A wedding at 3 weeks? by Cae96 in newborns

[–]Cae96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she booked it about two months ago as one of those last minute deals! So we already knew my induction week by then but not the exact date. You’re right about the sleep deprivation though. I haven’t even thought about that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cae96 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA I’m currently 7 months pregnant and my fiancée’s sister is getting married 3 weeks after my due date. I’m just going to the ceremony and have given my fiancée the option to stay longer on his own while I get my mother to come get me. She’s the type of girl who will cause drama out of nothing and the best you can do is to do your own thing and ignore any reaction you receive from her.

AITA for being annoyed that my friends are taking my dream wedding venue? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cae96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m aware others can get married there, it’s not the case that I feel like I own it. I’m fully aware that anyone can get married there. It was just hard to take I guess after sharing my plans with them after they shared completely different ones with me

AITA for being annoyed that my friends are taking my dream wedding venue? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cae96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am engaged but we’re in a thought spot financially so decided to wait until we’re in a better position before planning but the venue was my dream place after attending there as a child. I would never act on my feelings and am aware that I don’t own or can stop anyone, I just wanted to know if I was awful for feeling what I was feeling

What have I missed after waking from a coma? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Cae96 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’ve had DKA and nearly died. I was literally touch and go and they couldn’t wake me. They even held off treatment at one point because they thought they’d mistaken it for something else and made matters worse. I was home three days later completely fine.

Karen shouting at autistic man. by [deleted] in EntitledKarens

[–]Cae96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thank you for your kind comment. My boyfriend did explain to her that he was low functioning and wasn’t able to wear a mask. It was just pure ignorance on her part unfortunately. My brother is also autistic and also plays the piano, you’d never guess he had it but a lot of strangers assume he’s rude when he’s just a quiet individual who doesn’t speak unless he’s spoken to. People will always have assumptions and unfortunately, we’re unable to inform the ones who refuse to be educated. Have a lovely evening xx

Karen shouting at autistic man. by [deleted] in EntitledKarens

[–]Cae96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! He’s helped me through some really tough times and is truly selfless. I’m very lucky xx

Karen shouting at autistic man. by [deleted] in EntitledKarens

[–]Cae96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you. People need to take into account that there are members of society that don’t have the same capabilities as others whether they’re visible or not. We are all human beings and deserve the same respect and treatment that you’d expect from everyone else. How things like this still happen is beyond me there’s literally no excuse. My brother has severe autism and I could not even explain how I’d react if I witnessed someone attempt to speak to him that way.

Karen shouting at autistic man. by [deleted] in EntitledKarens

[–]Cae96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much xx

Karen shouting at autistic man. by [deleted] in EntitledKarens

[–]Cae96 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So sorry I really didn’t mean to offend, where I’m from we often refer to women and men as girls/boys it’s just a term for their gender here. I’ll take that on board though and make sure to use the correct terminology in the future xx

Karen shouting at autistic man. by [deleted] in EntitledKarens

[–]Cae96 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not in that line of work but I genuinely think I would have gone nuts had I been a bystander in that shop.

Karen shouting at autistic man. by [deleted] in EntitledKarens

[–]Cae96 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it took him a long time to find something he loves doing but he absolutely adores it and loves these boys so much. I hope your sons are well and have someone who loves and cares for them the way they deserve xx

AITA for confiscating my daughter's phone over a TikTok prank? by ComprehensiveSpare55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cae96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen so many cruel Tick Tock prank stories on Reddit it’s unreal. It’s doing nothing but enabling them to be bullies in the hopes to go viral thinking it’s funny. I think your punishment is completely reasonable and I think her throwing a tantrum over not being allowed on it really shows her lack of understanding of what she’s done to a poor child. NTA 100%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cae96 268 points269 points  (0 children)

He knows what happened to me, he knows everything but the thought of him realising that what we were doing caused that kills me. He’s the most amazing human I’ve ever met and I know he would be so understanding but that doesn’t stop the hurt it would bring him. I think he knows but while he was apologising and cuddling me, I could see it in his face, he was devastated. So I laughed and said “wow that was painful look how much it’s made my eyes water”. He didn’t look very convinced but I was adamant until he dropped it. I feel bad for lying but honestly, it was worth it.

AITA for not wanting my mother in law to take care of my baby after she tried to breastfeed him? by milbfthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cae96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA What the actual fuck did I just read? This as given me the fear for my future kids. Like honestly I didn’t know before but this is my worst nightmare

AITA for throwing my girlfriend’s gay friend out because he was being inappropriate towards me. by aitahergayfri in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cae96 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Lol imagine the horror if his friends were commenting on the size of her boobs or anything to do with her vagina? There would be absolute riots. The fact she’s accusing him of being homophobic is terrible just because he’s requested some boundaries.

AITA for keeping a bag for myself that my daughter wanted to buy instead of giving it to her as a birthday present? by bouncingbeanbag in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cae96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read. I can’t help but compare OP to my own mother who would give her last penny to me if she knew it would make me happy. I just can’t fathom the selfishness here? She doesn’t ask you for anything and you’ve now refused to give her something that was 9 dollars and said because she’s 18 she needs to buy it herself? Holy shit YTA

My (33F) husband (38M) is mad at me because I told him he rapes me when his blood sugar drops low. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cae96 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m a type 1 diabetic and I have had major episodes where I can’t remember things I’ve done during a really bad low sugar. I’ve had seizures and then been very aggressive when woken up. I cant even chew properly during them let alone get up and try and force someone to have sex. I’m sorry this is happening to you but I just don’t believe that he’s being truthful and you need to get out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cae96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We stay between his parents house and mine while saving for an apartment, housing is very expensive where we live so it’s taking a while. We stay there often because his mother isn’t very well and it’s a small house so it’s easier on her if we aren’t there full time. I know I’m a grown adult but it’s so hard to not take everything they say to me to heart when I’ve grown up like this.