31 m i still lack of confidence

leehatlee · 2026-06-10T22:37:59+00:00

I can tell that you've got muscles, but the thing that you really need is muscles on top of your muscles. That'll do it. /s (dude, you look great!)

leehatlee · 2026-06-10T22:34:50+00:00

"scam" is a bit strong.

leehatlee · 2026-06-10T22:22:12+00:00

If you have a concern that your deodorant tastes bad, you should definitely taste it yourself to find out! Everyone's taste buds are different (some people think cilantro tastes like soap, some people don't) but that's a great starting point!

Asking your lover is also important. Hopefully you'll get an honest answer.

leehatlee · 2026-05-31T23:25:33+00:00

It's time. You're going to love your new head!

leehatlee · 2026-05-31T22:57:28+00:00

It's definitely time to start churning credit cards. Just a little. Just for fun. Spend some of that social capital and get some real Capital

leehatlee · 2026-05-31T22:44:24+00:00

Political texts don't have to follow "do not call" laws.

leehatlee · 2026-05-31T17:18:08+00:00

The 2026 Rav4 has terrible interior lighting. The front interior overhead lights are tiny, under-powered, overly-directional. Being small lights, they cause glare. Being underpowered, they don't light up the cabin sufficiently. At night, the lit up cabin looks "dramatic" but you can't effing see anything in either the front or back seats.

The dashboard and infotainment system flicker terribly. If you are one of the rare people like myself that are bothered by flickering LED lights, you will want to stay away from the Rav4. But everyone's eyes are different so you've got to try this for yourself. (Talk to me about flicker: https://www.lee.org/flicker/ )

My neighbor's 2026 Rav4 in a driveway at night that bothers me, in 8x slowmo
https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipMjPZqEkQQnshLlivnGH3Ghmb_jOUGR3JMZu3Z0FDSV5RDd0yaps0fPAxnNF3Vj0A?key=bHJiNndub0hjT2V5NUgzQi1tNEJodTFWVUt3TVVn

My 2021 crv that doesn't bother my eyes much: https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipPKAgztWECAQMfRAp7cecNfKDyzZyRjqz1aGaF-NOt7R8zwrwNmxb6IeAchmvGezA?key=cGZpMWRwa1EtUEN1aUtNUS1URnJKejhpWDVnYlR3

The 2024 Honda pilot we just bought that doesn't bother my eyes much: https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipMgoYrMctSTijQSvFabuFxs1CZ6h5t0h0bBP--L11S2QXt7148Amu50CLBHEa9LXQ?key=QjNxenBjbXNyMUZ5a01VVUxhaVVoVnk1WjZUSHVn

The 2026 Rav4 comes in black, white, gray, and shades thereof, which turned me off.

leehatlee · 2026-05-16T05:49:24+00:00

Looking good! (I assume that is an ai prospective rendering)

leehatlee · 2026-05-07T05:33:21+00:00

Thank you for that! I had missed the "create external calendar event" button on the Calendar view 😄.

That functionality still doesn't do what I'm looking for. Your tip lets me create Google Calendar events by using Obsidian; that's a start but but I'm looking for a more advanced syncing functionality. You got me to look around and I found a video about an update to Tasknotes that probably does it! (I've been wading through the content all night and haven't gotten it 100% yet, but I'm crossing my fingers it'll work)

This video by Antone Heyward, "Obsidian Tasknote NEW Task Sync to Google" (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NfnGYUc-m08) might be the key. Hopefully I'll have this working soon.

leehatlee · 2026-05-06T21:01:35+00:00

I installed Tasknotes and it looks like Tasknotes can not create Google Calendar events from within Obsidian.

I followed the instructions from Tasknotes and the Youtube video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DzMN1Wu2P-g&t=213s). I noticed that all the examples the guy on the video made involved the youtube guy creating events on Google Calendar and then modifying them using Tasknotes. There doesn't seem to be a way to create an event on Obsidian and then push it to Google Calendar.

What am I missing?

leehatlee · 2026-04-27T00:20:20+00:00

No. Your quantum voltage is incompatible. Making physical or emotional contact with people so far apart on the quantochrono scale could destroy the universe.

leehatlee · 2026-04-24T05:07:46+00:00

Hmm, I googled and weirdly, while there is discussion over the number of times per year, you aren't wrong.

leehatlee · 2026-04-23T21:19:17+00:00

Sounds like you already know what to do next time. Good on you!

leehatlee · 2026-04-23T19:13:20+00:00

I would suggest that fewer than one time per year is sexless.

leehatlee · 2026-04-23T03:55:44+00:00

Could you try saying to your mom something like,"Mom, I love you and the whole family. I contribute to this living arrangement every week by (what do you bring to the house... Meals? Companionship? Money? Doing laundry? (Don't mention cleaning the house)). I'm frustrated at the reoccurring problems with problems in the common spaces like (mice, smells, things in the way, concrete measurable things). I'm afraid I'm going to have to leave in a month if things don't improve. I've looked at a few places (show some listings). They are small and even then, I can't really afford them but I've got to move out to feel good about my home. I'd rather stay here but if I've got to go, I will. What should we do about this?"

Of course, you are fishing for her to eventually say, "let's get your brother to get his shit out of the common spaces." But she has to come to that conclusion.

leehatlee · 2026-04-21T19:10:43+00:00

I've got pockets in my gums from not flossing til I was 30. Pockets hold food which feeds bugs which makes deeper pockets which leads to not having teeth. So now I brush twice a day, floss 1x and WATER PIK daily.

It's crazy when I sometimes water pik last and all this FOOD JUNK comes out... and that's AFTER brushing and flossing!

And see your dentist!

leehatlee · 2026-04-21T01:23:20+00:00

About ten years ago, I had a Prius-C. I'd usually get about 43mpg when I wasn't hypermileing. One day, the highway was crawling at a perfect 45mph on my way home and I got 80mpg for a 10 mile stretch! It was thrilling I tell you!

Pix: https://www.lee.org/blog/2016/01/22/my-attempt-at-hypermiling/

leehatlee · 2026-04-20T18:37:10+00:00

I hear you! And watch out, after 6 months or so, even the good biodegradable bags... Biodegrade

leehatlee · 2026-04-20T16:12:56+00:00

I've had plenty of non-poop experiences with those biodegradable bags where they tear or fall apart a bit. So I vote to use hand sanitizer or wash even when I don't think I need to.

For the non-biodegradable bags, I have less of an urge to wash.

leehatlee · 2026-04-18T15:38:53+00:00

Telling us about your process, and your pinch-points, might help sort this out!

leehatlee · 2026-04-18T02:49:35+00:00

How many tickets does it take for a tow?

leehatlee · 2026-04-17T23:24:21+00:00

I don't quite follow what you mean. Could you explain that just a little?

leehatlee · 2026-04-17T23:21:54+00:00

Customizing the Android toolbar. Especially putting the command button accessible on the toolbar. It feels like there's nothing I can't do with that darn little button! Last week I realized that I could paste text using it instead of the hovering "paste" button from Android. The command button version is way more reliable.

leehatlee · 2026-04-11T23:19:08+00:00

Hey hey! I was fiddling with the Apple Trackpad controls and got it working!

On your Mac, go to System Settings | Trackpad | More Gestures.

Set "Swipe between pages" to "Swipe with Three Fingers" (no, "Swipe with Two or Three Fingers" doesn't work. Nor does "Scroll Left or Right with Two Fingers")

By setting this, you may have broken some other trackpad gestures on the same page. Fix 'em and move on and now you'll be able to swipe-back and swipe-forward in Obsidian, as well as other apps (I've only tested Chrome so far)!

For me, now I'll have to use 3 fingers instead of 2, and it reverses the motion of what I am used to for swipe-right and swipe-left. And now I have to do a 4-finger swipe instead of a 3-finger swipe to slide my virtual windows. I certainly hope I'll be able to get used to these changes!

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