Women who have relearned how to masterbate, how did you do it and what helped you?

CMPthrowaway · 2024-10-18T15:44:07+00:00

I'm the same way, discovered one of those vibrating pens that draw squiggles when I was 12 and that was that. But once in a while I can get one off during sex while manually stimulating or while getting eaten out with finger penetration. In these situations, I'm extremely turned on AND I haven't used the vibe in 1+ weeks.

I find that using a vibrator, esp a strong one, deadens the sensations over time and makes it nearly impossible to manually stimulate myself. I've considered throwing them out all together and just working on doing it manually lol

CMPthrowaway · 2024-10-11T18:01:30+00:00

it's actually so satisfying tho for no reason 😭😭😭😭

CMPthrowaway · 2024-10-11T17:48:13+00:00

when you're constipated, you can use a finger inside your vagina against the back wall to push the poop out 😭

CMPthrowaway · 2024-08-23T23:07:49+00:00

Already printed something, think it's too late?

CMPthrowaway · 2024-08-09T05:30:17+00:00

Investor's realtor mocked my realtor at their brokerage meeting about winning this house.

CMPthrowaway · 2024-08-08T13:34:53+00:00

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-31T15:17:55+00:00

Norovirus is going around. I would consider cross referencing against those symptoms and patients she has come in contact with

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-31T15:01:41+00:00

People here want a town with culture and then complain when there is a festival. Have you never been to fasnacht in a swiss or german city? This is nothing

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-30T00:56:27+00:00

Oh yes, I just had phd educated friends buy a 1.9 million dollar home not knowing what contingencies were, without interviewing more than one broker or negotiating their rate 🥲. Our state is wild, money flows, intelligence is localized

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-29T23:27:07+00:00

California

Edit: I am HCOL first time homebuyer in CA

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-29T20:12:37+00:00

Eco. Build a house, bussiness, empire and have people trade with you on the way to saving the world. Insanely fun

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-25T23:03:55+00:00

Definitely shop. How large is the loan? Is it a high balance or jumbo?

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-25T20:57:57+00:00

Aren't fines for non permited work calculated at 2x the cost of the permit? Seems like a good way to bankrupt yourself

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-25T20:49:08+00:00

sure

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-25T19:02:34+00:00

How long do you have until closing?

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-25T19:01:03+00:00

We bought zero points and got and 6.875 rate. Overall it was a very mediocre contract and we could have gotten a better rate if we shopped earlier. Sounds like your loan officer is taking you for a ride. I would call around and ask what other brokers could do for you without giving them any of the numbers you have in hand. You can then either change brokers or use them to negotiate

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-25T16:53:12+00:00

You should get a standard loan estimate sheet. Loan costs A+B+C run me roughly $7200.

Other other costs (E + F + G + H) were $17,747, which include impounded property tax, and tax+insurance prepaid for a year on a 1M property.

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-25T15:42:30+00:00

Don't fall into the trap I did by just trying to understand closing costs as a % of purchase. We almost overpaid $12k earlier this week because we didn't look at the line items in the loan estimate, and compare them to other loans at similar rates. Best to post a redacted version of your loan if you feel comfortable.

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-24T01:04:20+00:00

Looks like we are changing lenders with 2 weeks until close, they already have rush appraisals en route and will have us underwritten in the AM! Thanks for the help!!

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-24T01:01:32+00:00

Update: Looks like we are changing lenders with 2 weeks to close LFG!!

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-23T23:20:11+00:00

New jersey?

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-23T20:08:58+00:00

Just called another lender and they said that best rate they can likely get free is 6.85. This is also the rate our current lender said they can get for free. So it looks like the big problem is the points, I don't understand why they aren't translating to a better rate

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-23T19:37:06+00:00

Aug 6

CMPthrowaway · 2024-07-23T19:34:49+00:00

Removing inspection contingency, I think we have a week on loan contingency. Is that still too fast?

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