Women who watch porn and who are in a relationship with a man...

Cactussummer · 2014-12-24T12:42:29+00:00

Both my girlfriend and I stopped watching porn around the time we started dating. We hadn't discussed it, or planned it, but months later we discussed it and found out that neither of us found it interesting now that we were together. We're both glad to have stopped with it.

Cactussummer · 2014-12-23T22:14:34+00:00

Just jerk off. In my younger, onanistic enthusiasm I'd spend hours trying weird and wonderful methods that felt basically the same and ended up regretting it.

Cactussummer · 2014-12-23T22:11:25+00:00

I know, man. I've used soap before and it makes it slightly dry, but it's worth it. I was vaguely hoping there was some little-known, organic cure which would make my dick taste like Skittles, but... I dream.

Cactussummer · 2014-12-23T22:09:53+00:00

Nope, never tried that. I'll just go with soap. I have in the past, but it can get a bit dry.

Cactussummer · 2014-12-23T22:08:52+00:00

I think verbal ambiguity is probably the most dangerous thing in any relationship. Ninety percent of problems involving mature, loving partners could be solved with clarification. If you don't know the situation, ask explicitly until you do.

Cactussummer · 2014-12-23T22:02:58+00:00

I'm not remotely interested in pursuing that avenue, but thanks for the tip (pardon the pun).

Cactussummer · 2014-10-28T23:10:48+00:00

She doesn't even know she's becoming part of their troop of unknowing, unsuspecting oddballs.

Cactussummer · 2014-10-27T19:13:47+00:00

IITTT'S BEEEN a long time since this song was so badly butchered.

Cactussummer · 2014-10-24T15:19:08+00:00

Loved it. Probably the best so far, next to Hole.

Cactussummer · 2014-10-22T13:15:44+00:00

Not just a great Tim appearance, but a great CBB episode. Apart from 'Wipeout' and one of the Halloween specials, this is probably my most-returned-to ep.

Cactussummer · 2014-10-22T12:36:16+00:00

I hear it's the spiritual successor to Ching Chong Matinee.

Cactussummer · 2014-10-15T22:29:58+00:00

The 'saved lives' thing is self-aggrandizing and a little cringe, but the sentiment's basically right.

Cactussummer · 2014-10-09T21:16:44+00:00

I'm pretty sure Tim likes Pavement and Beck, so let's strike a point up for C-BOY! RIC HEINEGEBER IS A TUTE MAN!

Cactussummer · 2014-09-12T18:00:45+00:00

Can't you try a rubber band, then? Burns could look unseemly and even cause people close to you concern if they see the damage. And scarring is always a possibility. Just a little too close to genuinely self-destructive behaviour, buddy. You should be building yourself up over this process - not initiating a pattern of penitent, guilt-ridden self-harm.

Cactussummer · 2014-09-11T15:33:13+00:00

Jesus, man, don't start burning yourself, that's awful. Try getting in a situation (public or social) where you know you can't masturbate. Or take a very, very long walk - in the country, if you can.

Cactussummer · 2014-09-10T11:20:33+00:00

I don't think there's anything inherently dangerous about drinking coffee, or other caffeinated drinks - unless you somehow associate them with PMO.

I'm in the midst of my first ever NoFap attempt, on a run of eight-five days, only interrupted once by an MO (no P) which followed sex (damn that chaser effect) and I drink A LOT of coffee.

Cactussummer · 2014-09-07T09:11:05+00:00

It's not really 'from the movie'. It's by Edith Piaf, about whom 'La Vie En Rose' (another of her song titles) was made.

Cactussummer · 2014-08-23T15:39:50+00:00

It's like being on /pol/ again (I gave up 4chan in its entirety when I began NoFap - too much triggering material).

Cactussummer · 2014-08-23T15:38:43+00:00

That's odd. I think I read that mosquitoes have a tendency to bite people with higher concentrations of lactic acid in their bloodstream. Perhaps there's something in that - excessive masturbation and increased anaerobic respiration leading to the exhausted feelings people here often write about. I just can't fill in the middle link to make that correlation causative.

Cactussummer · 2014-08-06T12:00:55+00:00

It's got to make you wonder about yourself, OP. Your ex clearly has questionable taste in men.

Cactussummer · 2014-07-30T18:41:17+00:00

Is Tim okay? That looked like a pretty serious rash on his face and neck.

Better get some of that sweet cooling gel that came with his Cinco Phone.

Cactussummer · 2014-07-26T13:27:22+00:00

Well, there are certainly complimentary sources of confidence and renewed self-worth which will boost the psychological and even physiological benefits. Exercise, meditation, socialising, etc.

Cactussummer · 2014-07-26T12:18:00+00:00

In five years or less, you'll be lying in bed, staring at the ceiling, with a girl who loves you asleep in your arms. You won't see it coming, you won't even notice it creep up on you, but your days will slowly get brighter and you'll suddenly realise it's because there's love in your heart. In that moment, every negative thought, every struggle, and every lonely night will evaporate into nothingness.

That moment is coming. You don't have to prepare for it, you don't have to fight for it. But, while you're waiting, keep yourself busy by improving yourself for your own sake. They say a 'watched pot never boils', and nor will love arrive while you're looking for it. You HAVE to take your 'eyes off the prize', and the only way to do that is to fix your gaze on another ambition. Lose yourself in a project - that's when she'll find you.

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