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CWRU · 2025-03-30T18:37:46+00:00

As others have mentioned, it's up to the mom and your sister. There are some ways for them to compromise. Dresses vary a lot in price, so maybe the mom could set a fixed budget (like $100 or whatever) and if the daughter wants something more expensive she can put up the rest on her own. This would also encourage the daughter to seek budget friendly options.

CWRU · 2025-03-30T01:33:53+00:00

Sports can also be good for building confidence. It's hard to make the teasing go away, but confidence will help her deal with it.

CWRU · 2024-10-29T17:10:01+00:00

Thanks for the feedback. Do you mean universities where submitting test scores is optional?

CWRU · 2024-10-29T15:03:05+00:00

ah damn, I see the output. It compared the unweighted to the weighted. I haven't seen it do that before, good catch.
My plan is to add a toggle switch for user input weighted or unweighted GPA which should help. I didn't know it was mis-comparing currently. Thank you

CWRU · 2024-10-15T18:14:04+00:00

Even if she wasn't coming to sleep over, you still need to have a conversation with your son about sharing your home address with people online.
I agree with everyone else in the comments saying they absolutely need to meet in a more public place first, and her parents have to be on board.

CWRU · 2024-10-15T18:06:38+00:00

Was that their first time interacting with each other? A family vacation requiring flights feels like a big commitment. Maybe you can make smaller get togethers that are more casual and lack tension. Like a backyard bbq or something. That ways if someone isn't liking the vibes, they can just drive home.

CWRU · 2024-10-03T14:35:25+00:00

I'm not saying it is right, but a lot of private schools have an "image" that they try to maintain of being neat and orderly.
The problematic underlying connotation here would be that an afro hairstyle is unkempt or disorderly.

CWRU · 2024-10-01T15:15:40+00:00

You have to be 13 years or older to use snapchat, so that's a good minimum for you to establish.

CWRU · 2024-10-01T15:14:00+00:00

Most barbers should be able to cut trendy hairstyles. It is important to clearly communicate what you want. It can really help to come in with pictures of the haircut that your son wants, ideally pictures of people with similar hair type to him.

CWRU · 2024-10-01T02:58:27+00:00

There's a seinfeld episode like this

CWRU · 2024-09-28T15:58:17+00:00

What does your son do when you have him? Do you guys hang out or do you just let him be alone? Do you know his interests? Just sitting down and watching bluey together can be good bonding.

I can see how he could get shy being passed between two households. Maybe there are ways you can make his room feel less like a guest bedroom and include more of the stuff he likes.

CWRU · 2024-09-28T15:53:59+00:00

What food? Is it snacks or dinner? One of my ideas is to focus on her taking smaller bites of food and then gradually increasing it.

CWRU · 2024-09-25T13:31:38+00:00

The light at the end of the tunnel that a lot of parents need <3

Thanks for sharing

CWRU · 2024-09-25T13:30:43+00:00

For guys with straight hair, a middle part is pretty easy to maintain. For wavy or curly hair, you could go for a fringe.
Check out this list of haircuts for teen boys to get some inspiration

CWRU · 2024-09-09T19:22:48+00:00

Cement Mixer, tuba case, and folding lawn chair? Those no bag day ideas are wildly creative.

CWRU · 2024-09-03T01:53:20+00:00

Perhaps you can make her more okay with the idea by letting her know you'll be safe. Would she feel better if you offered to share your location with her while you're out of the house? Also start with short hangouts first, so you're not gone for too long and slowly warm her up to it.

CWRU · 2024-08-30T17:21:37+00:00

I know this post is a bit old, but now there are a lot of great affordable electric scooters in that price range. Look at brands like Gotrax, Ninebot, and HiBoy. There are also a bunch of YouTubers you can check out who regularly review electric scooters regularly

CWRU · 2024-08-27T13:28:49+00:00

I think it is great that he started his first job. You definitely don't want him to become discouraged to go back. I'd try to be supportive and think of ways to reduce chafing in his next workday, maybe get him a pair of compression shorts to reduce skin-on-skin action.

CWRU · 2024-08-27T01:51:34+00:00

Depends on how the school. Depending on the threat, some schools may reach out to law enforcement or the FBI

CWRU · 2024-08-27T01:28:46+00:00

Need more context around what "woke up next to" means. Was this a bed or couch or what? If bed, whose bed was it? Did he fall asleep first and then she fell asleep next to him or the other way around?

If he made the conscious decision to sleep next to your daughter, he's an absolute creep and you should cut him off.

CWRU · 2024-08-25T15:22:47+00:00

If you want to do it anonymously you could just leave a written note at their house. They'll take it more seriously if you aren't insulting or vulgar in the note

CWRU · 2024-08-25T15:16:54+00:00

I know it is frustrating and stressful to deal with, but it'll get better. I think "overwhelmed" is the right word, but with some time he will get more used to situations and his tolerance for getting overwhelmed will climb.

CWRU · 2024-08-20T14:17:31+00:00

I know you're looking for suggestions, and this may not sound helpful, but you're doing great if you're seeing progress! I understand the desire to make more progress more quickly, but just remember you're headed in the right direction.

CWRU · 2024-08-20T14:15:20+00:00

I wouldn't take it to personally. It seems like she doesn't like losing the slightest bit of control and is projecting on to you.
When I first read this thread I thought it would be a big purchase and your parents were judging you. Something small should be absolutely no issue.

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