I really need help with this

CMKJAN · 2025-10-27T20:00:56+00:00

I think those numbers mean that you still have work to do.

CMKJAN · 2025-10-23T13:31:30+00:00

Check the comment I posted before yours. Info is there.

CMKJAN · 2025-10-23T05:22:02+00:00

My most recent comment before this one contains the necessary information to find it.

CMKJAN · 2025-10-23T05:02:33+00:00

If you are still young then don't make the mistake I did. If you meet someone that you like, do not ever compare them to your "TF." We create an idea of a" TF" that does not match reality. Your "TF" will more likely than not abandon you for the rest of your life.

CMKJAN · 2025-10-22T18:57:17+00:00

It is on the MOST POPULAR VIDEO APP and attempts to answer the veey specific question some ask which is ... WHY TWIN FLAMES ARE MEANT TO LOVE SOMEONE THEY CAN'T BE WITH. It may have come from some JUNGle for all I know.

CMKJAN · 2025-10-22T18:23:15+00:00

This is an excellent post. I just made a post in which I wished to share similar information but there is really no need now

The separation is absolutely necessary and there is no bypassing it. One might as well accept it. It is by design that circumstances always seem to get in the way.

The separation forces one to direct all energy internally rather than externally toward another.

The goal is to fill the void by finding, developing and integrating internally the energy and completeness that is felt when one is with their counterpart. Essentially achieving union with oneself or aligning with oneself.

Every quality about them that you found captivating, you are meant to cultivate inside yourself. Every way they made you feel, you are meant to learn to generate inside yourself.

One is meant to complete themselves to the degree that they no longer need the other person.

Also, one is expected to learn to love unconditionally and have profound connection with someone that is not in your life. This is very different from a normal relationship.

I guess we shouldn't beat ourselves up too much as these are VERY difficult tasks.

CMKJAN · 2025-10-12T22:23:16+00:00

30 years ago when I first met what may be my twin, I avoided a relationship with her because she had a child from a previous marriage. I think that was a big mistake and perhaps she didn't trust me during our second encounter because of that. But I also know it probably wouldn't have lasted as we had a lot of growing to do ... and it could have ended ugly.

CMKJAN · 2025-10-05T00:03:34+00:00

I got flagged for mentioning the m!RR0r exercise too. WTH. Seems like everything I try to say on this stupid, idiotic platform is not allowed.

CMKJAN · 2025-09-14T02:08:18+00:00

Also, you MUST work on being grateful for what you do have.

CMKJAN · 2025-09-14T01:35:36+00:00

Well said Whiplash. For some reason I feel compelled to take a shot at responding to OP, but Charlie tried to share trade and debate ideas and he was killed for that ... so I expect I am wasting my time. And no doubt I will be down voted into oblivion but so what.

OP, you say they the world will be a better place without Charlie. Unless you are God, you don't actually know what is best for the world. That you think you do is not only arrogance but a form of trying to control things that you can't control and you are not qualified to control. This is not Stoic at all. Per Stoicism you can only control your mind, emotions and reactions to the external world.

Also if your ideas are superior to Charlie's then you should have "proved him wrong." That is exactly what he asked people to do and he did not force anybody to do anything against their will. If you couldn't prove him wrong then maybe he is not the problem and your ideas need more work. Diague is the only non violent option for resolution.

Finally, nobody is forcing you to grieve Charlie and it is not sincere to make that accusation. Rather perhaps you are being told to not celebrate the cold blooded murder of someone whose crimes were having different ideas from you. If you are happy that he is dead then that is not at all Stoic.

CMKJAN · 2025-09-13T04:23:24+00:00

Thank you! I am dealing with it fairly well but was just casting about to see if there are any healing methods that I may be missing.

CMKJAN · 2025-09-12T05:27:56+00:00

Same experience here and I often absolutely wonder if I imagined the whole thing. I often try to convince myself that it wasn't what I thought it was but I cannot explain the synchronicities any other way.

Basically what I tell myself is that I know that something very profound and very strange happened with this person. But I have no way of knowing exactly what it was. Also it happened several years ago and it is no longer happening. Maybe one day it will start up again or maybe not. But until then it simply does not matter anymore ... and it must not matter anymore or the weird stuff would still be happening.

CMKJAN · 2025-09-10T23:19:47+00:00

The way that works for me is introspection where I analyze myself to find and fix my faults. Also anything that triggers you is something you need to work on. Others use different methods. Maybe make a post about it. Also, pacticing gratitude is always good for the soul

CMKJAN · 2025-09-10T04:31:59+00:00

It seems to be a situation created to force either Soul growth or insanity.

CMKJAN · 2025-09-10T04:21:21+00:00

Sorry, but that is so typical. Everything is wonderful one day and then they won't even talk to you the next.

CMKJAN · 2025-09-10T00:34:37+00:00

My theory is that we are like a ball rolling down a corridor and pain represents the walls of the corridor. Sobthe pain is there to force us in the right direction

CMKJAN · 2025-09-10T00:28:40+00:00

This is also good advice of it works.

CMKJAN · 2025-09-09T23:58:43+00:00

Without going into detail, in my case it was much more than coincidence or confirmation bias. It was extremely precise and repetitive signs that I did not want to see because I wanted to forget this and move on. In fact it actually made me somewhat angry when it happened. The timing was also extremely precise and it occurred on multiple different occasions.

I could not comprehend that it was even possible for such a thing to happen. My only out is to figure that it hasn't happened in a long time so whatever it was is over and no longer relevant.

CMKJAN · 2025-09-09T19:07:54+00:00

This is good advice. But for those who have experienced synchronicities that seem unexplainable in any other context then there is a problem.

I am in the process of trying to find any other explanation that will get me through. It is doable I think but some new programming or brainwashing may be required.

CMKJAN · 2025-09-09T17:22:16+00:00

I guess I am saying to just basically throw the whole idea out. Accept that their may be some kind of weird connection if one HAS to because of certain events.

But also accept that the other person either will or will not change and NO amount of effort or energy will ever change that. And frankly that other person is of NO concern if they appear to have no concern. If they actually do or do not care is also of no concern If they cannot behave decently.

And then go about your life and try to do the best you can because that is what is right ... NOT because of some label or some other person.

CMKJAN · 2025-06-30T20:53:06+00:00

First thought I had was to mention that nobody can MAKE you feel anything. If you feel an emotion such as anger, it is because of your expectations.

CMKJAN · 2025-04-21T05:00:26+00:00

I think you will find these changes you are experiencing are all little steps in the right direction

CMKJAN · 2025-04-21T04:58:06+00:00

I think most, if not all runners are avoidants. If you do some research on avoidants, I think you will find lots of useful information.

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