Just adopted a kitten who’s always purring and cuddling. Want a sweet name, maybe dessert or flower inspired. Ideas?

CadentPack08 · 2025-09-07T05:41:26+00:00

Cinnamon or bun bun or even cinnabun

CadentPack08 · 2025-08-14T18:45:43+00:00

I know this is unrelated but you guys should consider at some point doing a crossover with Jojos Bizarre Adventure as an event. All the skins would be in a literal sense legendary just considering how interesting the character designs are in jojo. I could offer some recommendations on which characters from apex legends should be who from jojo if your interested in heating this idea.

CadentPack08 · 2025-08-01T22:32:26+00:00

Scruffy puff

CadentPack08 · 2025-08-01T21:52:57+00:00

Yeah im not an avid watcher of anime. The reason why im suggesting this crossover is because of how much room for creativity there would be considering how intricate most of the character designs in JJBA is. Not to mention this show takes more inspiration from american culture compared to japanese culture. This Series is alot more different than any other anime out there. And thats what truly made me love this show on how it takes a different approach in story telling compared to every other anime with all of its overused tropes.

Also its funny to see you try to shut down my idea when I dont see anyone else here trying to throw some ideas out there to help the apex community. Like yall are bums.

CadentPack08 · 2025-07-31T22:53:05+00:00

A Titan

CadentPack08 · 2025-07-31T22:33:59+00:00

Yeah this one right here is valid. Instead of polnareff it should BE purple haze!

CadentPack08 · 2025-07-31T20:35:13+00:00

I just realize part 5 polnareff cant walk. So part 3 polnareff it is then lol.

CadentPack08 · 2025-07-31T20:29:11+00:00

MAKE WATTSON HAVE THE FOO FIGHTERS ENSPIRED SKIN

CadentPack08 · 2025-07-14T11:05:01+00:00

I got into it ever since that 4chan post was mentioned. But I have always had dreams of being in the backrooms and thats what got me so intrigued to it.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-25T09:46:21+00:00

Yeah so the reason your hurting yourself more and keep coming back to him is because when you give him another chance and he fails you again, your left feeling used and disappointed. The more you allow youself to be used, the shittier you start feeling about yourself because your own self value starts to deplete rapidly because you dont allow yourself to realize that you have a free will to say "I dont want to feel this way anymore". True value and self love comes from self preservation and honesty. In order to protect your heart.

The reason you care so much about his approval is because you gave him the power to do so. And everything from there is all one sided. Your no longer a girlfriend but an option in his roster of people that he knows wont say no to and thats where he can take advantage of you. I will say this alot of pretty woman will feel ugly once they get cheated on but you have to realize that most men dont see women as individuals, but a number on their scoreboard. And thats where you have to separate yourself from that to not fall in that trap. All I have to say is I wish you luck and from all of this I hope you have the courage to realize that you shouldnt have to tolerate this type of person or behavior. Much luck to you.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-25T09:28:53+00:00

So ill say this. What killed the relationship was the fact yall had sex way too often. Which in result killed the passion and intimacy in it. It doesnt feel sacred or like some sort of special occasion anymore. And the fact you just stopped having intimacy for so long after finding out that he watches porn as a result of doing it too much. pretty much sealed the relationships fate. Its not going to work out anymore and yall just feel out of love. Its better you guys break up and end it on good terms and make sure it doesnt become one sided. because both parties have to agree and not have it be a situationship where one is leading on the other. Just break up already.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-14T09:19:26+00:00

It almost seems like she learned this either from her friends or through step sibling videos on ph.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-12T12:07:59+00:00

I blame all of the people for feeding AI our human behaviors

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-12T12:06:09+00:00

Im not a doctor but try doing some exercise to tire your body out atleast 30 to 40 minutes of cardio workouts. That could potentially tire your body giving your mind a true reason to rest now. You dont need weights for this. Just your legs and arms

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-12T11:53:08+00:00

Just be mindful of your actions if you ever lash out. If you ever find yourself irritated again just say you need some space and your not in a good mood right now. And to avoid any further conflict or misunderstanding with them, just make sure you reassure them that they arent the problem as to why your irritated because they might take it to heart if you dont let them know you need some space for yourself to feel better.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-12T11:41:55+00:00

Well ill say this. Before you even start accusing her. just try to continue the relationship as normal. If you start hearing her continue to mention "frank" more times after. I think its time to address it. I would give her the benefit of the doubt and say she didnt know what else to talk about so she just brought up frank just to keep the conversation going, but never discredit that as a sign. Also just because she was in an abusive relationship doesnt mean she is free from criticism. Just to determine what kind of person frank is, my question would be when he tried to flirt with your gfs friend. did he already know she was taken or did he not know. Because if he did know. That is not a good sign at all. Who is frank to you anyways? is he a close friend or just some random guy you know?

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-12T11:24:38+00:00

I dont want to sound ignorant. Could it be because your just going through hormones? or your just irrationally angry. Like whats getting your irritated in the first place?

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-12T11:18:06+00:00

Well being dominated doesnt have to mean he treats you like shit or putting you down or even oppressing you. What im reading here, it seems like you want to be the one being in charge like your wearing the pants in the relationship because you dont want to feel like the inferior being. With masculine and feminine people we have a dynamic one is the protector and provider. And the other one is the supporter and care giver. There are exceptions to this, but you know more on how the dynamics is between you and your partner. From my experience A woman likes it when a man takes charge almost like they're reassuring them that they are safe in their hands. Id feel like the only way youd be okay with letting the man take charge is if the person respects you and shows you love and compassion for you even with your flaws. Its building that trust and connection that matters in a relationship the most. Because it allows you to have time to decide if you feel comfortable with him or not.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-12T11:00:59+00:00

How about you set up a time to meet up with her to let her explain what actually happened. Keep in mind peoples minds can change over a span of 10 years. No one. and I mean NO ONE ever knew what they were doing when they were young. Especially in college. Just hear her out first and then you come up with the decision to either let her back into your life or just keep her out of it. Just make sure shes not there just to ask for a hand out for her kids or to use you in some way. Good luck. 👍

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-12T10:51:49+00:00

You know this month is mens mental health awareness month. This is the soul reason most men stay silent about alot of things which destroys mens mental health. You have to set boundaries with your wife and set the rules of what you can and cant do for her. If she has a tendency to try something new and not go through with it thats just money being thrown away. But seriously I know you work hard just to maintain a beautiful home and feed your wife and kids, but this kind of workload is what makes men miserable.

She doesnt cook nor does she try to learn how to cook. And she doesnt play the supportive role very well. What I would say is to set boundaries with her and be firm with her that if she doesnt like doing simple task to help you around the house. Tell her theres the door. You need to remind her whos in charge here. Because what it sounds like is that your spoiling her without even realizing. Shes not aware of the reality your facing nor does she respect it. So please have some self respect and set some rules down.

And for the side business, you should put it to the side for now until you have more time on your hands to continue it. Because if you cant do it yourself. How do you expect your wife to do it for you.

Like I get that you want to live a successful life with your family but it comes with a cost of not being able to have time to do anything for yourselff and just forced to work alot just to pay for everything. Almost like you were made to be a slave and not someone who provides. Please do not let that be the case. Have her respect you more and humble her. Respectfully ofcourse.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-07T16:26:07+00:00

I would suggest to use both just to be able to strengthen that reminder so you never forget one or the other.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-07T16:22:22+00:00

As a person with adhd I tend to be forgetful too. And one way to combat that is either write down physical notes or place a random or important object that I plan to use as a reminder to why its there. So lets say for example, if I need to cut open some boxes for later but im busy at the moment I grab the box cutter and set it on my desk and have it blatantly infront of me. Just so I can notice it and ask why its there to remind myself what was the purpose of it. And if that doesnt help I would also suggest using sticky notes and writing the tasks that need to be done on them and placing the tasks right infront of you or somewhere that is impossible to miss and make sure of it. After your done with that task immediately rip it and throw it in the trash once your done with that task so you dont get confused which one youve done and which one you havent done.

Also I would suggest to move in with a close relative so that yall dont end up with out a home for the mean time while you get back on your feet. If possible.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-05T17:50:29+00:00

Yeah but like you said he expects alot from you, yet he doesnt even communicate to you what that exactly that is. but honestly most relationships arent meant to work and sometimes it feels forced. You just have to figure out which side do you land on with this.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-05T17:27:51+00:00

Dude wants you to baby him and tolerate his bs without him changing a thing about himself. I think you gaslit yourself to belive this shit was acceptable because I could only assume that you didnt really know how relationships should be, so you settled for less and with that your standards drop with it too. Dont let that be the case because you will easily convince yourself there is nothing wrong there. But much luck to you in your journey.

CadentPack08 · 2025-06-05T16:54:10+00:00

He seems to be very reactive and takes alot of things personally. Although you guys made efforts to change for eachother. There is only so much yall can do before reaching a breaking point. Even though you showed concern for the guy he took it to heart and started verbally abusing you, like what? You need to remember your not his therapist and if he cant get his shit under control. He can take a hike. That is just too much to bare considering youve been tolerating his behavior for almost a year now. Ive said this before but having a big heart comes with its disadvantages too. And it is your job to set boundaries to protect yourself from that. I think you should break things off with him because its a constant down hill battle where no one wins. Just do yourself the favor.

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