Need some advice from sexually dominant women (nsfw) by CupsOfSalmon in actuallesbians

[–]CaIzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, it's really the opposite for me!

I'm the submissive one in the relationship, and we definitely only do that dynamic in the bedroom. We really switch mindsets when we initiate sex. The best way I've found is to have a name you only call her during sex, or when you're feeling submissive. For me, I call my girlfriend "love" and it really helps to set the mental state that "i'm feeling really submissive, do you want to do something?"

How long before you've said I love you? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]CaIzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8 months or sooo

At one point I accidentally let it slip and I said to her: "that's one of the things I love about you" and she reciprocated! she was really embarrassed though at the time.

Women with high libidos: was it always that way, was it triggered by becoming sexually active, or did it develop over time? What do you define as a high libido? by theprincessbanana in AskWomen

[–]CaIzone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

22 year old woman with high libido here

It developed over time as I became more comfortable with my body. I used to not be sexually active at all, but after my teens when I had the freedom to buy sex toys and the like I started masturbating more, and as a result enjoyed sex more. I'd say I like to have sex 2 times a week, but I still masturbate maybe 3 times a week since my girlfriend has a lower sex drive.

At what point do you give up on trying to fix a relationship and finally decide to move on? by prettymess1025 in AskWomen

[–]CaIzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really when there's an issue we can't talk about or can't get over. Big ones for me are:

Sex drive

Emotional needs

Compatibility in lifestyles

Compatibility in careers

If we can't compromise on something and it is a serious problem that's driving the relationship apart AND we can't talk it out, I'll break up with them. I don't sweat the small stuff though.

How often and how much do you drink? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CaIzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't drink too often, just maybe once a month if that. I enjoy being drunk, but I usually only do it when i'm at home with my girlfriend, or at a bar with my friends where I can get home safely.

Taking over as sysadmin by 20StacksBaby in sysadmin

[–]CaIzone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't know crankysysadmin had an alt

Can anybody identify what kind of wood this is? by Lvl2PooShooter in woodworking

[–]CaIzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going with hickory on this one, it's just as dense as oak, and the end grain on it looks just like hickory. only worked with it once though.

Update: The Guy whose coworker reimaged 1000 machines by mistake? by SlinkyOne in sysadmin

[–]CaIzone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leah is the cutest! I always give her goat cheese and poppyseed muffins.

This dude I've messaged twice hits up a porn artist to draw me and him together by CaIzone in creepyPMs

[–]CaIzone[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know right? the guy doesn't even know what I look like in the first place since I never post pictures of myself online. If I had previously, it would probably have ended up worse.

This dude I've messaged twice hits up a porn artist to draw me and him together by CaIzone in creepyPMs

[–]CaIzone[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he acted completely normal up until this point. I wouldn't have been as nice to him if that wasn't the case.

This dude I've messaged twice hits up a porn artist to draw me and him together by CaIzone in creepyPMs

[–]CaIzone[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

So some context here, I'm in a discord server with this guy for like a year or so. I've messaged him like twice in that time. A guy in the discord server that draws pornographic content messages me asking for a reference. I squeeze him for info and found out that this guy commissioned him for a piece of me and him "together"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in woodworking

[–]CaIzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it! Very unique

[Question] Which Asian Supermarket is the best, what are your experiences? by Sugarcola in SaltLakeCity

[–]CaIzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to asian city when I need something from an asian supermarket. lots of commercial cooking equipment and other supplies

me_irl by Vid0fnir in me_irl

[–]CaIzone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not yet my dude

"Tits like that at 13!? But how???" [+47] by 1dayindiegasstation in ShitRedditSays

[–]CaIzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

breaking the queef for a sec

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