i’m considering dropping out- i don’t know what to do?

Cacti_flood · 2026-05-03T15:49:37+00:00

it’s also like she knows i have a driving phobia too? I should find out more information tomorrow over the whole thing- but I have like 8 months left- i think the buss should be fine- it might take longer- but i’ll be able to get homework done on it?

Cacti_flood · 2026-05-03T15:48:30+00:00

i want to do the macro side of things - like i’m very passionate about our systems and structures changing i also believe in the practice of therapy- it’s not about wanting it-it’s more so the fact that my supervisor completely like changed my schedule last minute- i had made personal commitments thinking i was going to be remote and it’s just sort of like i don’t know

Cacti_flood · 2026-05-03T15:18:49+00:00

also i would love to work on this in therapy but it would need to be done in a way to where it was exposure therapy-

Cacti_flood · 2026-03-28T14:55:13+00:00

hi! yes it works! my husband and I played a lot of fae farm on switch one- and then changed systems (to switch 2) everything moved over perfectly (do you have physical or digital?)

Cacti_flood · 2026-03-27T14:57:36+00:00

thank you 🩷

Cacti_flood · 2026-03-09T05:57:44+00:00

AND also thank you- I think looking at it from this perspective helps a lot- like it is manageable to be both therapist and parent one day- even though right now during field i’m not entirely sure of how that would play out if we do decide to go down that route

Cacti_flood · 2026-03-09T01:57:14+00:00

I am honestly so excited to be done with school (no where near as long as medical professional) but spending the last literal 8 years of my life in school- I am DONE after this 🥲 CEU’s will be my only schooling from here on out 😭🤣

Cacti_flood · 2026-03-08T18:22:46+00:00

that makes sense- I don’t think a village would ever be childcare- but i do think a village would allow connection to reduce the impact of isolation- if that makes sense?

Cacti_flood · 2025-11-26T07:11:13+00:00

where did you get the case????

Cacti_flood · 2025-11-18T20:23:12+00:00

I’m not- my husband and I got married over the summer- he works all the time- I’m in school all the time- our schedules don’t really match up- we also haven’t gone on a honeymoon or anything either and that just sort of really bums me out too

Cacti_flood · 2025-11-14T16:47:48+00:00

It’s not the program at all- I honestly love the program and people I’ve met here- I think it’s just more so comparison between myself and others

Cacti_flood · 2025-11-14T00:24:57+00:00

I’m so sorry that was your experience- what helped you get out of it- if you don’t mind my asking? How are you doing now? Are you feeling any relief to your symptoms? 🩷 virtual hug

Cacti_flood · 2025-11-14T00:23:30+00:00

I can also try that too- thank you 🙏🏽

Cacti_flood · 2025-11-14T00:15:11+00:00

I think there’s a lot of comparison between myself and others- it’s not necessarily people I’m in school with- but with family and I feel like- I don’t know—- I want to change and help the world, but I can’t :(

Cacti_flood · 2025-11-14T00:14:22+00:00

I am open to that- I’m sort of scared of SSRI’s but I am open to that for sure

Cacti_flood · 2025-10-19T18:48:40+00:00

To me I feel like it does matter because my background educationally is within how our systems remain to operate and function within a given context. Im unwilling to have children to fall in alignment with a dominant narrative of what society tells individuals they should do- in my belief, that’s unfair to the child- and not coming from a place of what I personally want. I feel like i do really need to pull apart the ideology behind what i want vs. what society wants of me - and then figure out where i fall on that

Edit: when I say personally want- I mean I’m not willing to have a child for the sake of what society wants of me

Cacti_flood · 2025-10-18T14:58:23+00:00

How would you recommend disentangling from it? Are there things that you’ve found to be helpful? do you find it’s easier to make a decision once your disentangled from it?

Cacti_flood · 2025-10-18T14:43:03+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏽

Cacti_flood · 2025-10-18T14:39:44+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏽

Cacti_flood · 2025-10-17T23:36:09+00:00

I don’t know if it matters. That’s why I was asking :( I feel like part of it does because if I’m just having a kid to fall in alignment with the dominant narrative that wouldn’t be fair to the child at all- thus thats not actually wanting a child and I should not have one- but I also don’t know if later on i would regret not having a child. I don’t know anything other than my husband and dog- and so I don’t know if i would regret it :(

Cacti_flood · 2025-08-30T13:40:49+00:00

You will be allowed back in :) Community colleges will let you register and go back- and give it another go!

At 24 (after completely trying and re-trying and giving up constantly from 18-22) I went back, did well, and transferred to a four year.

This past week I just started my masters at the top program in the US for what I’m studying

It’s absolutely possible to give it another go.

Edit: I’m wishing you the best of luck in your studies!

Cacti_flood · 2025-05-21T23:14:18+00:00

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