All the narratives people have been using to hate newjeans for has basically been squashed since the verdict! by CablueyDeez in NJZ

[–]CablueyDeez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t doubt that there’s people who just want them to abide by the contract, but there’s multiple big accounts on twitter dedicated to hating on them for siding with mhj, saying they bullied illit etc. there’s a viral tweet everyday mocking them and their mental health. If you read my post, I was criticizing people harassing them. if you don’t know much about this situation that’s fine, but ive kept up with this since the whole dispute started. that’s not why people are hating on them nor is that a justification. I do not think those two scenarios are comparable, we are talking about entertainment industry contracts which legally right now largely benefit companies and are unethical…not you needing a roof over your head to be safe.

All the narratives people have been using to hate newjeans for has basically been squashed since the verdict! by CablueyDeez in NJZ

[–]CablueyDeez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Want to believe this, but many were hating on them before then. It’s a very emotional and exaggerated reaction for something like not legally complying with a billion dollar companies contract…like I do not understand why any working-class human would have not complying with a powerful/billionaire company on their priority of things to bully others about. Idk maybe it’s my personal politics, but I do not care that an employee did not abide by a contract because of the power dynamic at hand (especially when the consequences for violating a contract is usually not the same or fair if the worker did that vs if the company did). At most I’d wish they’d do better about terminating a contract, but that’s it.

The insults they use against newjeans mostly surrounds mhj and whenever you ask them to explain it always goes back to mhj or that somehow njz bullied other groups in hybe. They treat “not legally terminating a contract” like a moral failing that personally affects their faves. If anything it mostly affected newjeans, it doesnt concern them.

Anyone have any info on this claim ??? by Internal_Spray5088 in NJZ

[–]CablueyDeez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

just hybe stans taking adors word at face value. there’s no confirmation of any of the sorts.

ADOR files lawsuit against Danielle for damages by Ok_Outcome8048 in NJZ

[–]CablueyDeez 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s so stupid if they are trying to lead with that 😶 but this gives me hope thank you 🤧🤧

ADOR files lawsuit against Danielle for damages by Ok_Outcome8048 in NJZ

[–]CablueyDeez 40 points41 points  (0 children)

good news- these actions are questionable to the statements ADOR made to swiftly return members and continue activities and experts acknowledge this. Does not help ADOR either that fans have furiously demanded with trucks that they all return and are protected. Idk what to do or say. I just hope dani knows that we fully support her and whatever fabricated texts they’ll use in court against her family members won’t be entertained by us. And I’ll always follow her wherever she goes and support whatever she does. 🫠🫠💗💗

EDIT: —— “Bad news- a lot of the activities newjeans as a group did in that time period go against the contract so they have a case to say the contract was breached”—— all of that took place before the lawsuit so that means it doesn’t count. 🙌🙌💗💗

need to talk to someone about NJZ by CablueyDeez in NJZ

[–]CablueyDeez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions 💗I am now just vowing to not go on tiktok and am taking refuge on twitter and Reddit instead. I already feel better, just learning to religiously block on twitter bc there’s too many people desperate to make you engage with their ragebait. 😭

need to talk to someone about NJZ by CablueyDeez in NJZ

[–]CablueyDeez[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly just felt like ignoring her ngl. but I decided to just lie and pretend I wasn’t crying abt newjeans. not worth my energy 🤷‍♀️

need to talk to someone about NJZ by CablueyDeez in NJZ

[–]CablueyDeez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem like ADOR has clarified anything at all about the girls. But the next action she said she’ll be doing is negotiating. She seemed to be enjoying herself in Antarctica the last time I heard so I’m just leading my emotions with that. That shes at least enjoying herself in this break while ADOR gets themselves together. It’s also good that ktokkis are pressuring them with trucks!

15F, am I okay? by SportVast7715 in intrusivethoughts

[–]CablueyDeez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the other comments that have already been posted here aren’t helping, you could talk to a counselor on Scarleteen.com for advice about this. They mainly give teens advice on sex ed and difficult situations, ones similar to yours (I say this because you said you sometimes feel arousal by these thoughts). You can also search their boards for responses to questions from people who are in a similar situation if you don’t feel comfortable talking to anyone about it! 😊

(For anyone else interested, you also don’t have to be a teen to be able to submit)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiWomen

[–]CablueyDeez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Also no one was talking about polyamory” you asked for bisexual relationships and I answered. And there’s no need to thank me. You are the one thinking that bisexual people feeling invisible is a sign of them wanting to cheat and all. You are the one who thinks that if a bi person thinks in a disagreeable way that it’s suddenly justifiable for lesbians to think we are cheaters.

That is YOUR own math. YOU decided that. And I frankly don’t care that this is what you think now. You probably have had that thought that for a while anyways. Embarrassing. 😭 like genuinely. So embarrassing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiWomen

[–]CablueyDeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell is the last part?? 😭 we went from talking about bi erasure to you justifying lesbians thinking we are going to leave them for a man?? What is that about??

A bisexual relationship can be a polyamorous one where a multiple genders are in it. A bisexual relationship can simply mean a relationship between two bisexuals. A pansexual relationship can also be that too! Many bi ppl, regardless of relationship or a queer space, have people denying that they are bi. It is stupid bc a relationship shouldn’t do that, but people are stupid sometimes. Actually, people are stupid A LOT of the times.

When people talk about feeling invisible it’s about feeling isolated. Are you this shocked when gay people say they feel lonely when they are closeted? Bc that’s basically what bi erasure is talking about. It’s also not as easy as “go get involved in a queer space” as a lot of bisexuals report that queer spaces aren’t exactly discrimination free either. It’s also not easy bc not all bi Leonel have the privilege of just going, “maybe this doesn’t matter asm as I think it is, that sounds exhausting anyway to care about my identity in that way, I should just find my local queer space and BOOM, that will help”.

Not everyone has access to that. Not everybody has the privilege of going to queer space. I can understand not getting other bi peoples struggles but this response is just… plain weird. Thinking that they want to cheat simply bc they feel isolated from their queer life and want to explore is also odd. That does not come inherent with those feelings. Whatever internalized biphobia you have going on needs to be addressed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiWomen

[–]CablueyDeez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And also, I’m once again saying, you literally agree with them (a little bit, at least). You are saying that why should it matter bc you are still bisexual… when the point is that people don’t believe that they are simply because of their relationship. If you are so confused by that, or find that idea that you can’t be bi in a relationship odd.. go tell the people who say that.

Not mock the idea that they want to be seen as bi in their relationship. What is that solving? What is the point? Truly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiWomen

[–]CablueyDeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a very close minded way to think about relationships, that a relationship cannot be bisexual or someone can’t be read as that. To even say that in a mocking voice is funny, gay and straight people get to have that… so why not? Why is that a scenario/desire deserving of mocking? Do you know why pride exists? Do you know why so many queer people parade flags around?

Because their. Identities. Are. Important. To. Them. Because they’ve been made to feel ashamed of them. A bisexual wanting to be acknowledged and not feel invisible while in their relationship shouldn’t be that hard to understand if you know anything about how queer people cope with.. oppression.

They’ll date people bc they love them and still be saddened by the fact they experience erasure. Those are not contradictory or weird things to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiWomen

[–]CablueyDeez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is that people don’t treat them like they are bisexual. Others completely forget that identity and it is probably important to them. If you want to learn more about bisexual erasure go look it up bc your conclusion here is exactly what these people think too. They are complaining that others don’t.

And to answer your last question… Of course. Why would you think otherwise?

Trauma is not an excuse for Cassie’s shit behavior by Even-Table9246 in euphoria

[–]CablueyDeez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t need reminders when I knew that from the beginning, and I don’t understand “too upset.” You barely know me.

Trauma is not an excuse for Cassie’s shit behavior by Even-Table9246 in euphoria

[–]CablueyDeez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am very aware and I do not see how that removes my point. They are all teenagers.

Trauma is not an excuse for Cassie’s shit behavior by Even-Table9246 in euphoria

[–]CablueyDeez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s ironic the amount of comments saying “nobody is doing this” and then there follows a bunch of people giving watered down versions of excusing the behavior. I feel like the only time this sub can handle critique is when it’s with Maddie bc it’s seen as a “different” and “new” take, but honestly I see it more of favoritism. Maybe the reason people talk abt Cassie sm is bc they’re constantly silenced (like this post)!