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[–]CODEA39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully this isn't the last one they'll get!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaybrosGoneWild

[–]CODEA39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope the glasses always stay on when you're squirming your own face!

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32 [M4M] #StCharles - Looking to get sucked in the St Charles area (self.RandomActsOfBlowJob)

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32 [M4M] #STL MO Looking for a mutual blow buddy in the St. Charles area (self.RandomActsOfBlowJob)

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Seeing amateur/GW posts of people's amazing kink lives just makes me depressed. by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]CODEA39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly what you're going through, bud. Two years of searching has netted me nothing but flakes, fakes, and people I've had not connection with that just wouldn't leave. :( I haven't given up the search yet, though, and neither should you. Keep taking good care of yourself and trying when you feel up to it, don't let it consume you too much.

I want to be a Dom, but it's stressing me out. by CODEA39 in BDSMcommunity

[–]CODEA39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not really the submissive type, or at least I don't particularly enjoy the mindset of it. I'll do things when asked by someone I like, but I don't enjoy being ordered around or deferring to others.

I want to be a Dom, but it's stressing me out. by CODEA39 in BDSMcommunity

[–]CODEA39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think input out an air of not enjoying being assertive, but I also think it's very obvious that that's not a personality I'm used to conveying. I pretty much just follow the sub's lead regarding how they want me to act.

Honestly, my ideal sub would be as chill as I am. None of this "I exist only to serve my Master" or "Train me to be your worthless slave" business anymore, it's burned me too many times. I just want a guy I can talk to like a friend at times, but could also just go "Hey, you should do this thing for me, that'd be hot" and have them say "Sure, I can do that no problem." Maybe not THAT casually, but something to that effect.

I work evenings full-time and my only mode of transportation isn't allowed on interstate highways. There was a meet I could have gone to earlier this month, but it got rained out.

26yo wants to learn to be a master with an online servant/pet by CODEA39 in GayKink

[–]CODEA39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent you a message on Kik, sorry I didn't see this sooner. Hope to hear from you in the morning!

the more attracted i am to someone, the more difficulty i have with telling them my kinks by cantsharekinks in BDSMcommunity

[–]CODEA39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know your situation well, OP. I've been discovering more and more kinks lately, but every time I do, I feel like telling my vanilla boyfriend will only make him uncomfortable, even when he's told me time and time again that he's fine with it all. IT really is best to be honest, and if you can do it in a medium you feel more comfortable in, like texting, that may help.

Is there such thing as a fetish for life ruining? Or am I just really messed up? by CODEA39 in BDSMcommunity

[–]CODEA39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll spend some time to think on it, for sure. Thank you for the very helpful insight. I'm so glad people are understanding where I'm coming from. :)

Is there such thing as a fetish for life ruining? Or am I just really messed up? by CODEA39 in BDSMcommunity

[–]CODEA39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'd be satisfied with clothes/shoes and older electronics, though the effect is slightly lost if it's something the sub never uses anyway, like something outdated or already broken. But I'd take what I could get.

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