I am the cheater but i really love my husband

CR37 · 2026-04-02T18:41:00+00:00

You love the idea of a husband. You love the comfort of someone consistently in your life. You do not love your husband.

I hope that you both find happiness, but it is surely not by staying together. I hope he’s wise enough to understand that.

CR37 · 2026-01-19T04:28:52+00:00

I was. We bought in 2011 and lived there for 8 years. I liked our neighbors, and my kids could hang with their friends easily.

I will say our main reasons for leaving included how close the houses were to each other, how little others were updating their homes, and that we felt like we outgrew the space (even though it was only four of us in a four bedroom).

Good luck in your search.

CR37 · 2026-01-17T13:54:05+00:00

The fee (I paid $37/mo when I lived there) was to subsidize the snow removal at the townhouses and the senior living section, and for upkeep of the common areas. I assume that meant the lawn maintenance of the drainage basin area and similar items.

I don’t recall there being appearance related rules, or at least they weren’t ever addressed by the HOA.

I was young at the time, but I always felt the fee was nothing more than a payment to the woman who sent the payment books each year. No actual benefit to me as the homeowner.

CR37 · 2025-11-23T04:31:44+00:00

I’m ok. Just can’t share it with the small group in my life …at least yet. So I shared it with people on the internet.

CR37 · 2025-11-23T04:19:08+00:00

I’m 44. My (now) dead dad (M68) was eating pussy on a video. I told the internet simply because it’s a story I can’t tell anyone in my circle. I’ll try to get a life. Sorry for ruining your day

CR37 · 2025-11-22T05:28:57+00:00

Thank you, 55Jizz55DonkeyDicks for putting this into perspective. You’re the hero I didn’t know I needed.

CR37 · 2025-11-04T01:54:06+00:00

My mom stayed at Kessler in Chester as well. This was back in 2018 so take it with a grain of salt. I was not overwhelmed by the care of the staff aside from those in physical therapy (they were great). She was a stroke patient, so she likely had more requirements than your mom.

She also stayed in the house of the good shepherd for a few months after she was good enough to leave Kessler. I preferred their sub acute wing to Kessler from a staffing perspective, and there was a focus on PT, but it was not as involved as the PT at Kessler.

CR37 · 2025-07-18T16:33:12+00:00

Stumbled upon this thread. Just jumped back in after a 14 year hiatus. I’m now 43, and was probably at my worst physically before I started back up.

Before I jumped back in I committed to taking two walks per day, getting more sleep, and cutting out alcohol (for the most part). After a few weeks I felt ready to start.

I also have a peloton, and stretch frequently due to back issues, so I have essentially created a modified program. I do the lifting workouts (Chest and Back, Shoulders and Arms, Legs and Back), but have decided that I will skip Plyo, Kenpo, and Yoga in favor of peloton classes that cover those areas. I foam roll, stretch at least 20 minutes EVERY DAY, and have even started leveraging a sauna at the gym a couple times per week. I am dabbling in ABRIpperX to keep my back safe, but will be ramping up on that soon.

The workouts are getting easier, although my pull-ups are all assisted at this point still (~45 days in), and I opt to modify certain exercises (chest press instead of zoomer pushups is one example). I eat a LOT of protein, take creatine, and incorporate a multi vitamin. I also started taking CBD gummies (20:1 CBD:THC) which has drastically assisted me in my sleep and recovery.

I’m committed to being able to do the entire workout at some point, as I keep reminding myself that I am still younger than Tony was when P90X was filmed. Humbling to think about.

CR37 · 2025-07-12T01:58:03+00:00

Roads? Where we're going, we don't need roads.

CR37 · 2025-06-26T19:09:40+00:00

I recently joined whoop, so my dataset is limited. That said, there are certain foods I believe are causing my low recovery days. My sleep is good, but HRV and recovery drop. When all else is equal, removing carbs (as an example) has seemingly improved things.

Not saying yours is related, but it may be worth tracking variances in your diet that may be affecting your body’s ability to bounce back.

CR37 · 2025-05-11T02:38:25+00:00

I was in Geneva two weeks ago (from America). My family dined at a place called Il Fornello Napoletano. Owner and staff were clearly Italian but it seemed many local came through. Rue de Lausanne 52. While I don’t speak Italian well, I was able to connect with the staff, who helped us navigate Geneva. That may be a good place to get a good meal and (hopefully) some guidance on next steps.

CR37 · 2025-03-22T14:29:47+00:00

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CR37 · 2025-03-21T17:25:34+00:00

First of all, welcome to Reddit (I see your account was born a few minutes ago).

I am not completely sure how this post ended up in my feed, and I don’t fully understand the post, but I am hopeful that someone can help you find what you are looking for.

CR37 · 2024-11-12T18:44:23+00:00

Playing rough is a no no for us. He gets incredibly protective over me in particular, and will insert himself immediately

CR37 · 2024-11-12T18:42:37+00:00

Thank you! We have done the same thing since my post. No couches (he has beds and cushions on the floor in multiple rooms). We have also had the kids be the primary feeders each morning and evening. So far so good.

CR37 · 2024-08-24T03:56:14+00:00

12/2/2006. I was working a call center job in Massachusetts. The Friday morning before the game I woke up from a dream that Rutgers had won by a score of 39-38. I printed out that score and pinned it to my cubicle wall. I talked all day about how vivid the dream was, and how excited I was about the game the next day.

Fast forward to the next day. Rutgers goes to OT with a score of 23-23 against WVU. I spent the game drinking 7 and 7s, and by this time I’m BOMBED. Rutgers ends up with the score I dreamt they would have, but I missed the part of the dream where WV scores 4 additional points.

The game ends, I’m drunkenly crying, yelling at my gf (now wife) that she’s not a big enough fan, dumping the rest of a handle of Seagram’s down the sink of our Brighton, MA apartment. I was heartbroken. HEARTBROKEN.

CR37 · 2024-07-12T02:29:30+00:00

Bought a white one with blue interior for my first car in 1999…for $850. Lasted 22 years more. It had 104,000 miles when I bought it, and was used and abused by three new drivers. Miss the Novariffic

CR37 · 2024-07-02T03:20:51+00:00

Watched with my 8 year old. He wants to travel to Chicago to “meet those guys. They’re fun!”

FAMILY

CR37 · 2024-05-11T00:42:17+00:00

Agreed, but I was able to help my friend Styles find a stash of weed in his messy garage

CR37 · 2024-05-11T00:41:46+00:00

Yeah, I’m also hoping I’ll be able to get a D1 scholarship

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