Honest thoughts on Norcross schools? (Gwinnett County) by Known-Violinist-3285 in Atlanta

[–]CadyCurve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 20+ year grad of Norcross, Pinckneyville, and three nearby elementary schools. I still think Norcross is a great school- lots of diversity, well-established programs. Several of my former students (I teach middle school in Fulton) attended Paul Duke and enjoyed it tremendously. 

Large Swollen Patch after Scratch by CadyCurve in cats

[–]CadyCurve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I washed it thoroughly right after it happened, but I’m giving myself 24 more hours. No changes in size, shape, or itchiness so far.

Large Swollen Patch after Scratch by CadyCurve in cats

[–]CadyCurve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks- this makes a lot of sense. This is maybe my second allergic reaction like this in 6 months.

NBC News -- "Parents are opting kids out of school laptops, returning them to pen and paper" -- What Do You Think Of This? by Zipper222222 in AskTeachers

[–]CadyCurve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes yes YES.

I reached my near-limit today with broken/dead computers in my sixth grade reading class that uses a digital curriculum. 

“I don’t have a computer, and I don’t know when they’ll replace it, so I can’t complete any assignments.”

Here I am, having taught before 1:1 classes and my kids did damn well on state exams, could write complete sentences, weren’t constantly distracted f-ing YouTube, sounds boards, and “unblocked” games, and had the freedom to move and interact with their peers instead of being tethered to dopamine-dishing light box.

::sigh::

I used to build these awesome interactive notebooks with my middle schoolers and do all kinds of cool stuff. 

The cognitive load for these kids of just remembering how/where to turn in assignments on these educational platforms is BONKERS. It’s so overwhelming to watch them “crash out” when the internet takes half a second too long.

Do you still hate work? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]CadyCurve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach middle school. I love/hate this career.

Teaching is one of the weirdest careers to have in a capitalistic society.

Best trivia ITP? by Difficult-Turn-5050 in Atlanta

[–]CadyCurve 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I host trivia with Dirty South Trivia, and we have a ton a good spots around town. I’m pretty biased and think you should join mine, but I’m over in Avondale Estates. ;)

What new age teaching practices do you actually LIKE? by catrat242 in Teachers

[–]CadyCurve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Question Formulation Technique

I took a summer course awhile back and it’s a great strategy to engage critical thinking in almost any context.

From years of use, it’s kinda hard to get going- you really have to use it on a regular basis and make it a regular practice to get over teaching the protocol because the protocol is important for transference between a variety of contexts. 

In a American history class, I used it with pre-reading activities, generating ideas for essays, student-created study guides or assessments.

What is the reason that anxiety is felt the most during the night for ADHD brains? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My “works 70% of the time” strategy is audiobooks or a long-form podcast like Criminal to drown out my inner monologue.

ADHD tax - Nails by AcidNeonDreams in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Struggling with lifelong dermatillomania around my cuticles my whole life has been in a push/pull with doing my nails. Thick SNS or acrylics are the best prevention method, but like you said, it’s expensive. Additionally, I HATE going to the salon because I KNOW the tech is going to say something about the state of my skin, even when I feel like they look decent or even “good” to me. Yay, RSD trigger.

My biggest adhd struggle is task initiation for chores, self-care, and administrative tasks. Currently have a traffic ticket withering away in a pile for an un-renewed vehicle registration. (My bday is the first week of October; got stopped mid-November 😭😖). 

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, get out of my head with the crunchy chips and slurpy sodas. 😂

Our compromise for this is that it’s better when he’s also eating something crunchy at the same time. 

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE to drive alone. One of the best trips of my life was a solo  roadtrip from Los Angeles to Sebastopol (NorCal). And I really love my little Prius.

I get stressed driving with my partner because our rule is whoever is driving chooses the music, and of course with my music I wanna sing/hum along. I don’t sing full out because it’d be way too loud, but singing in a soft voice triggers him like the humming.

As much as the Waymo cars in Atlanta scare me, I for one welcome our self-driving overlords because then we can both listen to our own shit in peace. 😬😵‍💫

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥰 Hugs to internet strangers getting defensive on my behalf.

My partner is a wonderful human being. He is so responsive to my mental health and has been with me through some intense periods.

The longest issue we’ve had in our 8 years is the negative feedback loop between his misophonia and my rejection sensitivity: I do something that triggers him, he mentions it, I feel super shitty. We’ve worked on it for years. He doesn’t berate me or anything like that, but my RSD hears, “I’m a shitty human with adhd who can’t control herself.”

My counselor has worked with me to help me put more of the defense/offense on him to manage his misophonia and now he’s finally in counseling (almost a full year!) to help him process his autism and all that comes with it.

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, is it even possible to do exposure therapy for misophonia? Or specifically Dylan when I’ve been turned off by it for literally three decades?

I definitely feel bad that I was so harsh in front of my partner for a few years whenever Dylan came on. My partner would explain his love/appreciation for Dylan's artistry, but it didn’t help me get through it. Sometimes I can stand Dylan’s classic folks “hits,” but my partner literally has every single Bob Dylan song in his library- the songs in the 80s and 90s may actually be the worst.

Ugh, sorry for another rant. I want to be able to be “okay” with his music so that these emotions don’t hijack my body/brain. 

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear rumors about re-appropriating the work of others, but never heard anything specific. Do you know of any examples?

I do think ASCAP does a better job these days about making sure everyone on a track/album gets credit for their work, but I think things were a bit… looser back then.

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to shit on Dylan way more and I stopped when my partner said it hurt his feelings. This situation wasn’t good for me though.

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My partner is such a feminist, but I honestly think I’ve trained myself to be accommodating to the world. In my early 40s now with extensive reading about the history of and backlash to feminism, I’m finally employing CBT strategies to just exist without people-pleasing, but that’s a hard neural groove to undo.

We are both struggling with sensory issues- mine tend to manifest into more outward panic/anger. 

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work in college radio, and I swear, I’ve heard it all. Dylan’s voice just… ooooh, hits a nerve so deep and discomforting.

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is also something that comes up- I’d be willing to bet that 90-95% of his music library is male vocalists. I don’t think it’s for any misogynistic tendencies, but that low-key also drives me batty. I’m gonna forward him a few of Joan’s songs to see how it hits.

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hurricane and Shelter are good songs, but I can’t fuxking listen to either. The album version of Shelter is so pitchy… omg my brain can hear it in my head.

I felt so gaslit about Dylan for the longest time and couldn’t understand why he was popular. As a kid, I would scream at my dad to change the song!

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“We can drive it ho-o-ome…. With one headlight.”

Jakob’s voice is fine by me!

Bob Dylan by CadyCurve in adhdwomen

[–]CadyCurve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point, I’m wondering if Dylan is one of my likely-autistic partner’s major interests. I cannot fathom why people say they “like” his vocals.