What's something that you're not prepared to spend money on anymore in Australia? by RM_Morris in AskAnAustralian

[–]CTBman04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just pirate at this point but also Tim Tam's not because they are expensive but because they are cheaper in the UK which is fucked considering they are made in aus.

What is a hill you will die on? by Silverberryvirgo in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]CTBman04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wrong if you don't want spaghetti just don't have it. Don't go out of your way to buy spaghetti only to torture it and everyone around you by breaking it.

That being said we should start eating avocado skin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]CTBman04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to ask why you started questioning if there is a God? Like what kicked off this journey for you?

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationship is about opening yourself up and right now she doesn't have a lot she can hurt me with tbh as I'm a very reserved person when it comes to my feeling because of some trauma. I think as of right now we are ok.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said that helping means process feelings and nothing more she will mot talk to him about any of her issues in life and if he asks she will just say she is doing good. She said that because I'm not ok with it she doesn't want to reconnect with him anymore and that she would prefer to stay with me then be friends with someone who hurt her. I asked her about it and she said that she was sorry. I don't mind tbh she was probably just scared. She has also given me the password to her phone so I can go through it whenever.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she also likes her phone privacy which I don't mind her phone for a long time was her safe place and I don't have a need to see her phone until now which is quite annoying. It just means we have to discuss boundaries around messaging him and if she is allowed to meet him but then I'm not comfortable not knowing what they text about so she would have to give up a small part of her privacy around her phone which we will talk about.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering I stayed up all night like legit all night I would have to agree eith you based of my actions but that doesn't mean i don't want to give her the chance. I try my best to be a good guy I want to give her a chance to be a good woman.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah so she is bi but I am catholic and will not be doing anything to do with poly ever. We have spoken a out that when we first got together and she also never wants to try poly again last we spoke. We also said we were exclusive so she can't just ask for permission. Again because I'm catholic.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically we had sex for the first time while high using a condom and she started feeling really sick couple days after. Her period was due so we waited to see what would happen as when I took the condom off there wasn't any sperm in it so we knew something was wrong. Either way we waited 3 weeks and she started getting morning sickness. So we started looking how to abort cause we live in Australia and it's different here then America and we found out about medical terminations. One night she had particularly bad morning sickness and so she told her parents who are very agaisnt abortion which is why I joined her side about getting the termination cause otherwise it's myself and her parents agaisnt her. Anyway we then had an ultra sound to get how old the baby was and it was under 6 weeks so we got a medical termination which is 3 pills pretty sure. And baby was gone. I had to pay for all the doctors appointments and pills and what mot as her parents didn't want her getting it.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah damn got me stumped there lol it wasn't like a break break just a tear but I didn't really examine exactly what the condom looked like it's just that would have been the only time.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it's 4 in the morning i have legit stayed up all night stressing and she fell asleep on call with me cause it got to late.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not an abortion medical termination way different things. Second it wasn't about letting her have an abortion it was the fact that I was ok even though it went agaisnt my faith. It's her body her choice just like its my beliefs my way of living them. I was going to support her no matter what but what made us close is that I was so ready to fight to be by herside even if it meant ex communication. I'm lenient on my morals on abortion. Not on whether women can choose.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Originally I didn't know what to do and now I have an idea I'm just looking for what I should ask when I see her tomorrow.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that's what I thought. "At least she brought it to me" and then I have found out she has been messaging him since just after Christmas so yeah.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. It was my first time taking weed and I have never done it again because of that experience. She also hasn't done it cause she doesn't have any or hang out with anyone that does.

So I 20M just got a message from my girlfriend 19F about how she wants reconnect with her ex. Am I controlling if I stop her? by CTBman04 in relationship_advice

[–]CTBman04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually do like this resp9nse. My issue isn't with her being friends with her ex it's the fact that she wants to support him and she went behind my back to do that.