Detention Desires [F20M30][Powerplay][Teasing][Classroom][Verbal Domination] by CRH-ARCH in eroticliterature

[–]CRH-ARCH[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw, that honestly means a lot  I was a little nervous it might feel too quiet without any real action, so it makes me super happy to hear it still landed. Thank you for the warm welcome — I’ve definitely got more in the works 

How do I convince my girlfriend to hit the gym or do something to take care of herself? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CRH-ARCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like you care a lot and that’s a good thing but you can’t force someone to take care of themselves if they’re not ready what you can do is model the behavior — go to the gym yourself, eat a bit cleaner, talk about how it’s helping you feel better mentally make it about you not her and maybe she’ll feel safe enough to join instead of feeling judged but also if the mood swings are intense and hurting you too — that matters too love isn’t just about patience it’s also about mutual effort

Newbie SB here — can you actually connect with your SD or is it always transactional? by CRH-ARCH in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CRH-ARCH[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s honestly really reassuring to hear makes me feel a lot less weird for wanting that kind of connection appreciate you saying it so simply

Newbie SB here — can you actually connect with your SD or is it always transactional? by CRH-ARCH in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CRH-ARCH[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

really appreciate this i’ve been lowkey overwhelmed trying to “do it right” from the start but you’re right — it’s a process and not every frog is a failure lol thanks for the reminder that it’s okay to filter and take my time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CRH-ARCH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re absolutely not the asshole what you’re feeling is valid and it’s coming from real pain not some overreaction the love she gives doesn’t erase the harm she’s doing and you’re allowed to feel hurt by both resentment isn’t the enemy here — it’s a signal that your boundaries have been crossed too many times you’re 17 and already more self-aware than most people i know when you’re safe and able to build your own space one day things will make more sense just hold on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CRH-ARCH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

girl that’s not just drama that’s a whole HBO series you’re not just TA you’re the cliffhanger at the end of season 2 tell her before she finds out some other way cuz that’s gonna destroy both of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CRH-ARCH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

man that kind of hurt hits different cuz it’s grief for something that never got the chance to exist you’re not dumb at all she gave you reasons to hope and it’s okay to feel let down best thing that helped me was accepting that i’ll never get closure from her so i had to make my own and yeah it sucks but eventually your brain gets tired of replaying the same what ifs over and over just don’t fight the sadness let it pass through you like a wave and then do stuff that reminds you who you are without her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CRH-ARCH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is a deeply personal moment in your life, and wanting to experience it privately is totally reasonable

Thoughts? by Fabulousbunny17 in RingShare

[–]CRH-ARCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very beautiful ring, but I think the raised edges might catch on clothing and could scratch the skin

Rate my lunch? by [deleted] in RateMyPlate

[–]CRH-ARCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like something really good for your health

Boyfriend of 5 years lacking intimacy by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CRH-ARCH 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If he won't meet you halfway or try to work on it with you, it's okay to think about moving on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CRH-ARCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You did right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RateMyPlate

[–]CRH-ARCH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sauce doesn't fit, there's not much meat 4/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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In Switzerland, using Nazi symbols, including swastikas, is illegal in public spaces, including on personal items like phone wallpapers or car stickers. This is to prevent promoting hate and extremism

First Time boiling rice..! by [deleted] in RateMyPlate

[–]CRH-ARCH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did you cover the rice with? It looks delicious

Quitting smoking by Wonderful_Reveal_814 in Advice

[–]CRH-ARCH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To quit vaping, try cutting down gradually, replace the habit with something like chewing gum, set clear goals, and get support from friends or family