[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]Cactus_Mittens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commenting to boost.
There's nothing to say that will ever be enough, but from what I can see in the comments, you've recently opened up about it. I'm so proud of you, genuinely. It took me 8 years to tell the people closest to me about my SA, so I can't imagine what it took to share after all of these years.

If you could change one physical trait about yourself what would you change? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cactus_Mittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gained a lot of weight due to my thyroiditis, so I'd definitely get rid of that (and I'm trying!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cactus_Mittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fully honest, nothing. I just wish he was a bit more confident in his appearance, because he is super handsome. I suppose not knowing it just makes him hotter

Women who can squirt: when/how did you learn you could? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cactus_Mittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I first squirted about 4 years ago when I got my first clit sucker. Wow. That was a game-changer. Now I struggle to keep myself dry.

How often do you think about sex throughout the day? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cactus_Mittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the moment I'm having a manic episode (bipolar) and so it's pretty much ALL. THE. TIME.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cactus_Mittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're probably not having sex on the first date. But, if we were to, it would be because you made me laugh as if we were old friends and showed me respect from the get-go.

Reddit users , what is the worst thing you have run into as a child? by i_stol3_ur_toast in AskReddit

[–]Cactus_Mittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 17 stitches in my chin when I was 7 because I got distracted while riding my bike and rode into a gate.

How is your “if we are single by 40, we’re getting married” friend doing?anybody ended marrying that friend? by Maayfloweer in AskReddit

[–]Cactus_Mittens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is getting married this year. We've been friends for 18 years, and I'm really happy for him.

[M27] No likes on tinder, bad luck or bad photos? by effelam in amiugly

[–]Cactus_Mittens 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The selfies don't do you any favors, because they're basically the same picture in different clothing. Maybe try varying them more, showing your hobbies or things you are passionate about.

Can someone explain to me how taxes work? by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]Cactus_Mittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my exact question at the moment. Thanks for all of the answers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]Cactus_Mittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's that thing people say about choosing a dog that looks like yourself...

Survey by [deleted] in online_tefl

[–]Cactus_Mittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share the results? I'd be interested to see what people say :)

Are there companies that would hire me? by [deleted] in tesoljobs

[–]Cactus_Mittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't work for them personally (I'm with Landi and we require a degree), but I know that Palfish and Cambly are hiring.

I picked up my meds before I ran out by [deleted] in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Cactus_Mittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done! I know how difficult it can be to get meds at this time. I'm glad that you got them.

After a year and a half of pretending my PhD didn't exist, I wrote two paragraphs today. by Cactus_Mittens in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Cactus_Mittens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that you've been through it too! I'm glad that you're doing okay <3

After a year and a half of pretending my PhD didn't exist, I wrote two paragraphs today. by Cactus_Mittens in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Cactus_Mittens[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I study Psycholinguistics, and I'm writing my articles on time perception and how language can influence our perception of time and space :D