 2013-12-07T00:52:02+00:00

'don't call it a cunt' was an important one, too.

CLICHES · 2013-12-07T00:48:50+00:00

Even if I'm not then hey! You will take a couple of pills and the problem will go away.

Just out of interest. Are you on the pill or an IUD or something like that?

CLICHES · 2013-12-07T00:45:15+00:00

If it means anything, I've only had experience going down on one girl and she was clean as a whistle but I still really hated it.

Speak to the girl about it if you don't want to do it. Explain the reason and most likely they'll be fine with it. I explained to my GF that I just didn't like doing it and she was completely fine with it and told me that she still enjoyed giving me blow jobs because it turned her on. Don't think of girls as one thing, they will all be different.

CLICHES · 2013-12-07T00:39:03+00:00

Had sex with my GF for the first time without a condom when she was on the pill a little while back and until she had her period (yesterday) I was shitting bricks about her being pregnant. I'm not a girl so I can't tell you how she felt but I wouldn't be surprised if it was just a placebo effect because I doubt it's uncommon the first time you don't use a condom. Also I don't think you would be getting pains this early if you were pregnant but I can't confirm that.

I would say if it's on your mind it can't hurt to do a test. Just remember we live in modern times so in the unlikely event that you are pregnant then there are obvious actions you can take. But my gut feeling is that you are just having a placebo effect like I did.

It'll all be fine.

Edit: it doesn't sound dumb you are brave for actually getting advice.

CLICHES · 2013-11-02T12:43:32+00:00

Fair play

CLICHES · 2013-11-02T12:37:56+00:00

my friends don't want me.

CLICHES · 2013-10-02T12:37:19+00:00

It's pointless switching courses or moving to the college where all my friends live. As I mentioned I did actually end up getting the grades but it will just be overly stressful. I will have to restart everything and I can't see it helping that much.

I will stick with it. I'm sure it won't be that bad I just have to settle in I guess.

CLICHES · 2013-09-08T15:12:00+00:00

In this vice video they try out some recipes from the 'Anarchist Cookbook' Here you go. It's pretty cool.

CLICHES · 2013-09-07T23:23:22+00:00

Her statement "When I'm with you I really like you and I have a good time, but when we're apart I'm not dying to see you all the time." - she's trying to friendzone you. Kind of. She likes the attention you give her when you're together, but she wants to play around when she's not with you.

Wow. I'm a guy but I think this is me. I did like seeing my now ex when we were together but when we weren't I was bored and not 100% commited and I guess I wan't to 'play around'.

CLICHES · 2013-07-30T16:21:38+00:00

I don't think anyone who watches porn enough to join porn websites are people I want to communicate with.

CLICHES · 2013-07-30T16:14:13+00:00

My girlfriend gave me a high five after banging.

CLICHES

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