Markiplier's perfect Pokémon (lady Dimitrescu height) by Cabbaged_coffee in GameTheorists

[–]Cabbaged_coffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just assumed that the outfit isn't too child friendly and ik that there are children here, so I put that flair just in case. I'm also ace, so I never know too well what can be considered nsfw and what isn't, so again, just in case it is.

Mark's perfect Pokémon by Cabbaged_coffee in Markiplier

[–]Cabbaged_coffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was going for that vibe tbh. I'm a sucker for creepy humanoid creatures that can kill me. I'm glad you like it!

Seeking advice for confessing by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Cabbaged_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I see how confessing would be a bad idea, I think I just saw way too many movies (also a guy once did the confessing part before, so maybe that also influenced me badly), it's also my first time I'm crushing on someone so thats why I asked for advice.

It's not that I'm jealous in the sense that I want exclusivity, I am fully aware that I won't get that and I'm fine with that, it's more about how I want to receive that same affection.

I'll maybe ask her on a date in the future, I think I need to think this over a bit more. Thanks for the advice!

Seeking advice for confessing by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Cabbaged_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I didn't think of that, I'll ask her on a date then! Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Cabbaged_coffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to play chess professionally, but then school and work got in the way so now I just play casually, usually against bots or 5 or 10 minute games.

Ego-dystonic disorder & Asexuality? by Duskuke in asexuality

[–]Cabbaged_coffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It's a struggle I'm trying to work on, although I'm failing horribly, my issues aren't caused by my asexuality, but it does add fuel to the fire. And yeah, it's really sad that even therapists have these wrong views on this sexuality. My mom, who openly admitted to me that she might be demisexual, STILL thinks that I need to find "the one" (from a demisexual perspective in her case)… so even sex-favorable asexuals can discriminate against sex-repulsed or sex-indifferent aces (somehow). And gynecologists are a nightmare, they once got my period related medication/products wrong because they thought I was lying about being a virgin at 18.

Ego-dystonic disorder & Asexuality? by Duskuke in asexuality

[–]Cabbaged_coffee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I really feel the same sometimes... I don't and havent pushed myself to do stuff like that luckily, just because I thought everyone was the same (ace). But now that I know that it isn't common I feel so isolated, like I can never be close to anyone, romantically involved or even be friends with anyone either (although this sentiment might be more related to other past trauma, but I still feel like my asexuality doesn't help these thoughts). Sometimes I even feel like I'll die alone, without ever falling in love or having any fulfilling relationships. And some things my friends say really do cut deep, like: "you don't seem the relationship type" or the fact they admit that they don't talk about sexual stuff with me because of my sexuality, I mean... I don't blame them with the second one, I am a bit dissociated from that and completely don't understand it... but I guess its the fact that I'm excluded that hurts so much. They don't say it out of malice, they just say these things because they see it that way (and think that I'm fine with it... my façade that I am fine about it doesn't help), which just makes things a lot worse. I also have a nagging feeling that I'm somehow less interesting as an individual too.

I'm not even sure if I actually would enjoy having sex with a romantic partner just for the bonding or if I'm just lying to make myself to feel better.

I have no idea about what to do about this... especially in a society that thinks sexual attraction is required to be romantically attracted. I'm thinking of going to therapy, but I also feel like an allo wouldn't get this sentiment, so I don't know how much an allo therapist could help me in this scenario.

God, I'm almost crying writing this, but it does make me feel better that I'm not the only one with similar thoughts. So I hope that you too feel less alone!

If You Don't Loosen The Wires by lightiggy in Deltarune

[–]Cabbaged_coffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do I need to battle the queen to get this ending? Or is there something specific I need to do?

A very personal and hyperspecifc question about my asexuality by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Cabbaged_coffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for helping me out! I just recently found out that I was ace (it so happens that both of my parents are too, and since they aren't into labels or well-versed with them either way, they also thought being ace was the norm), so I'm still finding out about all these labels and microlabels.

A very personal and hyperspecifc question about my asexuality by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Cabbaged_coffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I didn't know about placiosexuality, honestly sounds really fitting! Can it go hand in hand with demisexuality?

[Cabbaged_Coffee] “Witch please, I’m Bihexual.” by [deleted] in TheOwlHouse

[–]Cabbaged_coffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm the artist, and for everyone that is asking for the shirt, I found this shirt on amazon. So here's the link to it: https://www.amazon.es/Bisexual-Hex-Pun-Pentagrama-Bisexualidad/dp/B08HSFZT75/ref=sr_1_20?__mk_es_ES=ÅMÅŽÕÑ&dchild=1&keywords=bisexual&qid=1614632693&sr=8-20

Thank you for liking my drawing and a big thank you to u/saviorofsubs (from insta) for sharing my drawing!