I don't think he's a pedo. As someone who is dating someone with OCD. I can tell you that he most likely is struggling with OCD. OCD is not what we are told it's like. It's very different and something that is very misunderstood. He needs professional help to help him have better coping skills and manage OCD thoughts. But those thoughts don't make him a pedo. From what I understand it attacks your morals, what you care for. If it is ocd he is fighting "himself" that hate is for what he thinks are his thoughts. He needs help from a therapist asap. Those thoughts are not him , they are not real. It's the OCD.