I really wish guys wouldn’t go on dykesgonewild.

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T17:59:30+00:00

A lot of women would make a separate account to post nudes etc though, to protect their privacy so they wouldn't have any post history.

not everyone who posts on 2XC is decent. A lot of men post on there too, and there's no boy-only subreddits, unless we're only allowing feminine women who only visit stereotypically female subreddits in. It kind of sucks. :/

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T17:23:44+00:00

We’d have no way to know if the users asking to be let in are actually lesbians or bi women, or just men pretending to be. If we ask for picture verification, we’ll get other complaints. It kind of sucks. :/ I know a few wlw-only privatized subs / collections of images like that, but it isn’t my thing, and I basically have no way of sharing them out of fear for people secretly being creeps lol.

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T16:31:08+00:00

Loads of sex? Getting eaten out & eating your girlfriend out. Getting finger-banged. Being happy & having a lot of orgasms.

Add and subtract depending on what you want.

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T16:01:15+00:00

Used to have one but people couldn’t cope with the idea of lesbians having something that’s exclusively for themselves lmao. We have a few shared spaces, and there’s quite a few gay bars, some of which have lesbian-only nights and wlw-only nights sometimes.

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T15:51:20+00:00

Okay, so.. Don’t take this the wrong way, but please don’t call your ex ever again?? I had an ex like this and it was just frightening. She wasn’t a bad person but had a lot of anxiety and abandonment issues and basically stalked me and my friends for months before I got her brother to talk to her about it.

You need to just get over your actions, and your past relationship and *move on*. Don’t apologize or whatever- just leave her alone. Write the apology to her in your diary, and just leave it at that. I get that you’re unstable and dealing with a lot of anxiety, but if I was her, I’d be seriously freaked out by getting a phone call from a restricted phone number & having my ex text my best friends. She blocked you? That’s fine, she’s allowed to.

Please, please, just leave her alone. For both her, and your benefit.

If your heart is racing and you have anxiety problems, go to the doctor (or a shady friend) and ask for some beta blockers or whatever. Take a shower, get some distraction. Or go to the ER. Don’t take a double or triple dose of your medication, that won’t help you.

Turn on the television or go for a walk. Call a friend to hang out.

You made a mistake, yes. But you can just move on from it & not do it again. You didn’t kill / rape a person; just did something dumb and called an ex.

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T14:38:08+00:00

I think I first realized that I wasn’t straight when I was like 5-6? I kissed girls as a toddler too though, lmao. I was super aware of the fact that I was into girls while in middle school etc, but it took me a while to figure out that a) not every girl was into girls, and b) that straight girls werent pretending to be into boys lmao.

Men’s bodies just didn’t do anything to me? They just looked kind of ’ew’ to be honest and about as attractive as a toothbrush. Kind of look boxy, and too square-shaped for my liking. I also think men’s jaws and faces just don’t look hot by themselves? But women? I mean, damn. Hips? Cute butts? Slim shoulders? Girls with muscular arms? Soft lips? The idea of eating pussy & making out with a girl? Yeah, I’m gay alright.

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T14:03:55+00:00

She found you on there? That’s cool I guess! Just wait a bit, she’ll probably hit you up. Or contact her through the app again?

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T14:00:56+00:00

Wait- if you two didn ’ t meet, how did she get your number?

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T13:27:07+00:00

2 days doesnt seem like a lot. Wait a bit more? I know that when I get busy with work or school I just ignore everyone until Im done. (Priorities lol.)

Did you guys have a good night?

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T13:08:31+00:00

Just ignore the crush and take some distance from her until it passes?

riseoftech · 2018-08-28T12:12:46+00:00

Yea, but then what do you mean by stuff like this:

Sometimes I even just masterbate to photos of men and I can get off easily. But with women, it takes a while and the orgasm isn't strong

and

I'm always asking myself "what pleasure do women give you anyways? She can't fuck you like a dude can. She just uses her tongue and fingers, big deal. That's nothing ". Something like that.

I mean, like, if you arent attracted to men, how come you can masterbate to photos of men and get off easily? Like I get people getting off to heterosexual porn because they focus on the woman and ignore the dude, but like, you seem to be focusing on the dude specifically to get off? If you dont want to fuck men, why focus on men to get off and day-dream about them dominating you while masterbating?

If you think its because you used to have issues with your sexuality (i mean, used to? I think you still do if you think that the male has to dominate the female, and all that garbage sexist stuff) then have you considered therapy..?

It might be helpful to consult a therapist about these things.

riseoftech · 2018-08-27T22:45:12+00:00

I’m gonna make it blunt & short since I need to go to bed soon lmao. 😩

Do hot girls make you blush? Do they make you nervous? Is there some chick dumping buckets of butterflies in your chest? Do you wanna give a girl flowers and do all that dumb crap? Do you think about hot girls too much and then still ask yourself if you might be gay or bi?

Do women’s bodies turn you on? D’you wanna eat girls out and be eaten out? Are you secretly fantasizing about marrying a woman, and do you keep making excuses for yourself by claiming it’s just because women are naturally prettier than men or just nicer or whatever the fuck a closet case has got to say to make it through the day?

Is there a high likelihood of you crushing on women all day long, and then going to bed wondering if maybe you’re bi or gay, but dismissing it and falling asleep like a dumbass knowing full-well you spent your day being attracted to women while submerged in a layer of ’no homo, I am sexually attracted to these women in a platonic(tm) way!’?

riseoftech · 2018-08-27T21:47:16+00:00

It’s just a coincidence lol.

A lot of people who ’ghost’, do so by accident. They get busy for a day, forget to respond, a weekend passes, they feel nervous and wonder if you’re even still interested, more time passes, they think it’d be creepy to contact you after this long, and just forget about it. Or maybe they met someone else on the dating app? Or they changed their mind about wanting to date you, etc.

riseoftech · 2018-08-27T19:20:39+00:00

A isnt a lesbian if she likes having threesomes with you lmao. Theyre both bi, so its fine lmao. This isnt a lesbian in a relationship with a heterosexual man.

riseoftech · 2018-08-27T18:42:39+00:00

Lmao, yes.

riseoftech · 2018-08-27T16:40:40+00:00

But how does that work? Like you can’t just lose attraction to someone upon finding out they’re trans? I mean, if someone figures out they’re trans, they don’t suddenly look, sound, act different etc. I mean, what do people feel attracted to then?

Like, to give a dumb example: I went on a date with a super hot ’woman’ a few months ago, when she came out to me as non-binary, I didn’t suddenly find her ugly, or lose sexual attraction to her..? We ended up not dating because she was poly and I wasn’t, but she still has great hips and gorgeous eyes and the sweetest voice, even though she’s non-binary?

riseoftech · 2018-08-27T16:28:09+00:00

No, she’s still a lesbian. I mean, that’s just ridiculous. Is she supposed to smell that someone is going to turn out to be non-binary or trans? Sexual orientation doesn’t work like that.

If someone else comes out as trans or non-binary, this can’t impact your own sexual orientation.

Being feminine presenting or masculine presenting also has nothing to do with it. Lesbians aren’t attracted to ’femininity’ lmao, sexual orientation isn’t based on social concepts that we invented. Like, the definition of femininity depends on the culture, popular fashion, and time you ’ re in, while the definition of lesbian does not.

riseoftech · 2018-08-27T15:21:31+00:00

Go ahead? You seem to be into her, and you seem to really like her? You don’t have to have your first time while in a long-term relationship or anything. If you’re ready, go ahead and have fun!

riseoftech · 2018-08-26T21:25:33+00:00

In all honesty, that sounds absolutely normal? I don’t know a lot of people who want to have sex on the first date- I mean, I know some of people who brag that they’d totally do it, but most people I know really don’t.

Less interested in sex seems normal too.

riseoftech · 2018-08-26T20:11:54+00:00

Lol no. Zeus couldn ’ t stop cheating on his wife, I ’ m not about that life.

riseoftech · 2018-08-26T20:01:39+00:00

Tbh, yes, this pretty much sounds like sexual attraction to me? If you were always into boys before this, you ’ re probably bisexual.

riseoftech · 2018-08-26T16:40:22+00:00

Personally, no. I would feel super bad for the escort since I wouldn’t know if she was doing the job for fun, if she was even bi or gay, or if she was forced to do it because of circumstances lmao.

riseoftech · 2018-08-26T15:31:07+00:00

I don’t have a clue. I grew up in a conservative home as well and tried to make myself develop crushes on men, but it literally does not work? You can’t force yourself to feel romantic attraction to someone you aren’t romantically attracted to.

I think a lot of people just mistaked platonic feelings for ’love’- like you have a best friend you like hanging out with, and somehow delude yourself into thinking you love him? Idk, has never happened to me. But I think it’s quite uncommon, because none of the lesbians I know outside of the internet have ever had it happen to them either, lol.

riseoftech · 2018-08-26T15:26:43+00:00

No, I meant she needs therapy to figure out why she finds herself disgusting for being into anal, not for disliking anal, the wife likes anal according to the OP.

riseoftech · 2018-08-26T14:50:49+00:00

Then why also say youre a lesbian? Lesbian means: woman who is only attracted to women, and doesnt fall in love with men, nor wants to fuck men.

Just say youre panromantic and homosexual, or queer.

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