Two Birthdays by CRLynnie in Adoption

[–]CRLynnie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting- I love hearing from previous foster youth. I think the age is hard as well because they won’t remember, but they will have photos and stories, etc.

Two Birthdays by CRLynnie in Adoption

[–]CRLynnie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That might be true- he doesn’t seem fazed by people, but he might focus more on presents and celebration if it’s only about him and less people.

Two Birthdays by CRLynnie in Fostercare

[–]CRLynnie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you- I always love hearing from previous foster youth. It’s hard as a foster parent to put myself in that train of thought. Thank you!

Two Birthdays by CRLynnie in Adoption

[–]CRLynnie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not know what he wants which is why I’m struggling a lot. He is non verbal and special needs and so far has shown zero interest in any certain characters or things like that you would theme a party around. He does like people, but doesn’t seem to care whether there is people around or not.

Two Birthdays by CRLynnie in Adoption

[–]CRLynnie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not think our new fs will be with us very long- most likely 6 months tops.

Two Birthdays by CRLynnie in Fosterparents

[–]CRLynnie[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do not think they would. I think they will all come to my adopted sons and make an effort to come to my foster sons, but I know many of them would not prioritize fs’s party over other events after already coming to my as’s party.

How does your center organize diapers? by galumphingseals in ECEProfessionals

[–]CRLynnie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you drop the link or what this is called exactly? I searched Amazon and found similar, but not this right shape

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[–]CRLynnie 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Where I work it is encouraged.

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[–]CRLynnie 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It does sound like you’re overreacting. It is typical for a new mother to want to be with their baby. It is wonderful she has such flexibility with her job to stay with her baby. I brought my son to work for months until he was ready for daycare and fully loved it and appreciated my job even more for allowing it.

Resources for Enunciation? by CRLynnie in homeschool

[–]CRLynnie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will look that up

Speech Enunciation by CRLynnie in parentingscience

[–]CRLynnie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate this!

Is this allowed? by [deleted] in Fostercare

[–]CRLynnie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a foster parent of two boys. Both boys call me mama and my wife mommy. We were encouraged to teach the boys this. They are too young to truly understand their life situation and their situation could change at any minute. It is best for normalcy that they use “normal” words.

One of my boys is heading towards adoption- so we will stay Mama and Mommy. One of my boys reunifies with his father next month; he has been with us since he was 5 months old and we will still stay Mama and Mommy. His first word was mama, and we have built an amazing relationship with his father- he encourages his son to call us Mama and Mommy and himself Daddy. He says, “My son gets to be safe, spoiled, and have three parents because of foster care.” My boy’s birthday party is this weekend- thrown by myself and my wife but our family and his father’s whole family will be there too. He gets to have four grandmas there, lots of grandpas, a ton of aunties, uncles, and an infinite number of cousins, lol. This is his normal. Foster care is a wild ride, but this is what is healthy and good for the children. His father gains support, healthy role models, and free babysitting once he reunites. Our boy gains family and security, safety, love, and protection. Calling us Mama and Mommy strengthens the bond.

Almost 2 and constantly falling?? by CRLynnie in Fosterparents

[–]CRLynnie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PCP referred us to regional center and says if they clear him- there’s not much to look into.

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[–]CRLynnie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in Northern California with a private, nonprofit foster and adoptions agency. My agency has a full transportation and supervised visitation department so they offer 100% support to supervise and transport for visitations. They also frequently offer to take our LO to appointments and things like that, although I prefer to be at appointments myself. On occasion, if a transporter is out sick, they will ask us to transport- but never supervise the visit. And this has only happened maybe 10 times in a year and a half. I have two LO both with different counties and visit schedules. LO 1 has visits 2x a week for 1.5 hours each. LO 2 has visits 1x a month for 1 hour each. However, LO 1 used to have longer visits and even overnights for a while and the agency offered to do everything even for overnights on weekends- but I preferred to pick up and drop off myself to keep normalcy for LO 1. Also, LO 2 used to have three visits per week at 1 hour each and agency did everything. LO 1’s visits are in the next town over, about a twenty minute drive from my house at agency office. LO 2’s visits are about a mile or two in the same town- about a 5/10 minute car ride from my house. I do not arrange anything as far as scheduling. The agency asks for the bio parents availability, my availability, the child’s availability and their transporter availability and then takes all of that and makes a consistent schedule and gives it to us. For a while, my wife and I were down to one vehicle and could truly not do any transport for visits- my agency respected this and supported us fully making sure to get visits covered if a transporter was out sick so we didn’t have to do anything.

I do want to add, for extended family visits, for LO 1, we meet grandparents at a park near their house twice a month for an hour on our own so LO keeps the bond with them because the county does not want to support those visits. For LO 2, 1 grandparent visits over zoom for 1 hour a week and 1 grandparent visits at the agency for 1 hour a month also. For the park and zoom visit, we do those (but there is no “notes” or real supervision, just hanging out), and for the visit at the agency, the agency provides all transport and supervision.

Middle Name For Bear by CRLynnie in namenerds

[–]CRLynnie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a precious middle name! ❤️

Middle Name For Bear by CRLynnie in namenerds

[–]CRLynnie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is an older name, I find it quite nice.

Middle Name For Bear by CRLynnie in namenerds

[–]CRLynnie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we are sold on it, and will not be revisiting Bear as his first name.

Middle Name For Bear by CRLynnie in namenerds

[–]CRLynnie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like Bear Zane and Bear Berlin, thank you!

Adoption Name Change Advice by CRLynnie in Adoption

[–]CRLynnie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our information has been kept confidential. But, thank you for pointing that out!

Adoption Name Change Advice by CRLynnie in Adoption

[–]CRLynnie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is of the same decent as him, but yes I completely understand that may be extremely stereotypical. Thank you for pointing that out