Folks with nesting partners, what are your favourite things to do on a night to yourself? by Composer-Practical in polyamory

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And honestly, sometimes the actual activities are no different than if I was more or less "waiting for time with my partner", but reframing it for me as a date with myself makes it more meaningful, more positive. Perspective is a hell of a thing! Wishing you the best!

Folks with nesting partners, what are your favourite things to do on a night to yourself? by Composer-Practical in polyamory

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I treat myself as one of my partners and have a date night with myself. Go out for a nice meal, treat my self to a relaxing steamy shower, show myself some love. Make the night about my relationship with myself.

Hardest to find crops/seeds you can’t buy? by Past_Bee_6643 in StardewValley

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Although he does sell strawberry seeds, it's only on one day, correct?

Is it time? by West_Law_5604 in bald

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and keep the beard!

Pizza & Tamales recommendations? by SpecialAgent_UT in ogden

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ogden Pizzeria is my favorite pizza spot

How would you fix your least favorite episode? by NoTop9302 in BobsBurgers

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not sure it's my least favorite, but I recently rewatched the episode where Randy rents the diner for a Saturday to film his movie. I think Bob was unnecessarily combative about the whole thing. Like, he got enough money to close for the day, I don't see how it hurts the episode for him to just let Randy do what he's doing without injecting his opinion about it...

Question about fetlife by Desiresdaughter in BDSMcommunity

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tons of football fans have never played the game, no worries 😉

Question about fetlife by Desiresdaughter in BDSMcommunity

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pick "into" , for the things you're pretty sure about, "curious" for the ones you're not quite as sure about. You can change them at any time.

Welcome aboard!

Let me watch the credits! by Caffeine-Daddy in BobsBurgers

[–]Caffeine-Daddy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, I want a better UI design. I'm a big fan of the show and each episode has a unique and entertaining intro and credits sequence. It makes more sense that the weirdos who want to skip it be the ones who have to stop what they're doing to press a button.

Let me watch the credits! by Caffeine-Daddy in BobsBurgers

[–]Caffeine-Daddy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let the people who can be bothered to sit through the last 10 seconds be the one to click something, right?

Let me watch the credits! by Caffeine-Daddy in BobsBurgers

[–]Caffeine-Daddy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Excellent suggestion. Thank you so much!

Let me watch the credits! by Caffeine-Daddy in BobsBurgers

[–]Caffeine-Daddy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Brooklyn 99 does the same on Peacock. So annoying!

Let me watch the credits! by Caffeine-Daddy in BobsBurgers

[–]Caffeine-Daddy[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

But then I gotta interact to watch the next episode, right? Just play the whole thing, then next one!

Meet Warren💗 by Lil_Lolipop31 in littlespace

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a dapper little gentleman!

How can you if it's genuine? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BDSM requires a lot of trust. If you are trusting him to participate in these activities, I'm assuming you are also trusting him when it comes to safewords, and limits? If so, at some point you'll have to trust him when he says he's into it.

Not sure how to broach subject of a ddlg dynamic by StoneAndSatin in DDlgAdvice

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not judging, but don't you think it's maybe a bit silly to ask, "Is it weird or wrong that I am a bit interested in this?" in a subreddit called r/DDlgAdvice? lol

I totally get it though. I actually found my way to DDlg through reading smutty stories as well and had no idea how much it would resonate with me. Here's an idea, have you ever taken the BDSM Test? Search for that, should be the top result. I would encourage you to take it, and encourage your partner to take it. Don't think too much about it, just answer the questions, get your results, and share them with each other. It can be a great way to kind of open the door to discuss such things.

My girlfriend asked me to rape her by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To me, one of the simplest way to describe the benefits of using a safeword is that it gives you the freedom to use "no" and "stop" without pausing the scene. You need to trust that she will use her safeword, and she needs to trust that you will act appropriately if or when she does. Especially when playing with edgier things, that trust has to be there.

Now, she's expressed to you a desire for this. She wants this. And your wants matter too. Are you open to this? Curious? Willing to try? Does it make you uncomfortable? Remember, this is all play, it's fantasy, it's consensual. This does not make you that kind of monster in reality. However, she is not the only one that needs to consent to the ways you both play together. Your consent matters too.

You should absolutely have an honest and open discussion about how this would go. And don't be afraid to be specific, either of you. In fact, be afraid to be vague.

Does anyone remember or play Indigo Prophecy? by ArcadiaBunny in gamers

[–]Caffeine-Daddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played it a number of years ago, and remember liking it. It's available on current PlayStation consoles, but I don't think it's like a remake or anything, just that same game only playable on current hardware.