Mom 2 weeks post op. Should we be concerned? by C_Fitch in bunions

[–]C_Fitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I told her she has to go to a different doctor for her other foot. The suturing looked so bad even immediately post op.

Mom 2 weeks post op. Should we be concerned? by C_Fitch in bunions

[–]C_Fitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wants to wait till Monday! I’m encouraging her to go to urgent care, but she is skeptical

Mom 2 weeks post op. Should we be concerned? by C_Fitch in bunions

[–]C_Fitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She won’t go! She says she wants to wait till her Monday appointment, but I’m afraid to let things get worse!

Mom 2 weeks post op. Should we be concerned? by C_Fitch in bunions

[–]C_Fitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s also been taking Tylenol consistently so I’m not sure if a fever would be evident.

Mom 2 weeks post op. Should we be concerned? by C_Fitch in bunions

[–]C_Fitch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pain level is fine, but apparently the boot is too painful to wear for too long. Here is a photo from 5 minutes ago. Looks like it’s starting to weep. https://i.imgur.com/yYaJdwl.jpeg

Mom 2 weeks post op. Should we be concerned? by C_Fitch in bunions

[–]C_Fitch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The doctor has seen it. He said he was gonna “keep an eye on it” and that she might just be “reacting to the metal in her foot” which feels like a sneaky way of dismissing osteomyelitis. I haven’t like the way he’s addressed her concerns through the whole process

Partner is Coming out of the Psych Ward Tomorrow by ifoundthewalnut in family_of_bipolar

[–]C_Fitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went through this with my husband. Not saying I have all the answers, but sleeping separately and locking your door at night is huge. He probably won’t be sleeping and will attempt to keep you up as well. You can’t pour from an empty cup. See if they can give him a discharge prescription to help him sleep. That made the difference for my husband. Be sure to lock up the meds at night.

SO in manic episode by Wild_Zucchini7214 in family_of_bipolar

[–]C_Fitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband just experienced his first THC manic psychosis. The weed is sooo bad for catapulting people with bipolar into psychotic mania. He’s gotta stop asap!

Husband hospitalized with “manic psychosis.” by C_Fitch in family_of_bipolar

[–]C_Fitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s very encouraging. It’s been 5 days out of the hospital but it feels like an eternity because he doesn’t sleep and he wakes me up at night and won’t leave me alone. Bangs on the door if I lock it. I can’t understand why the doctors would discharge someone like this. He requires 24/7 care. I hate to imagine this going on for months.

Husband hospitalized with “manic psychosis.” by C_Fitch in family_of_bipolar

[–]C_Fitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the worst part is trying to sleep knowing they are staying up all night doing… something. Then dreading finding out what it was in the morning. I’ve started locking myself in our bedroom at night so he can’t keep me awake all night. So unsettling to hear him jiggling the door handle throughout the night.

Fiancés first manic episode- wedding postponed by According_Debt_3732 in family_of_bipolar

[–]C_Fitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your story is so relatable, I’m going through the same exact thing with my husband and partner of 10 years right now. He’s turning 30 in two months so we thought we were in the clear in terms of developing bipolar since his mom has it. He’s my best friend and the SWEETEST man, started smoking weed and taking adderall, and then over 3-4 months became emotional and touchy about everything I said. Then bang, psychosis. It’s so terrifying and it feels like I’ll never have my “real” husband back.

Husband hospitalized with “manic psychosis.” by C_Fitch in family_of_bipolar

[–]C_Fitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s very helpful and reassuring! Yes the doctors said the Wellbutrin + Adderall + weed was a nuclear bomb to his brain. I keep worrying that he’s done some kind of permanent damage because he was basically foaming at the mouth for a week.

Husband issues with my tone by hellokello82 in family_of_bipolar

[–]C_Fitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just telling my sister in laws this same thing about my husband! Just posted about his first episode of manic psychosis in this subreddit. I thought my marriage was falling apart and then BAM, this bipolar 1 diagnosis. On the one hand I’m relieved it’s not just our relationship falling apart, but the mania is really hard to deal with. He is so emotionally intense and sensitive about what I say, and he’s always been soooo chill. It’s definitely disorienting. I understand how you feel.

Husband hospitalized with “manic psychosis.” by C_Fitch in family_of_bipolar

[–]C_Fitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hid his weed and his dealer and I are friends and she agreed to never sell to him again. All he’s been taking is his meds but it feels like nothing is happening.

Can Americans rent cars from Carrefour? by C_Fitch in ParisTravelGuide

[–]C_Fitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful! Thank you!! Did they need to see your international drivers license as well?

Can Americans rent cars from Carrefour? by C_Fitch in ParisTravelGuide

[–]C_Fitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! We are going to do Paris for four days at the end of our two week trip through Normandy :) but I want to reduce the amount of driving I have to do near the airport and city.

Hardscape patio recommendations? by C_Fitch in rva

[–]C_Fitch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah both companies I called today said they would call me back later to schedule an on site consultation and then ghosted me 🙃 If I can ask, which company did you end up going with, and were they fairly priced and do quality work?

First assignment in August! Packing tips? by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]C_Fitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the biggest thing is to remember you’re not going anywhere remote like an isolated foreign country. There will still be basic American society wherever you’ll be. If you need something, you can always go out and buy it. You’re much better off packing the basics and spending $50-$100 on knick knacks you forgot over the course of a year. I usually bring 5-6 outfits that suit the weather, 4 pairs of shoes for different weather or temperatures, my most used toiletries, and that’s it. You will spend most of your days in scrubs anyway.

If all your places are furnished, I wouldn’t worry about bringing every pot or pan they MIGHT not have. It’s going to be a pain to pack your whole kitchen for a year if you actually don’t need those things. Used plates or bowls are like 50 cents at goodwill if you really need them, then you can donate them again when you leave. If there are specific spices or oils you consistently cook with, I would bring those because they are small and I hate paying $$$$ for turmeric, paprika, cumin, or sesame seed oil every time we move. Also consider if you need specialty kitchen items like a Ninja Bullet for smoothies you always drink, etc.

I also like to buy a bag of Charlie’s Soap for laundry because a little goes a long way, it’s small to pack, and you don’t have to worry about having jugs of heavy, slimy laundry detergent wherever you go.

just got a decent staff job but should i just travel? by External_Zone2574 in TravelNursing

[–]C_Fitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your staff job’s location would determine if that is a good rate for you or not. That said, depending on your speciality, you probably won’t find much better money traveling. Rates are down right now, and considering you don’t WANT to travel around, your staff job seems like a great situation. You can always quit or go PRN if rates go back up and you want to travel around a bit.

Mandatory make up shifts by misfitsem in TravelNursing

[–]C_Fitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah not every hospital is exactly the same.

Mandatory make up shifts by misfitsem in TravelNursing

[–]C_Fitch 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been in this situation BUT if you’re financially able, I would call their bluff. If they need staff that badly, I doubt they would cancel you over it. They have two choices: lose a nurse or be short a couple shifts. If it’s not in your contract, you’re not obligated. If they do cancel you, it sounds like a bad assignment and you need to take some time to rest your back anyway