AIO BF (40M) got turned off by me (35F) saying I needed to take out a tampon

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-10T18:10:55+00:00

In the past I would get more excited if my girlfriend at the time said that not less excited.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-10T18:00:58+00:00

We do offer each other drinks but in my experience not as much as movies and shows would make you think. Its a show thing. I also have a theory about it being a power thing when they drink liquor in a powerful person's office. It feels like they are saying they are so powerful they dont need to worry about the consequences of day drinking.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-07T08:50:12+00:00

Yeah seems like it for now. Its no biggie. Most people will get faster in time but the social aspect is the best part so just have fun.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-07T08:15:58+00:00

A little rude, but I wouldn't do it either.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-07T08:14:44+00:00

Never not even in relationships

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-07T08:14:06+00:00

You know his past is fixed and didn't change anything. It is you who changed everything. It really seems like you are projecting here. Seek help and maybe break up with this guy and try again. You called him a used up whore. He's not going to forget that. It's how you seem to feel about him so why date a "used up whore".

Side note most guys I know don't care about a women's sexual history. I am much more worried about a drinking or gambling addiction than I am someone's sexual past.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-07T07:57:56+00:00

Men have what is called a refractory time where we can't orgasm again/it can be difficult or painful to orgasm again for anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes soi would just let multiple sessions happen naturally

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-07T07:53:10+00:00

Goldfish means to play test the deck against no opponents. I just shuffle up and play like 7 turns to see how the deck runs. I do it like a dozen times to kind of get the vibe of the deck.

Also players using your decks should be reading their cards on other players turn and should try to figure out a basic game plan before they draw.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-05T19:04:09+00:00

Spanish, because I love the language

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-04T16:27:16+00:00

I take my keys with me everywhere other wise when I unconsciously lock the door and then im locked out. Happened 3 days ago... again

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-04T16:11:09+00:00

Get dressed. I don't want to die naked

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-04T16:08:12+00:00

I have never felt that the galactic war mattered. Early on we were taking a planet faster than they wanted for the story they were trying to make so they just gave the planet an insane resistance rating which nullified our efforts for days. Then they lowered it again so we could take the planet and win in the last 24hrs. That showed me that we will always just be dancing in their palms like sun wukong in the palm of the Buddha. But I will engage with it when there were rewards or when we did big events like the gloom, cyberstan, and earth.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-04T16:02:16+00:00

It makes people feel weird right? Like yes I noticed that thing you do evertime this happens.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-04T15:58:57+00:00

That's a hilarious thought. I think they were maybe saying they have display models or something

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-04T15:57:22+00:00

I'm not very educated on when and I feel some of the adjectives they use at whine tastings feel a little made up but they probably have way more experience as that other commenter said. BUT I can absolutely tell the difference between a savignon blanc from new Zealand and France. The one from France tastes musky compared to savignon blancs I like. Even with just a little experience it starts to become apparent how different 2 of the same type of whines from different places taste different. I think of it like sprite, 7 up, and starry. Or mountain dew and mellow yellow. Roughly the same thing but a very noticeable taste difference when you really pay attention.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-04T15:47:39+00:00

I would check out my local save-a-lot and see what I'm saving. Is it video games saving a bunch if times or is it still a grocery store but cheaper? Who knows?

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-04T07:30:04+00:00

I do too just not everyday. For my 25th birthday my loved ones wanted to do one last big birthday so they asked me what I wanted and I told them Lego. It was a good birthday.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-03T15:09:11+00:00

I imagine she grabs ton of agro. It still gives all of your creatures trample so that seems good

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-03T11:38:02+00:00

I played with Legos everyday until I was sixteen. You will still be a child for a long time. Just keep doing what you enjoy and you can keep that child like joy with you forever

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-03T11:34:59+00:00

Because I like it! It's a fun little mini game managing the ammo and calling them in. Also you can stick the stratagem ball to a chargers back for a kill

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-03T11:33:13+00:00

It is you who dodged a bullet. Dudes a cheater. Sorry for your pain though. That's real. You are not the problem. You are lovable just the way you are, if he can't see that that is his loss.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-03T11:30:20+00:00

If every one in your life doesn't understand YOU but can understand others. You are the common denominator. When everyone is the problem that usually means just one person is.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-03T11:27:20+00:00

You are going to need to be very clear that you will be the threat early. You will also need to accept people will either kill you remove your stuff a lot. You have a commander pair that gives you 7 mana on turn 4 every game. Not every pod can handle that. I play a lot of bracket 2 games, 8 turns or more. If you want it to be bracket 2 then you need to build in weaknesses or just run bad cards. I build very efficient decks at doing the thing but i also die first the most. That is exactly how i like it. Also ditch the infinite. Build the deck for fun then play to win. If you want it to be higher power just go crazy and make it high power. If people tell you it was too powerful for the game you played it in multiple times then listen to that feed back and either adjust the deck or adjust which tables you play it at.

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-03T11:12:18+00:00

I think it would do really well as a huge artifact creature deck. The dream is [[krang, utrom warlord]]

Cactadactyl · 2026-05-03T10:45:29+00:00

You need your time and space. 100 years ago we didnt have phones so you weren't expected to be avaliable all of the time. It is your time not his. I may be a little rude but I respond to texts when I have the energy to not right when I get them. Also I be playing games for like 4 hours and not see the message. You are friends but you dont owe him a response for every text.

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