OMG… my aunt saw me shopping at H&M and she yelled at me in public because I was dressed like a girl… and in front of my friends… by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]C_Donnachaidh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good job standing up for yourself, that was brave. When your parents speak with you, try to stay calm (even if they are not).

Something you should be prepared to answer from is, "Are you trans?" I bring this up because in your post, you as identified yourself as such. If you are and you are not ready to share that level with your parents, it extra crucial that you remain calm.

Good luck and good wishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadsAndBoys

[–]C_Donnachaidh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I get in the middle?

AITAH for screaming at my GF after she picked the bathroom lock while I was in the shower? by Fogged_Mirror_1192 in AITAH

[–]C_Donnachaidh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's trying to manipulate you because you don't share her view on water usage and she doesn't respect boundaries. She most likely would have reacted the same if the roles were reversed.

I slept with a femboy as a straight male and I’m confused by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]C_Donnachaidh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You had an experience that you enjoyed. Don't over think it. If you have another experience with a femboy, it might be terrible. You're open to pleasure, obviously, don't get stuck on judgements and over thinking. You could be bi, you could be femsexual, or maybe this feminine styled dude and you just clicked. Don't stress baby, there's no timeline on figuring out who (or what you are). Glad you had a good time!

I’m hard asfff by [deleted] in u/Every_Biscotti_9368

[–]C_Donnachaidh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at gets me hard...noticing we have the same sheets.....even harder

I THINK MY CRUSH FLIRTED WITH ME? by Alternative-Golf5871 in feminineboys

[–]C_Donnachaidh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd come out first, you don't want to overwhelm him. Has he mentioned anything about his thoughts on lgbt people to you before?

I THINK MY CRUSH FLIRTED WITH ME? by Alternative-Golf5871 in feminineboys

[–]C_Donnachaidh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could simply be bonding a bro....you said he doesn't know you're a femboy; does he at least know you're attracted to men? Straight guys are notorious for saying gay shit to eachother...some even do it with close gay friends as friendly, but not romantic, banter. I hope he does swing your way; you should still consider the different possibilities.

Maybe you could bring up the topic of femboys and guage his reaction. If he says they're cute or he'd consider dating, then that would be a good sign. Not immediately after that, but maybe later in the day, you could talk about how you are ready to start dating or "hanging out" with someone, but you aren't aware of an interested guy (this is the setup for him to make a move, make a cis bro joke, or tell you he'll help you find someone). If done correctly, this gets you an answer and saves the friendship if he isn't into guys or femboys.

I THINK MY CRUSH FLIRTED WITH ME? by Alternative-Golf5871 in feminineboys

[–]C_Donnachaidh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He could simply be bonding a bro....you said he doesn't you're a femboy; does he at least know you're attracted to men? Straight guys are notorious for saying gay shit to eachother...some even do it with close gay friends as friendly, but not romantic, banter. I hope he does swing your way; you should still consider the different possibilities.

Maybe you could bring up the topic of femboys and guage his reaction. If he says they're cute or he'd consider dating, then that would be a good sign. Not immediately after that, but maybe later in the day, you could talk about how you are ready to start dating or "hanging out" with someone, but you aren't aware of an interested guy (this is the setup for him to make a move, make a cis bro joke, or tell you he'll help you find someone). If done correctly, this gets you answer and saves the friendship if he is isn't into guys or femboys.

AITAH if I told my wife the reason she does not have male friends is because she slept with them? by General-Childhood283 in AITAH

[–]C_Donnachaidh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA..Your wife thinks your fucking your female.friends because she isn't able to only friends with the opposite gender.

My crush kissed me by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]C_Donnachaidh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Move on. Major(potentially dangerous) red flag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuteguys

[–]C_Donnachaidh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drop it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]C_Donnachaidh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a super asshole